I Don't Wanna Sound Dumb Or Anything But I'd Like To Know If You'll Help Me With This One Thing.

I don't wanna sound dumb or anything but I'd like to know if you'll help me with this one thing.

I might be pansexual (which isn't the point of guidance) but I'm definitely trans,my parents can't really see any changes since I've always dressed like a tomboy but there definitely are!! I don't know how they'd feel about it if they knew but I know it's closer to anger than acceptance,what should I do?

Hi!!!!!

First and foremost. Nothing you ask can be dumb nor stupid nor anything that wouldn't make you deserving of counselling!!!

1.id like to just let you know how grateful and proud I am of you for just reaching out and venting and also being so sure in yourself to claim these titles!!! It took you a while to get there or be comfortable in them and that's worth alot of pride!

2. Although I believe that we as human beings should be honest to those we are in community with I do think it can be complicated with parents.

You have to ask yourself these questions.

1. What are there views on others? What would they think if you were a stranger and they knew you were trans?

2. Have they ever been abusive?

3. Have there been instances of being kicked out before.

4. If so,do you have a safety net to fall on if they don't take the news appropriately and end up threatening your life and safety?

5. Can you trust those around you not to use this against you if they are your safety net and if so,can you stand on your own two feet by yourself?

These may be hard questions that come with hard tasks but down the line you will realize how much stronger you've made yourself by going through this and standing in it!

When you can be in an independent position where you are equal to your parents i believe it's the best time to tell them who you really are because whether they accept it or not right away they'll have time to and you'll be on your way to reconcile yourself..

If you haven't heard it today I WISH THE BEST FOR YOU!!!

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