Scorpio People Can Learn A Thing Or Two From This:

Scorpio people can learn a thing or two from this:

Scorpio placements are not as emotional and spiritual as they are made out to be. Immature Scorpio can be some of the most superficial and toxic people ever. They can be controlling, impulsive, manipulative, idealize others, gossiper, selfish, reckless with money and sex. Depending upon other placements, they can be obsessed with status, respect, power and authority, thus making them proper narcissist.

If you are a Scorpio placement and are aware of your own narcissistic patterns, then you can try to change yourself. Why? To literally become a better person, if you do care about that. To become a better friend, partner, son/daughter, father/mother, sibling and a better human in general. Narcissistic people are a pain in the ass and you will invariably attract other narcissist, codependent, emotionally disturbed or mentally ill people in your life. On videos like the above, so many comment "I am an empath and my narcissist ex/parent was so abusive uh huh" but what they seem to ignore is their own narcissistic shadow. The fact that a narcissist was in your life is proof that you're not as innocent as you think you are. Time for shadow work. You were codependent, insecure, people pleaser, selfish too. An "empath" is also a narcissist but in other ways. I wonder what narcissistic traits Dr Ramani is hiding behind her mask? Is her YouTube channel a tool for status, superiority, power and idealization from "victims of narcissist abuse"? I hope Dr Ramani is self aware and keeps reflecting on herself as well. She better not become a narcissist herself.

Self awareness comes with self destruction and reconstruction. It will not be easy. Nobody said it would be easy. It will not be quick. You might spend your whole life trying to become a better person. It will not be pretty. Self transformation is ugly and chaotic. It will not feel good. Facing your bad traits is mind numbing and trying to change yourself is extremely painful. For every self destructive trait, you will need a creative and constructive outlet to replace that energy and void. I personally despise feel good astrology or feel good spirituality. The astro community is full of all the "aesthetics, synastry, relationships, manifestations, personality traits". All that is good and fun but it does not help clean the dirt off the heart. It does not make me a better person to know that I give femme fatale vibes because I am Scorpio rising.

For eg, I write blog, read books, write journals, do meditation to channel my toxic traits into healthier ways.

Does it even matter? Yes it matters to me. What will I gain from being a better person (narcissist supply)? Probably, inner peace, humility, empathy.

7th Ruler Through The Houses:

How You’ll Meet Your Future Spouse

Their Personality

Your Relationship Together

What Is Your 7th House Ruler?

It is the planet that rules the Zodiac Sign of your 7th house

Each of us has a Zodiac sign covering 7th house, check what it is

Then check the planet that rules that Zodiac sign

Example: If your 7th house is in Gemini, then the Planet that rules Gemini is Mercury, so you would look to the house Mercury is sitting in to read this post. Mercury is your ”7th house ruler”

Here are the (traditional) planetary rulerships for each sign:

Aries & Scorpio: Ruled by Mars

Taurus & Libra: Ruled by Venus

Gemini & Virgo: Ruled by Mercury

Leo: Ruled by Sun

Cancer: Ruled by Moon

Capricorn & Aquarius: Ruled by Saturn

Sagittarius & Pisces: Ruled by Jupiter

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7th Ruler In the 1st House:

Meeting: likely to meet when you are putting yourself out there. A time where you asserting yourself. When you are very visible in the world. Meeting them when you’re by yourself. A time period where you are being independent. Could meet by being introduced through a mutual acquaintance.

Personality: the kind of person who mirrors you. Someone who is similar to you. They compliment your personality. Someone who is direct. An autonomous or independent person. A person with a similar nature to Aries.

Relationship: a relationship where you learn to cultivate balance. A union where you help each other develop your own identity. A relationship where you’re both independent. A dynamic that clarifies your life path & helps you follow your purpose.

7th Ruler In The 2nd House:

Meeting: likely to meet in a hedonistic or indulgent sort of place. The mall, the spa, restaurants. Can meet an a luxurious or upscale place. Meeting in a way where you exchange money or goods. Meeting at the bank or a financial related place.

Person: the kind of person who is sensuous, indulgent or materialistic. Someone who is wealthy or has money. Someone who is grounded, loyal, possessive, supportive. Someone “Taurean” or “Venusian” in nature.

