All But Bi, I Consider Myself M-spec But More Specifically Pan And Don't View Myself As Categorized Under

all but bi, I consider myself m-spec but more specifically pan and don't view myself as categorized under bi personally

shoutout to people who are all 5 letters in LGBTQ

you know what, extra shoutout to people who are all 7 letters in LGBTQIA

I'm usually the one who blocks and moves on, but seeing as the situation is apparently STILL happening despite the fact that this person supposedly blocked us and everyone else involved, clearly blocking isn't enough. My circle is having their words twisted and used against them, and since we're all blocked we cannot defend ourselves aside from separate posts. Since I wasn't originally involved, I have no clue if the person will start misconstruing MY words as well, but this drama has me in too much of a chokehold to ignore it now.

This whole thing started from a post about how 'love loses' is harmful. THEY went into the notes to have a tantrum.... need I remind you all of that? This cowardly, sniveling fuck is hiding behind a 'block' that they actively choose not to respect. We have sources that allow us to be aware of what they're doing because quite frankly none of us are too happy with their defaming twists on the situation, and since THEY won't let it go tabs have to be kept. I think I can speak for everyone involved when I say this: please fuck off. I'm tired of hearing about my circle being hurt and harassed over something none of us fucking started. Grow the hell up and leave us alone.

*sigh* Alright. I must address the fiasco that has been going on lately.

To summarize, a friend of ours made a post calling out the harmful nature of the 'love loses' phrase, and started getting hate for it. A larger creator (the coiner of Unitypunk to be exact), was one of the people who got their panties in a twist about this post. Icarus saw this and, since the maker of the original post is our friend, got upset and took it upon himself to stand up against the mindless hate drone that showed up on our friend's blog. This caused the person, who we will identify as @/xxlovelynovaxx, to go off on Icarus, as well. This ended in us getting blocked. They blocked us, because they are so genuinely livid about someone calling out the bullshit phrase they put on a pedestal.

Now, this is so petty and childish that I wasn't going to get involved, but we have since learned they are cyberstalking a system within our circle. This is a huge claim, I know, but rest assured that we are not pulling this out of our ass:

Here is a post detailing the situation further (link)

And just going on Nova's blog will show you all you need. They feature screenshots of Anarchy's tagging system during their public tantrum (we know this, because Anarchy has been notified by someone who remains unblocked). Nova is/was actively lurking on a blog they blocked over petty shit, and perhaps they are doing that with us, as well.

Now, this isn't a call to get them deplatformed (though I am of the opinion that someone so childish should not have any leverage in communities), nor is it a call for mass reporting. It is, rather, a need to bring their behavior to light for what it is: harassment. This anger towards being told 'love loses is harmful' is completely childish, and they are making people feel unsafe in their own spaces due to their need to die on the 'love loses uwu' hill. That is absolutely unacceptable.

That is all, for now. No doubt this post may make a debut on their blog, if my theory is correct and they are also lurking on our blog as well.

In the community's attempt to uplift loveless aros, we have created a very rigid idea of what it means to be loveless and, by proxy, what it means to be aro in general. I know people who constantly feel not aro enough or loveless enough, and it's all because they don't adhere to the love negative views the community seems so obsessed with leveraging. Sometimes I fully expect to hear an accusation of cooties get thrown around with how mature some of y'all be acting.

As an aplspec, loveless individual who has been scarred time and time again by those who claimed to love me, trauma is NO EXCUSE to push out love and/or romance favorable aros. Again, in the attempt to not leave out loveless voices, we have created a rigid standard of what it 'means' to be loveless... and that HURTS loveless people! If you have the audacity to call this out in any way, you'll get some self pitying asshole in your notes putting words in your mouth and being otherwise aggressive. I've seen it happen multiple times to ONE group of people. You'll be told you're throwing your community under the bus for speaking out, have your words cherrypicked and the rest glossed over, and told that 'erm actually, this thing I've been told is actively harming members of my own community is not bad and you're just a meanie bigot!'

Please do better in realizing that your language is already a weapon.

I swear I've made a post like this before but I was being consumed by my uber autistic instincts my bad

Maybe it's because it's a special interest of mine, but my queer identity brings me so much joy and comfort. I love having this winding and complex identity that I can play with and express myself in. Being butch is awesome, being a transneumascfem agender person is awesome, being a boygirl is awesome, being a pan aroacespec gaybian is awesome, being intersex is amazing, having xenogenders and neopronouns is so fucking rad, GAH I adore being queer so much

do you think in the warframe universe they have wheelchairs you can summon like archwings or k-drives

be careful Salem, don't want to say 'lovingly adding onto this' because that erases love repulsed people! Somehow!

(this is a joke)

I won't even address most of this post, but I want to point and laugh at the fact this person has DELIBERATELY IGNORED that I am a LOVELESS AROMANTIC and have addressed that love is neutral. And I know I need to fix this, but Alastor is a ROMANCE REPULSED LOVELESS AROMANTIC lmao.

Also, pretty sure I'm Apl-spec too and definitely afamilial outside of my system.

So this idea that you have that I'm not a Loveless Aro is INCORRECT, please stop spreading misinformation.

You want me to listen to loveless Aros? I fucking am. I AM a Loveless Aro. "Omg care about the weird queers, care about the loveless Aros!!!" unless they fucking disagree with you.

Maybe next time check my blog and make sure your assertion is correct before jumping the gun and assuming my identity.

Love Can Win Without Me. Thanks.