Grrrrrrr "You Said You Were A Top"

Grrrrrrr "You said you were a top"

Hehehe hey all. Hope your weekend is going well. Mine is going fantastically. Sir and I got to play most of the day on Saturday :).

Sirs cock was huge and feisty today. He just kept getting up to play hehehe. Anyone who doesn’t understand a grower not a shower needs to play withsome where that is true. Sir looks average when soft but when he has a full hard on its quite a mouthful hehehe. Soo tasty to play with hehehe.

Today’s title comes from Sir pushing me into the door of the room we were in and humping my ass with his engorged cock hehehe. We have been training me to top for a little bit and I’d say I’m mostly top but can’t help when I have a throbbing cock that just looks like it needs a nice tight hole to explore hehehe. I can’t help it some of me is still a pussy boy lol. And I got SO hard from Sirs cock pressing against my ass that me are definently going to be a flip fuck boy and Sir. If we can get our dicks to behave there isn’t an ass that’s going to be safe between the two of us hehehe.

I have been enjoying this journey. Over a year, and still finding new things to enjoy. I am quite pleased with our time, such a great Boy.

Hold him down and have fun hehe

Hey boys. Its been a while. Partly my fault. I have been trying to stay off tumblr to not jack without permission. Being mostly successful so I haven’t been posting Sir and I play sessions. Well I need to get back to posting. :)

a lot has happened since I last posted when we played with gimp. I have become much more confident in my sexual skills and I actually was able to get hard, stay hard and FUCK Sir last week hehehe. Its been a big goal for both of us and it finally happened yay.

Now its not foolproof. If my dick can’t get in Sir’s hole right away it does seem to get discouraged and goes down some. But I haven’t let that slip up ruin the fun :) found a great new fuck position that is comfortable for me to thrust and feels good for Sir hehe. I pin his legs down with my legs and then push the rest of my body into his ass and back. It feels awesome for both of us hehe.

Now for today we were able to play at Sir’s house which is a change from the club. I enjoy both places. They both have fun pros and little cons :) I pinned Sir down on his back and had my way with his nips, chest, abs and cock hehe. I have succeeded according to Sir in being able to read body language and moaning and stop right before Sir was going to cum hehe. You should have seen his face. It was sooooooooooo priceless hehehe. I finished him off right after that experiment and he threatened to hurt me if I ever did that again. He likes to edge not be edged hehehe.

Was such a fun evening. I am such a lucky boy to have such an awesome Sir :) will talk to you boys later. We have one more play session before both Sir and I go on separate vacations. I’ll miss him but should be fun for us both. Talk to you boys later.

Name some things you and your boy haven't done yet but want to try?

Good question. We haven't done suspension, also a good flogging, or sling play - just not right play space. All of which I want to try. We would like to explore pup play as both being handlers.I have been toying with training him to leak while being tickled. ;) that would be hot. Got him there with cbt and love his giggles.

Hehehe hope you guys like this pic of me in my tighty whities getting a good spanking from Sir. We have a code that if I wear white briefs I need a spanking and boy did Sir need to give me a spanking. He was dying to give a hot boy a good spanking over his need. I got his hand and his georgous wooden paadle that heats my seat real well. And unlike his last one, my ass hasn’t broken this one yet hehehe.

Play time on Wednesday was tons of fun. It was a flip fuck night hardcore. We have never flip fucked before but we both think its really hot so we decided to give it a try. Espically since my dick was at FULL attention the last time Sirs dick was knocking at my hole lol.

So Sir got me hard and I topped him but my dick just didn’t want to cooperate so Sir flipped me over and took a crack at my ass. Man was that fun. Sir didn’t penetrate but he did get off by humping my ass hard. My dick was soooo happy with that play he wants to do it again hehehe. Then after Sir was jacking me a litte and teasing my dick I got super horny and fucked his ass and I mean I went to town. My dick is reminiscing about that ass. He still has a hard time with being an active participant but he is learning and enjoying this new role. Both him and I can’t wait to play with Sir again tomorrow hehehe

Some Helpful Tips for Those New to BDSM

1. Take it SLOW - I know you are excited. You want to just jump right in and do what you saw at the movies, on television or read in a book. If you take it slow, you greatly reduce the chance of anyone getting injured or mentally scarred by what happens.

2. CONSENT - This is HUGE. I cannot stress enough the importance of have the consent of all that are involved. This means Dominants and submissives BOTH. Consent is the cornerstone of all BDSM activities and without that, it is abuse.

3. COMMUNICATION - Second only to consent, communicating your needs, desires, limits and expectations is crucial. If you cannot communicate to your Dominant what you want or cannot communicate to your submissive what you are comfortable with, you need to stop and reconsider.

4. Practice, practice, practice - Another important thing for Dominants, especially those into impact play (striking with floggers, canes and even the hand) is practice. Hit yourself with the flogger first. Understand how it feels. Learn how the same strength strike with one toy differs from another and still differs from a bare hand. This will help you understand what you are doing with your submissive.

5. Aftercare - This is crucial when conducting any sort of scene, especially those that involve impact play. This can truly stave off “sub-drop” which you can think of as a short term but often bad depression. You are responsible for your partner before, during and AFTER a scene. It doesn’t end just because you got off. Make sure your partner is alright. Warm blankets, water, cuddling, lotion on a red rear and of course tender words will go a long way here.

6. Real Life Does Not Equal Porn - I don’t care who your submissive is, one does not simply start shoving things into orifices without build-up or knowledge. I don’t care what you saw on that porn movie, you are not going from “exit only” to a 2-inch wide butt plug in a matter of seconds, nor are you sticking that industrial sized rubber dildo into a vagina that’s never known anything above “human sized”. This can lead to serious injury and potentially life-threatening situations. So, before you go crazy with the internal use toys, step back and re-read number one above.

If you follow these, your start into a BDSM life will be far better and much less harmful to you and others. Enjoy. - Ian

It's cumming time!

Hey everyone. I hope your weekend is going well. Mine has been so far. I got to cum this week so I’m doing great lol :p. I don’t know how long I has been sinc I came with Sir in the room but Sir and I were very proud of myself :)

Sir and I started the play time with a romp thru the gym. Sir had taken the previous week off from the gym since he was out of town and not close to a gym he could use. So we were working on getting him back into gym mode. He was doing really well but the workout really made him tired. Gym time is like bondage time. Get your victim really tired at the gym and then his muscles will be too sore to put up a fight hehehe.

So after the workout we retired to the room to play. I topped Sir but had to be gentle since his lower back was acting up HUGS. Gotta be careful withyour workouts since they could rench your back out of place and be painful for many weeks.

As a reward for making Sir so happy I was allowed to jack myself to cum. It had been many months since I had cum with Sir in the room. Dont know what the problem us but I am sooooo glad Sir put on some porn and allowed me to jack with him playing with my nips and balls hehehe. It felt wonderful and I hope to repeat that again and again and again with Sir hehehe.

Now I have a warning for you chastity boys. Make sure you keep your cages clean and shower after you have anal sex before putting your cage back on. I went to work after we played and ended up with terrible back pain for the whole night. Or at least I thought it was back pain. The next night I had green oooz cuming from my piss slit and realized that what I had was a UTI. The back pain was actually kidney pain. I don’t know what I did to cause it since I have never had this happen before but just giving you boys a warning. Things happen and with some cranberry juice I am back to my normal horny self :). Hope everyone has a kinky week coming up :)