Relationship: a relationship involving material exchange. Someone who supports you financialyl. A person who give you gifts and sustains your basic needs. Having assets together. Being indulgent together. Through this relationship you create and experience stability.

7th Ruler In The 3rd House:

Circumstance: meeting them through social media, dating apps, online. Meeting through one of your hobbies. Meeting them when you’re gaining a new skill: learning something/ taking a class. Meeting them when you’re in a really busy time of your life. A time when you’re socializing a lot. Meeting on a trip or something to do with driving.

Person: someone who is talkative, childish, playful, witty, intelligent, or humorous. Someone that has many different skills or hobbies. The kind of person to be communicative and opinionated. Someone who can be sort of “Gemini-like”

Union: a relationship that is like a friendship. A dynamic where you’re competitive together. Can feel like a “sibling” dynamic. A union where you communicate together, exchange ideas and learn from each other. Being on social media together.

7th Ruler In The 4th House:

Circumstance: meeting them through mutual family members or extended family. Can be someone from your past and you reconcile later on. The circumstance can relate to home/property or even real estate. You can meet them in your home town or home country.

Person: someone who is home + family oriented. A traditional person. Someone who is protective, nurturing protective, caring, nurturing, or supportive. Someone’s who could be motherly. The kind of person who is “Cancerian” in nature.

Relationship: the kind of relationship where the desire is to build a legacy. Creating a family with this person. Establishing a foundation with them. Building a sanctuary/home with them metaphorically or literally.

7th Ruler In The 5th House:

Circumstance: meeting through one of your hobbies. Meeting at place having to do with entertainment: theater, festival, concert, event. Meeting at a time in your life where you’re focused on fun, pleasure and enjoyment. Anywhere relevant to children or games. Meeting through casual dating.

Person: someone who is creative, flamboyant, artistic, glamorous and romantic. Someone who could be famous or popular. Someone who likes to indulge in their hobbies. Someone with a child-like temperament. Could be “Leo-like” in nature.

Relationship: having a union that is playful & romantic. Going on dates and exploring together. Relationship like a rom-com. A union that brings out your inner childlike. Having common hobbies together.

7th Ruler In The 6th House:

Circumstance: meeting them during your daily routine. At work, at the gym, going to the dentist or at the spa. Meeting them at a time in your life when you’re focused on your health and wellness. Meeting them while your handling your responsibilities. This person can be your coworker or employee.

Person: someone who is hardworking, dedicated, service oriented, humble, practical. Someone who helps you handle your daily tasks. Someone who is dedicated to the routine. A person invested in their health. The kind of person who is “Virgo-like” in nature.

Relationship: a union where you are of service to each other. A dynamic where you feel like coworkers. A relationship that is healing mentally and physically. A practical relationship, that is purposeful.

7th Ruler In The 7th House:

Circumstance: meeting them in a social setting. Likely to meet through a mutual friend. Meeting them at networking event. Meeting at a time in your life where you are more social and making new connections. Meeting them through a professional setting. Anything to do with contracts, business, the marketplace.

Person: someone is balanced, diplomatic and discerning. They can be similar to you and mirror you in many ways. A social person who has many connections. A “socialite” type of person. They can be “Libra-like” in nature.

Union: a union centered around creating balance. Learning to create harmony together. Can feel like a business partnership. Negotiating and setting boundaries. Someone who feels like the missing piece to your puzzle. A dynamic where you are in sync.

7th Ruler In The 8th House:

Circumstance: meeting them at a point in your life after your go through a massive transformation. Meeting them at a time of crisis. Meeting in a “taboo” place: strip club or through s3x work. They way you meet involves and exchange of money. You could manifest this person or have psychic premonition before meeting them. This person can be in a relationship when you meet them and you “steal” them from someone else.

Person: someone who is intense, powerful, and dominant. Likely to be controlling or possessive in general. Someone who’s experienced the ups and downs of life. They are likely to be wealthy. Someone who is passionate and spiritual. They can be “Scorpionic” in nature.

Union: a union that is about spiritual transformation. Experiencing spiritual growth together. Having joint assets together. Gaining wealth together. Overcoming something taboo about the relationship like: age difference, religious difference. A spiritual union/karmic union. A dynamic where you’re obsessed with each other.

