Cuddles!

Cuddles!

Hey boys and Sirs. Hooe everyone is ready for an awesome weekend. I am :) Sir and I are going to play today hehehe. But I couldn’t be a good boy without posting about our Wed play time. Its a little late but its been a busy week for me. Cant wait for this weather to stick to one season so I can finally get some sleep lol. Wednesday play was light and fun. Sir is back to working out at the gym so we spend about 45 minutes working his ass out before getting down to the real fun. His chest, arms and shoulders are really developing fast umpf. Grrrr he is quickly trying to catch up to me on several different workouts but so far he might surpass me only on the tricep cable pull downs. He is kinda cheating since the weight feels less at the club gym then at mine :p hehehe.

I am so pround of Sir that he has been keeping up with and even wanting to workout three days a week. I get to see him all three since he has to workout at the club or he won’t that day lol. We all know what that feels like. You say you’ll do it at home but you really don’t lol.

So the workout makes Sir a little sore and tired which I use to my advantage hehehe. Hump hump hump hehehe. Now this time we were focusing on getting me off since it has been awhile. I use to be able to get off with Sir working my nips and cock but for some reason my dick has decided to lock up and not want to get off at the club. It’s very annoying but we are working on it. Too mamy years of jacking alone have made my dick a little special lol. But he dis have fun with Sir riding him hehehe. That was totally hot. I wish that I’d have the confidence that my dick would stay in so I could really go to town. That will come with time :)

Well you guys have fun. I’m going to get some errands done and then plow my Sir into the bed hard hehehe

Some Helpful Tips for Those New to BDSM

1. Take it SLOW - I know you are excited. You want to just jump right in and do what you saw at the movies, on television or read in a book. If you take it slow, you greatly reduce the chance of anyone getting injured or mentally scarred by what happens.

2. CONSENT - This is HUGE. I cannot stress enough the importance of have the consent of all that are involved. This means Dominants and submissives BOTH. Consent is the cornerstone of all BDSM activities and without that, it is abuse.

3. COMMUNICATION - Second only to consent, communicating your needs, desires, limits and expectations is crucial. If you cannot communicate to your Dominant what you want or cannot communicate to your submissive what you are comfortable with, you need to stop and reconsider.

4. Practice, practice, practice - Another important thing for Dominants, especially those into impact play (striking with floggers, canes and even the hand) is practice. Hit yourself with the flogger first. Understand how it feels. Learn how the same strength strike with one toy differs from another and still differs from a bare hand. This will help you understand what you are doing with your submissive.

5. Aftercare - This is crucial when conducting any sort of scene, especially those that involve impact play. This can truly stave off “sub-drop” which you can think of as a short term but often bad depression. You are responsible for your partner before, during and AFTER a scene. It doesn’t end just because you got off. Make sure your partner is alright. Warm blankets, water, cuddling, lotion on a red rear and of course tender words will go a long way here.

6. Real Life Does Not Equal Porn - I don’t care who your submissive is, one does not simply start shoving things into orifices without build-up or knowledge. I don’t care what you saw on that porn movie, you are not going from “exit only” to a 2-inch wide butt plug in a matter of seconds, nor are you sticking that industrial sized rubber dildo into a vagina that’s never known anything above “human sized”. This can lead to serious injury and potentially life-threatening situations. So, before you go crazy with the internal use toys, step back and re-read number one above.

If you follow these, your start into a BDSM life will be far better and much less harmful to you and others. Enjoy. - Ian

Thanks so much Boy, yeah - that was totally fun. And KNOW I will be there waiting on you. hehehe

Mormon undies round 2

Hey cuties. Posting about Monday playtime too since I passed out on Sunday and didn’t get to post about Saturday play time. I was a bad boy and Sie worked over my ass hard on Monday I think to make up for a little bit of it, well and that he was in the mood to spank lol

I can tell he is getting stronger by the day thanks to our workout routine we are both on. Hitting the gym three days a week. I make sure he suffers in the gym and he makes sures I suffer in the room hehehe. My ass was having a veey hard time handling just his bare hand let alone the paddle lol. He is trying to get me to say our safe word “orange” with these spankings. I think he wants to prove his strength and show me he isn’t holding back hehehe. My ass loved it :)

Sir got me soo horned up that I fucked him while wearing my Mormon undies hehehe. That was probably the naughtiest thing I have ever done in my life. Having anal sex in a gay bathhouse while wearing holy underwear. I don’t think there is any doubt that I will be going to hell lol

Hope you all are taking your naughtyness to new heights this week. Have fun and get naked hehehe

Rock Hard Cock!

