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could someone tell me what vertex conjunct destinn mean in synastry?

i know they both have something to do with fate but I don't know how it works in synastry. Thank u xx

My new bf and i have a lot of squares in synastry. Basically his mars square my pluto and my moon square his pluto. I also find out that his lilith square my lilith, and my lilith opposites his ascendant, and also our venus squares each other. Can you tell me what does it all mean ? We don't communicate much because of the pandemic tho.

Disclaimer: These are only indications.

Too many harsh aspects usually indicate a toxic and manipulative relationship. Anyway, please just be cautious with this person.

Venus sq. Venus isn't necessarily a bad aspect, it just means you have differences in expressing love, having different wants & needs for a relationship. It can also imply underlying tension/conflict. I wasn't surprised when I read that you guys don't talk much (cuz the pandemic) since this aspect can also [sometimes] indicate a lack of communication.

Mars sq. Pluto, Moon sq. Pluto, Oh god. There can be a lot of sexual tension and intense feelings. Mars sq. Pluto & Moon sq. Pluto are red flags in synastry. Indication of stubbornness, competitive behavior, obsession. Power struggles. There can be lot of jealousy maybe even possessiveness. There's so much passion, magnetism and attraction, it's dangerous and addictive. The Pluto person would want to manipulate/dominate and control the moon person so they can keep the moon person to themselves. These aspects are also considered as signs for a possible abusive relationship.

If the relationship ends, the heartbreak will be very intense and transformative, whether good or bad that it will depend on how the relationship was.

Lilith sq. Lilith, Lilith opp. Asc. This is another difficult aspect. Again a lot of hidden tension and issues that come up to surface. Repression of emotions. Lilith likes and wants to be free, very difficult to pin her down. You should both your individual Lilith houses and then in synastry that could give you more insight.

Check if you have personal planets in 8H or 12H. Or personal planets in conjunction with Saturn. Cuz those can also indicate a karmic relationship esp. Saturn can indicate a long term one.

You should get to know your bf more and talk things out. Don’t repress things. Be open, vulnerable, comfortable with your own emotions, your own sexual and romantic expression, be respectful and understanding towards each other.

And once again, be careful of this person.

Also let me know if it goes well with this person.

Hey :)) Do you by any chance knows what it means when someone's saturn is in your sun and when your saturn is in someone's moon ? Is it really karmic ? What does karmic means ?

Sure 🥰

Karmic relationships are relationships that are unstable and hard to maintain, they might be filled with passion but it ends in damage and heartbreak. Karmic relationships are there to teach lessons. They bring up past pain and trauma, usually from parents, to the surface so that the both the people can fix these issues within themselves.

And yes Saturn conj. Sun/Moon is a karmic placement.

And since this is Saturn, it can indicate that it is a long term one. The relationship might feel like it was destined for you to be with this person. A very serious and committed relationship. There's also probably a strong sense of security here. Challenging and there's a lot to learn and work out basically.

Saturn person might try to dim out the Sun person's light out of insecurity or bcuz they find it "threatening". The Sun person might not feel the brightest when they are around the Saturn. Sun person teaches them to let go of their fear. The saturn person also needs to learn to be open to change and new ideas. Once the saturn person can confront their fears and issues and be willing to grow, then the relationship can be great.

A lot of emotional attachment here with Saturn Conj. Moon

You both are probably willing to do anything to make this work. Saturn person might feel burdened by the Moon person's feelings. They could become too critical or controlling of the moon. Saturn person might criticize the Moon person for being too sensitive. This might make the Moon person feel unappreciated and cause their self-esteem to drop. This can be a more positive aspect if you both don't have any afflicted saturn or harsh aspects to saturn in your individual natal chart.

Also Venus conjunct Mercury, Venus in 2H/3H

♡Hello~ Which aspects/placements in synastry can indicate turning on by each other's voices? Thank you <3

Hi!💕

Definitely Mars 3rd house in synastry!!

Lilith conjunct Mercury

Mars conjunct Mercury

Hello, what does it mean when two people have their Lilith aspecting each other’s Moon in synastry?

It depends on the people involved, the relationship, other planetary aspects and what kind of aspect are the liliths making (i.e. conjunction, opposition, trine etc)

In general, it shows a deep emotional connection, unexplainable yet intense attraction, sexual attraction, expressing our vulnerable, dark and wild sides to the other person, rage, obsession, possessiveness and jealousy.

conjunction: even if they don't show it directly, the moon person can see through and feel the lilith person's dark side and would be able to understand them. Both feel a deep emotional connection but also feel unsafe by it. Lilith person could trigger a primal instinct within the moon person, because of that, the moon person could try and nurture the lilith person. Moon person could be very enamored by the lilith person and help heal the lilith person's emotional wounds. There's an intense attraction between them. If one or both of them don't have evolved liliths, they could trigger each others emotional wounds. They could be possessive and controlling towards each other. Both/either of them could be become very obsessive towards the other. Lilith person might also become jealous of the moon person. This is also a stalker placement. If the people are evolved, both could feel emotionally comfortable to express their shadow sides and vulnerability to each other.

trine/sextile: lilith person could trigger a primal instinct within the moon person, because of that, the moon person could try and nurture the lilith person. Strong physical and sexual attraction towards each other. They are comfortable with each other's dark side because they're similar but they both express it differently. Both learn how to be vulnerable and feel safe with one another. It is more harmonious than conjunction, however, trine can also be an enabler if the people are unevolved.

square: a lot of tension and aggression between them. sexual tension too. Moon person would want to nurture lilith but feels rejected or lilith person would want to be nurtured by moon but feels rejected or misunderstood. They feel uneasy with each other's shadow side and can be triggered by it. The moon person might be caught off guard by the lilith person. It can be emotionally exhausting and draining for moon person to deal with them. If the people are evolved, they could be comfortable with each other even if they don't understand.

opposite: magnetic pull towards one another. However, they could overstep each other's boundaries. They're attracted to each other but feel unsafe about each other as well. Moon person can see through and feel the lilith person's dark side but can not understand why they are like this. If they are unevolved especially, this can create a power struggle. Lilith person can trigger the moon person's emotional wounds. It can be emotionally exhausting and draining for the moon person to deal with the lilith person.

(If anything here doesn't make sense or isn't right, feel free to let me know I'll correct or add to it. Also I would like to know what other people's experiences with lilith synastry are like cuz I normally don't see a lot about it and personally I have only dealt with a few conjunctions nothing else)

[Exeunt Leo]