professor-geen-berries - Straight blanchin' without the straight
Straight blanchin' without the straight

Very new to tumblr!Gay, neurodivergent mess | minor so be safe people | the most ADHDI do the hyperfixation

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RSD (rejection Sensitive Dysphoria)

RSD (rejection sensitive dysphoria)

just found out that i probably have RSD as well as ADHD and fuck. That explains so much. Like why I get anxiety over almost every post I make on here, why I am terrified of public speaking when I used to be fine, why I can't imagine ever asking someone out unless I'm sure they like me back because what if they say no? Why i feel self conscious and weird in front of random strangers i will never see again. So much shit that I thought was rejection trauma or something. I wish I'd known this earlier and I hope more people can learn about it earlier than I did.

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7 months ago

Hey maybe Remus plays bass, or maybe he plays viola? They are the only two other instruments I can think of right now lol

for an au im coming up with and going to write,

what (orchestral) instruments do you think each marauders era character would play?


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7 months ago
Reblog To Kill It Faster

Reblog to kill it faster

7 months ago

Okay now I'm headcanoning that Remus plays French horn and everyone makes fun of him for being French even though Sirius and Regulus are RIGHT THERE.

for an au im coming up with and going to write,

what (orchestral) instruments do you think each marauders era character would play?

7 months ago

I can think of a lot of YA books that would be much more engaging to read if the straight white male protagonist was in a gay enemies/rivals to lovers relationship with the straight white male supporting character/best friend

Just putting it out there...

And it works the other way too, for books with female main characters. It would just be so much more interesting as a character dynamic!!

Or even take it one step further, if the main character or best friend was intersex, trans, bi, non-binary, agender, genderfluid/genderqueer/genderflux or a demigirl/demiboy, or ace, aro, or aroace. Even more that I can't remember too.

And imagine if it was just normal- not made a big deal out of or marketed as "queer", just a book.

Fanfiction has ruined my once realistic lgbtq+ representation expectations for all not specifically queer books I read.

WE NEED MORE NORMALISED QUEER CHARACTERS!!!!

Doesn't have to be romantic, in fact a lot of the time it would be way better as platonic! Just gimme more gays!!

Plus idk if it's just me but the best ships/character dynamics I read are almost* always queer. We are just built different.

Not saying straight ships are bad or anything, heck they are great! Everyone deserves representation! They are just really overused. But we already know that. I'm just stating the obvious

*Looking at you, jily, dipcifica, melosoos. You guys are the best <3. Also others i have definitely forgotten bc of my shitty memory


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7 months ago

❗AVOID THESE PEDOPHILES AT ALL COSTS! ❗

I was scrolling through Tumblr and came across a post of KNOWN PEDOPHILES ON TUMBLR (many of which have or want to rape actual children/minors)

THERE ARE ACTUAL PEDOPHILES ON TUMBLR TRYING TO GET IN TOUCH WITH MINORS ON TUMBLR

AVOID THESE PEDOPHILES AT ALL COSTS!
AVOID THESE PEDOPHILES AT ALL COSTS!
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