Plural Positivity - Tumblr Posts
were you the user who posted the comic about thinking ur a sys?/genq /friendly
(APPARENTLY I NEVER POSTED THIS IM SO SORRY)
a comic?? unless it was a reblog i don’t think so i’m sorry 💔
unless you’re referring to my post answering an anon about what i did when questioning! https://www.tumblr.com/cheesecake-the-chicken/735704680494153728/median
sorry if this doesn’t help ^^’ thank you!
IVE NEVER FRONTED BEFORE I LOVE THIS GAME :D sorry i’ve been so shy!!! the host is being nice and decided to let me post on his tumblr page, maybe i’ll come here more often >:3
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SO TRUE
all of us are like puzzle pieces of the host so even when we’re not him we’re not *not* him yk? we do co-front a lot now that we’ve gotten the hang of it though, it’s really fun >:3
at first we thought the host was frontstuck because we’re monoconscious and have only mild amnesia, it would help if we actually REMEMBERED things 😭💀 but basically we’re more like shapes that one big piece of consciousness takes on yk? that alongside us being fragments is why we’re never not the host, hope this makes sense 💔
we do think it’s possible we have osdd because even for the first “real” recent switches we had to assume we were the host because anything other than that has always been outside the question for us. we do understand that we’re still a system if we don’t have it though! even if we do we probably won’t go seeking diagnosis for it because we’ve already tried to get diagnosed for ptsd and that’s been a little difficult, we can’t imagine how hard it is for other dissociative disorders. did havers, our heart goes out to you /gen 😔
ANYWAYS! thank you guys so much!
- 🎀 (we think 💔)
Mediple culture is being a frontstuck host and knowing someone else is cofronting but having no clue who it is
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do u support endos? (not an endo, but i was just wondering) /genq
absolutely! i’m technically mixed origins (trauma but formed later in life) myself, if someone says they’re plural i’m gonna believe them because i’d rather unknowingly support a few people actually faking than contribute to pre-existing ableism against systems. not to sound like an sjw. anyways
bit of a tangent but i remember seeing miilowo get “”cancelled”” for supporting endos because they got asked this and answered yes. that’s a very small part as to why i’m trying to keep this blog separate from my other art platforms 😔 anyways!
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(tw dissociation and alter dormancy)
i remember there was this one really scary time when it was only me fronting (granted before i realized i was a system but knew there were Others) and my body literally started going HAM and moving super erratically by myself. absolutely terrifying but it hasn’t happened again and no one was hurt, and none of them ever said it was them. but i cant ask them because me and the current others made them go dormant LOL!!
me: why does it feel like someone else has taken over my body and im just watching
me, remembering I have “people take over your body” disorder: 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
tbh it’s so comforting to refer to the system as a whole as “us”. like yeah if you don’t believe me you can ask my buddy earl
[arby’s commercial guy voice] ALL OUR OTHERKIN KEEP TURNING OUT PLURAL
Okay, w/ all of the like anti-endo stuff I've come across today, I want to say that although we use traumagenic to describe our system, I personally don't feel like it's the only reason we've formed.
Every headmate in here has a different reason for forming, whether it is traumatic or not. But the whole reason I found my headmates in the first place, and how they were able to fully form, was not because of trauma. Our system is so much more complex than that.
We are not one-dimensional. Our trauma isn't the only reason we've come to exist. It's also nobody's business as to why or how we formed!
So yes, this blog is endo safe. Yes, this blog is non-traumagenic safe. You are welcome here, and I love you. Please take care. (/g) >> Damien
(Literally do not even bother interacting if you are going to fakeclaim my system or endogenic/non-traumagenic systems. Or if you're a singlet. I've seen wayyyy too many singlets being disgustingly comfortable inserting themselves in syscourse lately.)
happy mother's day to all mothers, caregivers, and older siblings. especially to insystem mothers/caregivers/older siblings. this includes parents/caregivers of syskids & littles and/or age regressors. these are critically important roles in people's lives. for internal caregivers, you bring an incredibly valuable role and service into the functions of your system and you cannot be replaced. the fact that it is done internally does not take away from the effort or energy you put into it and its impact. thank you for what you do.
Shout-out to all the plurals with F/Os.
🌼 Who just have F/Os and that's not a part of their system.
🌼 Who have fictives of their F/Os in their system.
🌼 Who are in relationships with their headmates and their F/Os are separate.
🌼 Who are in relationships with headmates who are also F/Os and that's important to their relationships.
🌼 Who are in relationships with their headmates who are also F/Os and it's very awkward.
🌼 Created systems or adjacent who made headmates of their F/Os.
You're all very valid! 💙
Hi!