7th Ruler In The 9th House:

Circumstance: meeting them while traveling. Meeting in church, college, school, or at a wedding. Meeting them at a time in your life when you’re following your purpose. At a time when you are optimistic about life. Meeting them spontaneously or while doing something adventurous.

Personality: someone who is truthful, adventurous, knowledgable, cultured, and intelligent. Possibly from a different culture than you. Someone who is like a guide to you. Even like a mentor. A spiritual person.

Union: a union with the key themes being: devotion, teaching, and higher learning. A relationship when your share similar philosophies on life. Exploring new horizons together. Experiencing luck through this partnership. Being devoted to each other. Following your purpose together. Teaching each other.

7th Ruler In The 10th House:

Meeting: likely to meet through work. This person may be your boss at first. Meeting through your boss or coworkers. Meeting at work related events, networking events or professional environments. Meeting them at a point in your life when you achieve something or have an increase in status, popularity or fame.

Personality: someone who is goal oriented and ambitious. Someone who is an authority figure. A businessman, entrepreneur, a leader. A mature person, fatherly vibes. Someone who is “Capricornian” in nature.

Relationship: a relationship that has to do with your status and legacy. Gaining fame or notoriety through your partnership. Being a couple that works together or has a business together. “Power couple” vibes. Enhancing each others reputation. A union with longevity and stability.

7th Ruler In The 11th House:

Meeting: likely to meet in a social setting: party, event, wedding, networking event. Meeting a an upscale event. A charity event or gala. A place where you’re interacting with “high society”. Meeting through social media or dating apps. Meeting through a mutual friend. Meeting at a time in your life when you’re fulfilling your dreams + goals. A time when you’re experiencing gains.

Personality: the kind of person who is a humanitarian, generous, popular, wealthy. Someone who is socially well connected + has many friends. An influential or famous person. Someone who desires to change society. A unique person. “Aquarian” in nature.

Relationship: a relationship where you have a friendship first. Friends to lovers. Gaining more opportunities due to this union. Because of them your desires + goals are fulfilled. Having your wishes granted. Experiencing gains & success together. Increase in social outreach together. Social media couple.

7th Ruler In The 12th House:

Meeting: likely to meet your person in foreign lands. Possibly in “badlands”(deserted/impoverished places). Meeting them when you’re in a isolated time in your life. Meeting them when you feel most alone. Likely to meet in the astral realm/dream state before 3D. Can meet them near water, the beach, island or lake.

Personality: the type of person that is spiritual, artistic, sensitive and creative. May even fit the “creative genius” sort of archetype. This person can be a “loner”. Someone who is generous, charitable or sacrificial. A person with mental health issues. A “Piscean” sort of person.

Union: a relationship where you have to sacrifice something to be together. A relationships that is a secret. A karmic relationship. Highly likely a past life relationship. A union where service & unconditional love are prominent themes. A union that causes some sort of loss.

Friendly advice for scorpio/8th house natives

Take this with a grain of salt, if you can relate to it then excellent. I have seen many 8th housers/scorpio placements who play mind games/emotional games with other people. They have indeed survived a tough childhood so they learn these tactics to survive and carry into adulthood.

Things like push-pull cycle, breaking up as a joke to see if the partner makes effort to get back, threatening with self harm to get attention, using victim story for love and special treatment, being suspicious and controlling because fear of rejection, being interfering in everything because fear of losing control, having idealistic tendencies to compensate for what lacked in childhood, having overwhelming emotions that are hard to control, being reactive emotionally to problems in life, being impulsive and falling in love with man you met last week, pouring your heart out to random man to create bond connection (trauma bond), feeling envious and competitive with other same sex people for desirability.

If you can identify yourself in these traits or have been this person in past, you would know how these behaviours can wreck up your life. If you are even more self aware you would be able to connect your psychological issues to your childhood and parents. If you are even luckier, you would know how to heal your trauma and transform into a different person.

Scorpio can be a blessing and a curse. Think about it!

