NEED TO DO THIS IF WE CAN REMEMBER

NEED TO DO THIS IF WE CAN REMEMBER

SOMEBODY SPAM OUR DMS REMINDING US

we made a source chart for fictives/factives/introjects for fun!!! we might as well share it here too since maybe this could be helpful to other systems/collectives/plurals!!! :D!!!

and here's our version, yes yes!!! feel free to ask questions if you're curious about any of the placements or just want to ask questions!!! we'll tell you if said headmate doesnt want to answer!!! fun fun >:)!!!

-Gengar

FRANK HOLIDAY ‼️‼️‼️‼️

IMPORTANT

Guys

The Airy hfjone hyperfix

Keeps growing

HE'S SO SILLY

JZMXKAOAHSNAAJAAK

ONG DID NOT KNOW SOMEONE ELSE COINED THIS

I was trying to look for when we coined it but oh well

We'll still be using the flag by @/systuffs cause it's simpler and the colors are pretty :3

Airy says he likes the one above (mainly just the colors and the theatre symbol on it and also the fact he's bipolar)

figured I'd do a little messing around

Roleplaygenic/RPgenic

A term for a headmate who formed from roleplaying too much!!

If there's already a version of this term, consider this an alternative! I don't mean to steal at all ^_^

Low contrast version below cut

ID; two variations of a 7-striped flag. There is bright red, salmon pink, a small white stripe, a small orange-gold stripe, a small white stripe, a Cyan stripe and a royal blue stripe. The symbol is of two theatre masks. The one on the left has a happy expression, and is gold with a blue ribbon; the one on the right is blue with a gold ribbon. End ID.

ID; the same flag as before, but with lower-contrast colours and no symbol. End ID.

Honestly

Couldn't have said it better

(Tw vent)

I HATE HAVING BPD. I FUCKING HATE IT.

I hate always being in Emotional Pain. It's like a fucking fly always buzzing in my head. ALWAYS. FUCKING. THERE.

I hate that it makes me question my 10+ year relationship with my husband. God I know i love him. But in moments like this when the pain is SO LOUD. I just wanna throw my ring at him and leave.

Leave everything and everyone.

I'm sui but I don't actually want to die I just want the pain to stop. I want an out. I need an out. From this unrelenting rollarcoaster of pain.

-💊🐱

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It's easy to apply the hurt that has been done to you to everyone who is similar to the aggressor.

When I was hurt by someone with red hair, I became distrustful of those with red hair. Did that make any sense? No. But my trauma made it logical, necessary for survival.

I see it happen often in syscourse that people apply the hurt that has been done to them to every single person shows any similarity to that original hurt. Anti-endos are all evil, pro-endos are all evil, all endogenic systems are horrible because XYZ happened to me, because I was abused by someone who used that label, etc etc etc etc...

It's very easy to use that logic, because your brain is trying to keep you safe. The issue with this being, your brain does not always understand what is safe and what is not, particularly if you've been traumatized. It is overly cautious and will often rely on harmful coping skills that, while they may work, will also hurt you in the long run.

I want to challenge everyone today to look at their biases and understand that people are more than just their labels. People are actions and thoughts and desires.

Move past these things and move on. You've got this!