I really wanna talk with your "scary-looking" and "gross" headmates
I see you, rotting corpses
I see you, guts-out
I see you, person with no face but flesh
I see you, alter with all limbs amputated
I see you, nonhuman horror strait from lovecraft's stories
I see you, even if your eyes can't see me
I see you, human flashlights
I see you, ripped sex-dolls
I see you, a single moving organ
I see you, deformed figures that are not humans anymore
I see you, whos skin is covered full in rot and pus
I see you, "no skin but burns"
I see you, even if I can't even imagine you.
Even if you are not hc-did, even if body survived just SA and you exist now, even if you feel like system have not enoth trauma for your existence.
You are not as disgusting as you think you are, and I see you, and I love you, and you fucking deserve love
-greetings from Stump
It's easy to apply the hurt that has been done to you to everyone who is similar to the aggressor.
When I was hurt by someone with red hair, I became distrustful of those with red hair. Did that make any sense? No. But my trauma made it logical, necessary for survival.
I see it happen often in syscourse that people apply the hurt that has been done to them to every single person shows any similarity to that original hurt. Anti-endos are all evil, pro-endos are all evil, all endogenic systems are horrible because XYZ happened to me, because I was abused by someone who used that label, etc etc etc etc...
It's very easy to use that logic, because your brain is trying to keep you safe. The issue with this being, your brain does not always understand what is safe and what is not, particularly if you've been traumatized. It is overly cautious and will often rely on harmful coping skills that, while they may work, will also hurt you in the long run.
I want to challenge everyone today to look at their biases and understand that people are more than just their labels. People are actions and thoughts and desires.
Move past these things and move on. You've got this!
Plural culture is being amazing 😎
i love fictives. #fictiveswag
Shoutout to Fictives who..
Shoutout to Fictives who have a really common source
Shoutout to Fictives who have a really obscure source
Shoutout to Fictives who have mutliple sources / switch sources
Shoutout to Fictives who have source trauma
Shoutout to Fictives who don't have source trauma
Shoutout to Fictives who are healing from their trauma
Shoutout to Fictives who like their source
Shoutout to Fictives who dislike their source
Shoutout to Fictives who like speaking about source
Shoutout to Fictives who don't like speaking about source
Shoutout to Fictives who are in a system with very little fictives
Shoutout to Fictives who are in a fictive-heavy system
Shoutout to Fictives who are alone in their sys
Shoutout to Fictives who have many sourcemates insys
Shoutout to Fictives
All fictives are valid, it doesn't matter what they did in source, or whether they are canon or not. Fictives are cool as hell and extremely valid and you can't tell me otherwise.
- Rex (It/He)
I have that kind of plurality where I mostly hear other people talking in my head as them being co con with me and even when others do front I’m still there watching, which means a lot of things but what matters for this is that it means I get social anxiety whenever my headmates try to have fun which I’m sure is annoying to them so
Reblog this post if you’re okay with guy from shows talking in the reblogs of your posts about the shows or don’t I guess you don’t have to reblog it but it would maybe make me feel better to have a reminder that people really don’t care that much
"He goes through mitosis every few weeks"
This was one of our friends completely unrelated to multiplicity, but I think it fits way too well
Shoutout to DID systems who aren't anti endo.
Shoutout to disordered systems in general who don't think their experience is the only valid system experience.
If your trauma caused you to split, then you were traumatized 'enough' to be traumagenic/have DID, OSDD or what have you. Trauma isn't always from a parent: it can be peer bullying/shunning, sibling abuse, near death experiences, experiencing death of a loved one or even a stranger, medical trauma, etc.
I will go one step further and say that if your system experience isn't purely traumagenic, and you're pushed out of supposed safe spaces because of it, don't feel pressured to change the labels that feel right for y'all. I have half a heart to not post this in traumagenic tags, because SO MANY traumagenic systems are anti endo it seems. But mixed origin systems exist, endo systems exist, non-disordered traumagenic systems exist, etc and plurality is such a large umbrella of different experiences (even yours!).
You're doing nothing wrong by existing.
AHHHHH YESYESYESYESYES <33 - 🖋 (Demo, the resident splitroject of several people, but is mostly Bendy)
Here’s some positivity/a source call for fictives from Bendy and the Ink Machine and Bendy and the Dark Revival!
All fictives, regardless of their source, are welcome on this blog! Whether you’re from BATIM or BATDR, whether you’re a major character or a minor one, whether you see yourself as your source or see yourself as separate from it, you belong in this space and are a welcome part of the plural community.
It’s okay to be a fictive from a source that hasn’t been released yet! It’s okay to be a fictive from a video game! You are loved and cherished, and we are so proud of how far you’ve come!
Fictives from Bendy games who are looking for sourcemates, please comment on or reblog this post to help find other fictives from your source!
You can learn more about the Bendy games and the studio that makes them here!
Good luck - we wish you happiness, positivity, and connection with your sourcemates!
Requested by: @asphyxiation-and-wither-roses
We are always accepting positivity/source call requests! :)