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it's very important to support aspec rights. but i think it's even more important to support aspec wrongs
Signed ☝🏽
petition to call wondering if you're aspec "a-speculation"
special shoutout to aces , aros , aplatonics , and anyone who is a combination of these , especially if you are loveless , this valentines day ^_^
you are not less than for not experiencing attraction , same goes for not experiencing love . im really bad at cheesy wholesome posts so uhhh chocolate will be on sale soon if you like that . 👍👍👍
Jaidenanimation’s new video on being AroAce (12:18): “If i were to guess, i would assume the thing that makes someone human is... basic empathy. Like i’m not an emotionless monster, i can still love people. I love my family, and my pets, just... platonically. And i would hope that you’re the same.”
I was enjoying the video until this point, but i have to say i’m really disappointed. I’m not good at writing down my thoughts like this, but i just... i’m low-empathy so it hurts to hear that i’m not human from one of my favourite youtubers. i have friends who don’t feel any love whatsoever for anyone, and they’re the best friends i could ask for. i just... i really thought jaiden would do better.
I can't believe I'm fucking aplspec. It all makes sense now-💀
In the community's attempt to uplift loveless aros, we have created a very rigid idea of what it means to be loveless and, by proxy, what it means to be aro in general. I know people who constantly feel not aro enough or loveless enough, and it's all because they don't adhere to the love negative views the community seems so obsessed with leveraging. Sometimes I fully expect to hear an accusation of cooties get thrown around with how mature some of y'all be acting.
As an aplspec, loveless individual who has been scarred time and time again by those who claimed to love me, trauma is NO EXCUSE to push out love and/or romance favorable aros. Again, in the attempt to not leave out loveless voices, we have created a rigid standard of what it 'means' to be loveless... and that HURTS loveless people! If you have the audacity to call this out in any way, you'll get some self pitying asshole in your notes putting words in your mouth and being otherwise aggressive. I've seen it happen multiple times to ONE group of people. You'll be told you're throwing your community under the bus for speaking out, have your words cherrypicked and the rest glossed over, and told that 'erm actually, this thing I've been told is actively harming members of my own community is not bad and you're just a meanie bigot!'
Please do better in realizing that your language is already a weapon.
I hate being loveless. Send post.
What if God was an agender aromantic asexual aplatonic entity
Alastor from Hazbin Hotel is an aplatonic lesboy
Slim Yim from Regretevator (Roblox) is aroace aplatonic a-aesthetic a-familial agender and altersex
Dandy from Dandy’s World (Roblox) is aplatonic
Lampert from Regretevator (Roblox) is omni-gay aroace and demi-aplatonic
Unpleasant from Regretevator (Roblox) is aplatonic
Tate McGucket from Gravity Falls is aplatonic
Jasper from Steven Universe is aplatonic
Zooble from The Amazing Digital Circus is aplatonic
Stanford Pines from Gravity Falls is demiplatonic demisexual and demiromantic
Me (I'm agender):
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