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✨ BOOKS TO READ ON YOUR HYPERGAMOUS JOURNEY!!! ✨

Stop using the pandemic as an excuse for not developing yourself and your social skills! It’s important to devote time to studying hypergamy, dating, social climbing, and femininity. Although nothing can replace real life interactions, reading books on the topic can help prime you for when these interactions do occur. Devote yourself to daily reading, ladies. 

DATING

- Shanghai Girls: Uncensored & Unsentimental: How Formidable Chinese Women Use Their Feminity to Get Wealth and Power, By Lan Lan

- Ho Tactics, by G.L. Lambert

- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako

- How To Marry The Rich, by Ginie Sayles 

FEMININITY

- Simply Irresistible, by Ellen T. White

- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako

SEDUCTION

- The Book of Courtesans, by Susan Griffin

- The Art of Seduction, by Robert Green

- The Seduction Mystique, by Ginie Sayles

- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako

SOCIAL CLIMBING

- Meet the Rich, by Ginie Sayles

- The Old Money Book: How To Live Better While Spending Less, by Byron Tully

- Modern Etiquette Made Easy, by Myka Meier

- The Social Climbers Bible,  Dirk Wittenborn

I decided today that I'm going to quit my job. I have nothing to fall back on. I do feel selfish and irresponsible. I have a family and bills to take care of. But I also have never done anything for me. I have been struggling with my mental health for a while now. Just last year I started doing something about it because I left one job and hopped right into another without taking any time off. I didn't want to do that again. I don't want to carry the same ill feelings into another space. It defeats the purpose of me starting over. I honestly don't know what my next step is. Am I worried and scared? Yes. Surprisingly I'm not as much as I thought I would be. I'm mostly relieved. I like a lot of weight is lifted off of my shoulders. Anxiety is caused by the fear of the unknown. I'm letting that go. I am doing what's best for me and not what I think is best for me. This is my first major step in making changes in my life. If you have any advice or encouraging words, please feel free to comment. They may come in hand on bad days.

Take Care, Be Considerate, Have Compassion💜

You have to remind yourself to remain soft when life starts to get hard 💜

REINVENTING MYSELF-Femininity

Simply put, I don’t like the woman I am now. I am a manifestation of my parents neglect, insecurities rooted in me since a child, along with suppressed and very obvious trauma. I want to see better, I want to do better, I want to attract better.

In preparation for spring (the actual “New Year”) I am currently throwing away EVERYTHING and starting completely fresh. Clothes, wigs, sheets, I even thought about tossing my diploma not a soul asked me for (not even school, everything is electronic).

This is she, me. Anew

Personality

She is mysterious, yet has a welcoming aura about her. You know she’s not the woman to step to unless it’s worth her time, but intimidating isn’t the feeling that comes over the admirer. She’s playful, actively laughing and playing with her dogs. Publicly and privately. A hopeless romantic, though a seductress first. Her love (and lust) is earned. She’s very hard to get.

Hopeless Romantic

Adventurous

Rebellious

Creative

Bookworm

Athletic

Hobbies

She’s always trying something new to see if she finds something she likes. Fear of dislike is never on her mind. As a curious spirit, she not only has hobbies but works to advance and meet those who share the same hobbies as her

Art museums

Theatre

Cooking & making recipe books to pass down

Scrapbooking

Learning about nature (plants, Survival skills, history)

Baking (for anyone)

Chess

White Wine

Astrology

Teapot Collecting

Reading research articles

Boundaries

Again, she’s very hard to get. Hard to impress. Hard to convince. Hard to plead to. As warm as her aura may be, she’s very no nonsense. She is in tune with her inner voice and intuition, who are the first to advise her about whatever you’re telling her.

No sex before substantial financial/personal commitment

Limited debates, always held with class and even tone. Never arguments or fights

Not surrounding self around people who don’t share the same ambition

I come first. My safety, my priorities and myself, period.

No unannounced guests (gift deliveries excluded)

I don’t entertain conversations with men after a certain time

I am selective about what I choose to listen to, so I cut all unproductive/negative conversations very short

Goals

She is an “overachiever”. Whatever that means.

Purchase first property

Travel to 5th country

Obtaining black dermatologist

Selling select art pieces for over ($XX,XXX)

Approved for American Express Platinum Card

Accepted into Ph.D program

Complete first few books/scripts

Learn Spanish and ASL fluently

I went deep into depth privately, and I highly suggest you do the same. Sometimes, it helps to have an organized, detail breakdown of who you are, who you want to become, and most importantly who are you leaving behind.

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Isn’t he lucky?

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POV: You’re my husband that just came home from work and we’re about to do a saucy weekend bender full of mischievous fun, adventure, and UNCONDITIONAL LOVE to further deepen our bond and our friendship as well as our partnership.

I’m a firm believer of your partner being your best friend as well as your lover. You should be able to confide in your partner and show them as much of your truest self as you can (I say “as much as you can” because personally I still have some aspects of myself that I’d rather keep completely to myself.) I want my partner to know that it’s okay to be vulnerable with me. I love when a man shows me his feminine side and he softens up when he feels the need to, it’s truly a sign of emotional trust. I want a companion that will be comfortable with showing me the darkest parts of their soul. I want a soul tie, a blood pact, a continuation of a past life relationship. I’m soooo bad at being a girlfriend, I’m waaaay better at being a wife.

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A RED BONE WEARING RED。♡

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Raves are truly my home. My oasis. My haven.

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Orange you glad I’m yours?🍑🍊

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EROS’ BODY

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Somebody’s Drunk Wife 🥺🫠🥴🖤

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Natural Beauty

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She’s a MANEATER

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On or Off?

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Black Ravers

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Will you be my valentine? ♡

EROS ORISHA: The Caramel Bunny

EROS ORISHA: The Caramel Bunny

EROS ORISHA: The Caramel Bunny

LET HER COOK!

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Empress Admiral Eros: The Sexiest War Criminal

Please remember, it’s important to take care of yourself!

Babe Nation, it’s important to pace yourself and take care of your personal well-being! Reevaluate the actions in your life that could pose a threat to your safety and health. Make the decision to eliminate bad habits and create positive alternatives that build you up and make you feel better! Moderation is key!🤍🌈

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