'oh Stop Making Autism A Personality Trait!' It Is The Only Thing Keeping Me From Consistently Fucking

'oh stop making autism a personality trait!' it is the only thing keeping me from consistently fucking hating myself for being medium support needs. I feel worthless and like a wart on the back of society, let me have the haha autism tbh creature stimmy memes for fuck's sake

'If you just hate trans women just say that' you know, I could pull a similar thing out of MY ass and claim you hate trans men if you feel the need to derail a post and make it about trans women. Not everything is about trans women, dipshit, I'm allowed to speak out against something that harms intersex people and transmascs as someone who's part of those fucking communities, methinks. The big scary transmasc is not out to hurt the pure innocent trans women, sorry to break it to you.

TME and TMA where terms invented by intersex people, what the fuck are you on? If you hate trans women so much you can just say that. Don't try to hide behind allyship.

I am trans and intersex myself. Many intersex people have come out against this 'progressive' binary, not just myself. Stop bitching at me about 'hating trans women' because I don't like something that actively hurts me and my community. Hope this helped!

the title of the last song you listened to is the epitaph on your tombstone

neuropronouns are exclusive to neurodivergents right?

Nope! Anybody can use neopronouns.

honestly what people don't realize is that a lot of queer liberation will come from liberating cishet people from feeling like they can only identify in highly specific ways or else they're not cishet. if we encourage cishet men to wear makeup, dresses, skirts, "feminine" blouses, and other gendered that would make people question their gender or sexuality, and encourage cishet women to wear "masculine clothing, forgo shaving and makeup, and having "manly" hobbies, we open the doors for all kinds of trans people to present and express themselves freely without worry.

we break down hatred and misunderstanding when we allow folks of all identities to be and express themselves in ways that make sense without forcing arbitrary rules and identities on them. we would move toward a society where both effeminate trans and cis men who wear makeup and dresses would not run into having their gender questioned by total strangers, we would move toward a society where both masculine trans and cis women would not have to deal with being misgendered and having their womanhood questioned.

cis folks having their gender be questioned as trans, and trans folks having their gender be questioned as cis because of how they dress are being affected by the same principal: men only dress one way, and women only dress one way. this creates stress for not only trans people. cis folk feel trapped and isolated by this logic every single day, and they shouldn't have to feel obligated to completely changed their gender identity in order to just dress and express themselves.

whether or not we like to address it, there are in fact cisgender people who feel trapped and held down by how strict gender presentation rules are. we shouldn't assert that they deserve to feel that way, but rather that no one should have to feel this way. no one should have to feel like they cannot be who they feel they are on the inside, no one should have to feel like they can't wear clothing that makes them feel like who they are and looks good to them. no one should have to feel like they can't express themselves.

everyone deserves the freedom to dress how they want to, no matter what gender they are and what unnecessarily gendered pieces of clothing they wish to wear. we need to liberate everyone from this mentality, it only helps more people be free of this unnecessary restriction we've placed on ourselves.

Hello, I recently got diagnosed with pcos. My whole life I’ve been raise to be a girl, when I was 18 I decided I wanted to go by they/them and be agender. I’m 20 now and was wondering if having pcos means I’ve been intersex my whole life and not even now it. I’ve just seen it brought up a lot in pcos groups and I never even thought about that. I’m just a little confused is all. My doctor didn’t really give me any information about that.

If it helps, while there are people who will try to push you out of intersex spaces for having PCOS, there are also plenty of others who accept us into intersex spaces. As for your doctor not mentioning it, I can only imagine it has something to do with medical bias against intersex people and the field's need to erase us all. See, if PCOS, a very common condition, is intersex, that means intersex people are even less rare. They want to sweep intersex people under the rug, in order to enforce their idea of 'binary sex'. That all being said though, it is ultimately up to you whether you want to use the intersex label due to having PCOS. I personally believe that PCOS, by default, makes one intersex, but I'm not one to enforce labels.