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NEVER build with a man
Women are on a biological clock
We don’t have time to waste
Choose someone who’s already established
You deserve that.
Not being his mule he may or may not marry.
Why struggle with a man when you can just CHOOSE an already established man?
Cheat Code for Women:
Never waste your time & youth struggling with a man.
CHOOSE who's already at the finish line.
Things I'm not afraid to admit as a woman:
• I always get my own bag first (education, career, money)
• I only date a man who wants to provide for me and to protect me
• There's no 50/50 for me because women have been doing most of the work all the time (working full time, doing the household and giving birth to a child)
• I deserve to have a soft life and to be taken care of
Women are often shamed for having high standards and wanting our need for security(through finances) fulfilled by the man we're dating.
The women who fall for the shaming usually end up filing for divorce anyways. And the #1 reason is financial stress!
This is why women should never settle or allow others to shame us out of our standards and needs in the first place. You will never be happy if you're not getting your needs met.
Love is not enough. Women NEED security too.
Ladies, watch this video.
A broke man is supposed to be a red flag, not an opportunity for you to play Bob the builder.
Don't try to fix him, run!
Normalize black women being provided for, cherished, loved & courted in relationships.
𝘍𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘌𝘯𝘦𝘳𝘨𝘺 𝘓𝘐𝘍𝘌 ❀