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Just because it requires effort doesn't mean I'm going to stop. Just because it requires effort doesn't mean I don't want it.
Valley Dusk
From the Sun Valley Sunset Collection by Idee Montijo.

That time of day as warm yellow daylight yields to twilight's cool blue tones, yet in wildfire season as smoke causes the light to fade from orange to gray, hazy smoke diffuses the ridgeline details. This image reminds me that we must clear the smoke to see what's truly in front of us. So.. let's clear the air on why we have such difficulty in beating climate change.
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Embracing the Unknown: Honouring Life Changes Shaina Tranquilino May 11, 2024

Change is the only constant in life. We've all heard this adage countless times, yet when faced with significant shifts, we often find ourselves hesitating, held back by fear of the unknown. Whether it's starting a new job, moving to a new city, ending a relationship, or embarking on a new adventure, transitions can be daunting. However, it's precisely these moments of change that offer us the opportunity for growth, discovery, and transformation.
Anything worth doing in our lives inevitably comes with a certain level of fear attached to it. Fear of failure, fear of rejection, fear of the unfamiliar – these emotions can paralyze us, preventing us from taking the necessary steps toward our goals and aspirations. Yet, if we allow ourselves to be consumed by fear, we risk stagnation and regret. Instead, we must learn to embrace change with open arms, recognizing it as an integral part of the human experience.
Honouring life changes means acknowledging the discomfort that comes with them and choosing to move forward despite it. It means accepting that growth often requires stepping outside of our comfort zones and into the realm of uncertainty. It's about trusting in ourselves and our ability to adapt, even when the path ahead seems unclear.
One of the most powerful ways to honour life changes is by cultivating a mindset of resilience and optimism. Rather than focusing on what could go wrong, focus on what could go right. Instead of dwelling on past failures, see them as valuable lessons that have brought you one step closer to where you are today. By shifting our perspective in this way, we can approach change with a sense of possibility rather than dread.
Another essential aspect of honouring life changes is practicing self-compassion. Change can be challenging, and it's okay to feel scared or overwhelmed at times. Be gentle with yourself as you navigate these transitions, and remember that it's okay to ask for help when you need it. Surround yourself with supportive friends, family, or mentors who can offer guidance and encouragement along the way.
Moreover, staying present in the moment can help alleviate anxiety about the future. Instead of getting caught up in "what ifs" and hypothetical scenarios, focus on the here and now. Take things one step at a time, celebrating each small victory along the way. By staying grounded in the present moment, you can cultivate a sense of gratitude for the journey, even amidst the uncertainty.
Ultimately, honouring life changes is about embracing the full spectrum of human experience – the highs and the lows, the triumphs and the challenges. It's about recognizing that growth often requires us to step into the unknown and trusting that we have the strength and resilience to navigate whatever comes our way.
So, the next time you find yourself facing a significant life change, remember this: Anything worth doing will likely stir up some fear within you. But instead of letting that fear hold you back, let it propel you forward. Embrace the uncertainty, lean into the discomfort, and trust that on the other side of change lies endless opportunity for growth, fulfillment, and joy.

In that case
Black sharpie on cardboard reverse image
Monrovia 1997
1997 was a pivotal year for me.
1997 was the year I handed my resignation letter to my asshole boss.
When I handed it to him you want to know what he did?
He quietly read my letter then he looked up and became furious and screamed,
"Well, in that case YOU'RE FIRED!!!"
I kid you not.
In my life there was a before and there has been an after to that moment.
Calbayog City 2024
Oh I have been distracted by new ideas and more often than not I’m tapping away on the keyboard one of those short stories for a collection.
The fan fic I finished the chapter for I have been working on it since 2011 and in that time my first Beta Reader moved two time zones away, she got engaged, married and had three child and I got engaged, married and now I am expecting my first child.
So don’t feel bad, compared to me you’re doing much better than I am
I'm 1,587 words into the next chapter of one of my fan fics with that number is going to climb higher tonight. if you don't mind sharing how many words are you into the next chapter of WHS? And I will see if I can match you; by spreading it over my two other WIPs if it's more than I usually make my chapters.
I’m actually working on Driftwood at the moment. I’ve written 458 words of my 2500 word chapter goal.
(I’ve technically got a little over 1,000 words of the next WHS chapter, but that’s probably going in the bin, so it doesn’t feel right to count it.)
Good luck with your word count goals tonight! đź’•

I’m going away to college in nine days. I have trouble believing that my life is going to change so much- denial seems so be a useful tool LOL. As I wait, I spend my time drinking coffee and watching tv in my room. I am not sure why I am treating college like going to Mars, but I know that next time I am in my home town, in my childhood bedroom, everything will be different. The only way I can think to fully appreciate my time left is to spend it exactly was I would if I had all the time in the world.