Just Communicate - Tumblr Posts
> Child tries to communicate respectfully to their parent how they didn’t have “an attitude” when they just looked at their parent and how they feel like their not being listened to since they have to repeat themselves, whilst begging for them to do so. They even ask their parent to prove they had said “attitude”
> Continues gaslighting and speaking over their child, getting angry and yet silent when they need to show proof, storming off to ask other parent if the child usually has attitude (that’s not evidence)
> Child states they feel silenced and ignored
> Takes away some of child’s things as punishment
> Still states “it’s better to discuss your feelings”
> Refuses to elaborate
> Leaves
This is your reminder that if you have a problem with someone, something they're doing, something they're saying or if they forgot something important, or if they have done you wrong in some way. This is your reminder that you should talk to them.
Tell them what's wrong
Tell them you're hurting
Tell them they fucked up
Tell them.
Because if you dont, if you let this feeling simmer, you may end up losing them.
Communication is important to any relationship. Friendship, familial, romantic, all of it. Tell them when they fuck up.
If you don't communicate, it'll all fall into shambles. I've lost friends because they didn't tell me I fucked up. They didn't tell me i was hurting them. I didn't tell them they fucked up. I didn't tell them I was hurting because of what they did or said. And now. I lost my best friend and the person I loved for the longest.
Please, talk to people. Tell them your feelings. Tell them they fucked up. Listen to them if they tell you that you fucked up. Listen and communicate.
This is your reminder that if you have a problem with someone, something they're doing, something they're saying or if they forgot something important, or if they have done you wrong in some way. This is your reminder that you should talk to them.
Tell them what's wrong
Tell them you're hurting
Tell them they fucked up
Tell them.
Because if you dont, if you let this feeling simmer, you may end up losing them.
Communication is important to any relationship. Friendship, familial, romantic, all of it. Tell them when they fuck up.
If you don't communicate, it'll all fall into shambles. I've lost friends because they didn't tell me I fucked up. They didn't tell me i was hurting them. I didn't tell them they fucked up. I didn't tell them I was hurting because of what they did or said. And now. I lost my best friend and the person I loved for the longest.
Please, talk to people. Tell them your feelings. Tell them they fucked up. Listen to them if they tell you that you fucked up. Listen and communicate.
Stargate Universe "Aftermath"
Full disclosure this is ranting for the sake of ranting
I am BEGGING zine producers to be more open in communication, the first time I ordered there was RADIO SILENCE for like 4/5 months after preorders ended and I figured “well…. The money went to charity so even if I don’t get my shit I’m fine with that but I’ll never order one again unless it’s one VERY SPECIFIC THING this is ridiculous” and then that very specific thing got made, not only did it get made but it had some of my favorite creators so I caved and figured “alright, it’s for profit this time but there’s a lot of people I’m familiar with who even run their own merch stores so I’m okay with that”
Almost four months since preorders closed and guess what? RADIO. SILENT. No “we started producing the keychains!” “we sent the books to be printed!” “We’re just waiting on a few more submission!” Like this is ridiculous when charging so much??
I’m not saying post everyday and be like “day 23, still waiting on our manufactures!” Just like maybe “hey we got the keychains in today, so we have 7/15 merch items!!” “Books should be ready by next week!” Just give me SOMETHING.