Hey pussy bois and hot Sirs! I thought everyone would love to hear that Sir and I are doing well. We had a FUCKING awesome play time on Saturday this week. I had such a raging hardon that just wouldn’t go down hehehe.

On Wednesday this week I surprised Sir by relocking my dick in his cage. We had kind of taken a break from the chastity stuff for a while when I was working on trying to become a top. I though that the cage would affect me trying to top by making my dick nervous about getting hard since he can’t in the cage. Boy was I wrong lol. The cage is making my dick head more sensitive. Which I can say was helping in my topping since I could feel more when sliding in and out hehehe.

I have realized that my masturbation style may be causing me to have issues with playing with others. I don’t use lube and I don’t pump my hand up and down my dick. I put my fingers along one side of my shaft and my tumb on the other side and then I manipulate my shaft with my fingers. Manipulating my nerves but not really moving my hand. So now we are going to try and get my dick use to lube. The up and down isn’t an issue anymore hehehe but I have the issue that I get super hard and have tons of fun but I can’t get off grrrrrrr.

I NEED to get off lol. But besides that issue which I know we can overcome the play time was sooo much fun. I wish it could have been longer but we had other plans. Always next time hehehe

Hehehe hope you guys like this pic of me in my tighty whities getting a good spanking from Sir. We have a code that if I wear white briefs I need a spanking and boy did Sir need to give me a spanking. He was dying to give a hot boy a good spanking over his need. I got his hand and his georgous wooden paadle that heats my seat real well. And unlike his last one, my ass hasn’t broken this one yet hehehe.

Play time on Wednesday was tons of fun. It was a flip fuck night hardcore. We have never flip fucked before but we both think its really hot so we decided to give it a try. Espically since my dick was at FULL attention the last time Sirs dick was knocking at my hole lol.

So Sir got me hard and I topped him but my dick just didn’t want to cooperate so Sir flipped me over and took a crack at my ass. Man was that fun. Sir didn’t penetrate but he did get off by humping my ass hard. My dick was soooo happy with that play he wants to do it again hehehe. Then after Sir was jacking me a litte and teasing my dick I got super horny and fucked his ass and I mean I went to town. My dick is reminiscing about that ass. He still has a hard time with being an active participant but he is learning and enjoying this new role. Both him and I can’t wait to play with Sir again tomorrow hehehe

It's cumming time!

Hey everyone. I hope your weekend is going well. Mine has been so far. I got to cum this week so I’m doing great lol :p. I don’t know how long I has been sinc I came with Sir in the room but Sir and I were very proud of myself :)

Sir and I started the play time with a romp thru the gym. Sir had taken the previous week off from the gym since he was out of town and not close to a gym he could use. So we were working on getting him back into gym mode. He was doing really well but the workout really made him tired. Gym time is like bondage time. Get your victim really tired at the gym and then his muscles will be too sore to put up a fight hehehe.

So after the workout we retired to the room to play. I topped Sir but had to be gentle since his lower back was acting up HUGS. Gotta be careful withyour workouts since they could rench your back out of place and be painful for many weeks.

As a reward for making Sir so happy I was allowed to jack myself to cum. It had been many months since I had cum with Sir in the room. Dont know what the problem us but I am sooooo glad Sir put on some porn and allowed me to jack with him playing with my nips and balls hehehe. It felt wonderful and I hope to repeat that again and again and again with Sir hehehe.

Now I have a warning for you chastity boys. Make sure you keep your cages clean and shower after you have anal sex before putting your cage back on. I went to work after we played and ended up with terrible back pain for the whole night. Or at least I thought it was back pain. The next night I had green oooz cuming from my piss slit and realized that what I had was a UTI. The back pain was actually kidney pain. I don’t know what I did to cause it since I have never had this happen before but just giving you boys a warning. Things happen and with some cranberry juice I am back to my normal horny self :). Hope everyone has a kinky week coming up :)