Imagine Your F/o Caring For You.

imagine your f/o caring for you.

they do that already, dont they? they love you and want to take care of you like you are a special little thing that needs protection.

imagine your f/o taking care of you during the times you desperately need it, the times you feel like their love for you is so miniscule, when they look at you and see the stars align. they see you and immediately go “you are my home”. their love for you is massive, its huge, they give their entire heart to you, and would show it to you every second of the day and even more so when you doubt it.

they will remind you every day that they love you and only you; why would anyone else take your place? youre their world, their home, their own safety net. they will reassure you even without you asking them to; they listen to your fears and help ease them away.

they care so much about you, they hate seeing you doubt their love, they hate seeing you so sad. they know there are bumps in the road, but you two will get through it. together!

If u get uncomfortable during periods imagine all the ways ur f/o would comfort you!!!

Cuddling with you whenever you ask for it because they know how much you need their presence rn

Soft and gentle touches, putting a hand over ur tum bc its warm and soft and you love it

Bringing your favorite comfort food! Nothing that would make cramps worse but just. Foods you enjoy a lot

Putting on your favorite movies while cuddling under 30 fluffy blankets, melting in their embrace. You basically fall asleep in their arms but they don’t care

If ur experiencing mood swings they get careful as to not be rude and always apologize if they make you cry no matter what they did because they know ur not feeling okay and that your emotions are going up to 280% atm

Bringing in a hot water bottle/hot gel compress/heating pad so ur cramps ease down a bit

If this makes you dysphoric they’ll keep saying how much of a great boyfriend/datemate u are because ur body is being a little bitch and they know it feels wrong™ so they try their best to assure you it has nothing to do with who you really are

Massages!!! Wherever your body aches most/wherever you like better. But usually on the space right under ur bellybutton; they knead on it like dough unless it hurts you too much but they try their best regardless

Bringing you comfy and big clothes (bonus if its theirs!!) so that you don’t have anything on that could make your cramps worse bc of tightness

Do you like stuffed animals bc they’ll bring you all your favorites for you to hug very tight!

Just. Generally being sweet, tender and adorable with you because they know you hate everything when you’re like this so they want you to feel okay with yourself again

If you happen to be on ur periods together they’ll be cuddling up to you 10x harder bc your presence makes them feel like themselves again if it makes them feel wrong

This post was made by trans dude gang :^)

Thank you for all of the imagines and stuff you write <3

It’s a pleasure, well and truly! Tysm for reading!

Imagine your parental f/o(s) singing Graham’s Lullaby (King’s Quest) to you…

I’m a minor, and I have an f/o who is a minor, but what will I do when I become a legal adult and, in canon, their still a minor? Sorry if this is a weird ask

(You don’t have to feel bad for sending a “weird” ask! It’s a genuine question, you and the people who might be reading this are free to ask as many as you want.)

This is a question I’ve had to face various times before, actually. In all honesty, I’m also a minor (under 16), so I just wanna clarify that I don’t have any experience or solid answers for you, sorry. However, this is what I do know:

“Adulting” isn’t an overnight thing. It depends on the age of your F/O, but it’s pretty understandable to have someone who has very recently turned 18 still having feelings for a character that is 16 or 17, y’know? (As the age gap grows, however, it gets problematic. You’ve probably already witnessed the discourse yourself.)

I know this seems like the unfavorable option, but keep in mind that your opinion could change. Maybe you’ll love them differently once you're older and become more aware of the age difference (again, depending on your F/O’s age) or your feelings will naturally fade.

Once you’re older, you could also try to move this F/O into another position that isn’t romantic, such as seeing them in a more platonic light. Remember that friendships and (found) familial ties can be just as important as the romantic ones; you wouldn’t be changing the fact that you love this character, you’d just be changing how.

In my experience (especially if your coming-of-age is gonna be in over a year from now), I tried to think about it as little as possible. In the end, self-shipping shouldn’t be anxiety-inducing, but a part of your life that makes you happy. Things are going to be changing, and it’s alright to relax and let the current take you where it wants to go sometimes, as long as you’re not hurting anybody or yourself.

Yup, that’s my answer… sorry if it was less than you were expecting. Anyone who sees this and wants to reply with their own opinions/advice is free to do so!

TW: past abuse. trauma theme.

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Whatever happened in the past, it robbed you of something. Choices were so fickle, people were so hard to please, and it took a great toll on you blindly walking on eggshells everyday.

You should’ve seen the look in your F/O’s eyes when they learnt of this. It wasn’t a crazy or disgusted look, never. It was just… hollow and lost. A labyrinth of feelings spearing through them: rage at the person(s) who did this, painful vulnerability that they weren’t there to shield their beloved, utter confusion at why anybody would even dare to think such things of you— much less act them out… and determination. The determination to show you that you can and have proved your abuser wrong.

Your F/O is there to commemorate the good days. They’ll greet each beautiful morning and send off each graceful night with your stunning smile in mind. Even when the moment comes that you doubt your past, they make sure to come close — whether literally or figuratively — and list off all of the amazing things you were able to do despite the pain brought by people who were supposed to cherish you (even if you think the only remarkable thing you did was getting out of bed for two seconds.) The past tried to destroy you, and you endured even when it seemed hopeless. It’s okay to rest now, your F/O loves each and every “broken” part of you.

Your F/O is there to remind you you’re not alone when the world has chosen you to play Atlas. No matter how much you could try to convince them otherwise, they’ll always reply with a gentle (yet pointed) look, because “Even if this is you being a burden, I’d still carry something ten times heavier just to spend a few moments with you.” They’ll encourage you to allow yourself soft moments… coax you to let down your walls around them— as far as you’re comfortable, of course… happily give you small reasons to greet each day alongside them… ease in each and every awe-inspiring thing about you so you can at least see a fraction of yourself the way they see you…

Your F/O is simply, endlessly, lovingly there.