Astro observations (October 2022: part 1)

Sun in aries in 1st house (aries ascendant+sun in 1st house) men make YouTube videos as a hobby. They are also egoistic and self centered in a materialistic way.

Saturn in 9th house is the hallmark of PhD scholar. These natives always have a higher education degree and stay in college for a long time.

Saturn in 9th house natives also are born into super religious family but when they grow up they become atheists and start to explore their own philosophy.

Moon in 3rd house natives love to text, talk on phone call a lot. You can find them chatting with someone most hours of their day.

Sun in aries natives especially men are prone to be fuckboys and date many girls by way of manipulation. Most of the girls are in young age because these men are attracted to physical looks. They show a sense of entitlement too when it comes to dating young girls without any remorse for what they do. It also happens that they act this way to feel masculine because of their moms being very controlling and infantilizing them. So they use girls to feel powerful and strong. This is the case of immature ones btw. A mature aries native man plays sports to feel strong and powerful. Instead of using girls, he uses physical activities like sports to be competitive and ego boost.

Immature Aries natives men also use girls for ego boost and not really for emotional connection or partnership. They date many girls for attention and ego boost. Scorpio girls can be perfect target for them because these girls give doormat people pleasing energy. These girls can be codependendent that Aries men like as being "needed" as a hero.

Sun in 12th house natives have an unavailable father owing to his work or personality or death. But these natives have an imagination of their father figure in their head that they tend to idealize. Despite father being absent they don't really worry about it because emotionally they feel connected to an ideal father figure.

Sun in 12th house natives also grow up in a large household, usually a big house with riches and resources. A comfort childhood although absent father. They have a rich imagination life too.

Moon in 8th house natives in whichever sign are prone to self realize and enlighten in their lives. When they discover the impact of their mother's behaviour and that their mother had personality disorder/emotional instability. These natives also carry the learned behaviours from their mother unconsciously. They will reach self awareness and change themselves during the time period of the dispositor of 8th house.

How to see which area of your life will be active with astro? Check out the Vimshottari dasha chart. Any good website is fine. Whichever planet is running its Mahadasha--find in your birth chart where its sign is placed. For eg, if you're running mercury mahadasha, check out which houses are occupied by Gemini and Virgo. Now, which planets are placed in these houses? Check out the signs of these planets and in which house they are placed. You can then check out antardasha as well. And so on.

Sun in 7th house natives lack self esteem. They cant stand being alone. Always needing to be around others and especially being in romantic relationship. In the early days of dating, they will attract narcissists in their life, especially if the 1st house is empty too. Then they will mature and find self esteem. Even then they will attract self centered partners but there will not be ego clashes because natives have matured already.

Sun in 7th house natives find themselves through reflection in other people. They don't know who they are until they project their own unconscious personality traits on other people and see what clicks with them.

Sun in 7th house or 10th house are a good position for public service career.

Saturn in 8th house can be a really sad placement. Being a karmic planet in a karmic house is a combination that leads to delays, hardships, poor quality of life, emotional stagnant, fear of occult, fear of transformation, ageing faster than usual, prolonged disease, sudden life transformations.

All moon in 8th house natives can unite for psychological studies, spiritual insights and being perceptive of emotions. They do really like to talk about psychological topics with their peers.

THE SECRET LIFE OF 8th HOUSE NATIVES

Everybody has an 8th house. Transformations are a part of everyone's lives. Every single person. But the 8th house placements especially with dominating energy are the ones in whose life it will show a visible impact. You can see their person and say "Oh yeah, this person definitely has 8th house energy going on" -- it is that visible! In my family, both my parents and my brother and I have 8th house placements. Even though our lives turned out differently with different themes and patterns and turning points, there is an 8th house energy in our personalities and life events.

These natives keep their lives secretive. Few people know what is going on in their lives. They tell their problems to few people only.

Money has been a theme. Saturn in 8th house native works really hard to earn money. Jupiter, Venus, Moon in 8th house natives inherit money earned by other.

No social media or private social media account or dont post much. Unless there is also some other house placements, like 1st house placements + 8th house placement = uses social media but posts less. Major 8th house placements = private social media or fake name account.

