My New Bf And I Have A Lot Of Squares In Synastry. Basically His Mars Square My Pluto And My Moon Square

My new bf and i have a lot of squares in synastry. Basically his mars square my pluto and my moon square his pluto. I also find out that his lilith square my lilith, and my lilith opposites his ascendant, and also our venus squares each other. Can you tell me what does it all mean ? We don't communicate much because of the pandemic tho.

Disclaimer: These are only indications.

Too many harsh aspects usually indicate a toxic and manipulative relationship. Anyway, please just be cautious with this person.

Venus sq. Venus isn't necessarily a bad aspect, it just means you have differences in expressing love, having different wants & needs for a relationship. It can also imply underlying tension/conflict. I wasn't surprised when I read that you guys don't talk much (cuz the pandemic) since this aspect can also [sometimes] indicate a lack of communication.

Mars sq. Pluto, Moon sq. Pluto, Oh god. There can be a lot of sexual tension and intense feelings. Mars sq. Pluto & Moon sq. Pluto are red flags in synastry. Indication of stubbornness, competitive behavior, obsession. Power struggles. There can be lot of jealousy maybe even possessiveness. There's so much passion, magnetism and attraction, it's dangerous and addictive. The Pluto person would want to manipulate/dominate and control the moon person so they can keep the moon person to themselves. These aspects are also considered as signs for a possible abusive relationship.

If the relationship ends, the heartbreak will be very intense and transformative, whether good or bad that it will depend on how the relationship was.

Lilith sq. Lilith, Lilith opp. Asc. This is another difficult aspect. Again a lot of hidden tension and issues that come up to surface. Repression of emotions. Lilith likes and wants to be free, very difficult to pin her down. You should both your individual Lilith houses and then in synastry that could give you more insight.

Check if you have personal planets in 8H or 12H. Or personal planets in conjunction with Saturn. Cuz those can also indicate a karmic relationship esp. Saturn can indicate a long term one.

You should get to know your bf more and talk things out. Don’t repress things. Be open, vulnerable, comfortable with your own emotions, your own sexual and romantic expression, be respectful and understanding towards each other.

And once again, be careful of this person.

Also let me know if it goes well with this person.