Figure Your Shit Out Before You Have Children Y'all - Tumblr Posts

Why does my dad think he can be more affectionate now that I'm older when he practically made me this way?

Maybe I wouldn't have so many problems with accepting affection If he had figure his shit out when I needed him.

Not me sitting at the dinner table listening to my mum berate my brother's professor's for the same things my professors did to me at that age, the only difference being that I came sobbing to her and she didn't say anything.

Random conversation I'm sure I would have or will have at some point.

- hey Gracie, how are you? Anything new happened?

- oh you know, just the usual watching my dad give my brother a fucking EATING DISORDER. Then I had a good cry because I confronted him about it and I don't do well with confrontation. Nothing out of the ordinary.

- *👁️👄👁️* are you still seeing that therapist?

My dad literally won't look at me because he thinks I undermined his authority when he was about to give my brother an eating disorder.

Thanks a lot dad.