People pleasing tendency and lack of boundaries. This is something I have seen so much in 8th house natives. They give away their hearts to others. Then they face betrayal. Then they feel hurt deeply. From here on, the paths diverge. Self aware people will introspect themselves, change themselves and become self actualized. Whereas non-self aware people will keep repeating the same old pattern and getting hurt again and again.

Every year, literally every year, something happens in their life that rocks their boat. 8th house natives cannot keep still. Their life keeps bringing unexpected, unseen, unpredictable, unknown events, accidents, misfortunes, revelations, shocking, life threatening even, traumatic, self destroying events in their lives. Every year. Physical, mental, psychological. Every single year. As a result, these natives become brave hearts with very strong will power and even stronger emotional strength. Their lives are strongly visibly determined by fate.

Loneliness and solitude. No matter if they are surrounded by crowd, there is a solitude in their lives. Their personalities are also such that they retreat to themselves a lot and appear closed off to others. I have seen these natives battling the hardships of lives mostly alone. It is a strange kind peaceful loneliness. In their presence you will feel like you two are the only people alive on earth. The solitude is non threatening. It keeps them safe and nurtures their soul and psyche. Even they are not aware of it.

Not all 8th house natives are into occult though. I would suggest they do get into occult but a lot of times these natives take a lot of time to get into occult or do not use occult or fear occult. If only they explore themselves will they understand the need for occult in their lives.

Ups and downs, turns and twists, long periods of adversity then sudden improvements. 8th house is a car that has a shaky useless brake. Sometimes life gets out of control. Unexplainable and painful miseries happen. Saturn in 8th house native faced cancer that was diagnosed in antardasha of 8th house ruler. Cancer is very rare and doctors cannot tell why, how and when it started. Treatment does not work because the cancer is literally manifestation of 8th house energy. Radiation and chemotherapy have no effect on shrinking tumor. Stuff of nightmare. One after another, problems keep appearing that doctors cannot control. Top doctor of country literally says "It is God's will. God's will is hard to understand. It is a rare case. We just don't know what is going on. I have worked in this field for 30 years and cases like this just shock us." It is beyond human control. It is fate. It is shocking, life threatening and extremely confusing. This is what 8th house energy looks like. This is the life that you see and say, "8th house energy right there. Oh my god!"

8th house natives before they become self aware get into many different things that make them feel shame and regret. It is because they do not know how to manage their feelings. They do not know how to channel their feelings. 8th house gives such strong feelings that literally blind the vision and overpower the decision making. They cannot distinguish between feelings and facts. They are that consumed by feelings.

Self actualization is a life tool for these natives. Do not let emotional turmoil eat you from inside.

Hii what do you think about a man with a Scorpio sun/mercury/rising, leo moon and a cap mars? would he be difficult to deal with? 💀

Hi, let's see. Hope you take him seriously or is he just a crush?

Scorpio ascendant, leo moon, scorpio sun = water and fire placements. Confident, assertive, fills the room with his energy, hard to ignore him in public, knows his place and takes it.

Scorpio ascendant = life full of ups and downs, becomes callous with age and experience,

Leo moon in 10th house = material security, hard working, career minded. Career has an important place in his life.

Mercury and sun in 1st house: Sun gives a prominent self identity and need to be the apple of the eye. His father was also similar and has a great influence on him. Likely identifies with his father's identity. Will be smart and easy to talk to, likes talking about spirituality as well.

Balanced personality between materialism and spirituality. Take care of his ego and let him be the "man". If he is a mature one, that is, he has stopped playing emotional mind games (scorpio are prone to this) then he will be a very good partner to have because of reliability and stability.

Prone to self transformations. Needs to shed his skin, needs someone who understands and tolerates his emotional turmoil and spiritual rebirth. Likely plays sports because of so much masculine energy. Mars in cap in 3rd house; something tells me he is academically successful. What are his qualifications? Depending upon the strength of moon, he will either have a great career or a fluctuating one. Regardless, career will trigger his self transformations. With change of career/job/promotion, he becomes a new person.

No relationship is perfect. Look at your own chart, needs and wants. Look what you can offer to him. He values his privacy and trust. He also likes mysterious, reserved, lowkey girls whom he can explore. Bit of darkness in him. Are you ready to get your hands dirty in his dark thoughts and feelings?