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Quote from George Burns and a personal reflection.

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My family thinks I’m absolutely nuts. They’re constantly whispering to younger cousins “don’t copy her” and “she’ll always be the wild one, never thinking”. I was desperate to fit in but I never really did. And now I’m out here wondering why the hell I ever wanted to in the first place.

Blood is thicker than water, but water has the power to dilute the strength of blood.

True, I can be reckless and impulsive. If I want something, I have to have it. I am selfish and persistent in my pursuit. Whether or not it’s good for me is another story. I’m stubborn and sensitive, sometimes blindly optimistic.

But frankly, if we spend time waiting for the perfect moment….it’ll never come. No matter how much we plan and prepare, there are always uncertainties.

I believe we have to create opportunities for ourselves. I don’t want to wait around and wonder, I want to know. If I fail (is anything really a failure or just a redirection?), then I have more information than I started with. Something was still gained.

Some caution is a good thing. However, awareness + acceptance always > caution.

It’s not about succeeding - it’s about trying. It’s about having faith, trusting that things are always working out in your favor. Reflection and introspection, then continuing to move forward. Everything is a lesson, to teach us more about ourselves.

At the end of my life, I want to be able to say I lived a full one. That I didn’t hold back out of fear. That I didn’t succumb to being a victim of circumstance, I didn’t stay complacent within the status quo. I don’t want there to be any “what-ifs”. I want to be able to say that it all had to happen this way. That I understand the meaning of my story.

That I loved fiercely and passionately. That I didn’t allow the injustices of the world to harden me. That I used my pain for good, turned it into hope. That I continued to strive for better, that I never gave up.

That I didn’t do it perfectly, but I did it with compassion, self-respect, and grace. That I confidently pursued my dreams and I humbly acknowledged my mistakes. That my experiences shaped me, they didn’t just happen to me.

At the end, I want to say that I know who I am and what I stand for. That in my life, I made the most of it to become the truest version of myself.

Being Open to Change: Embracing Growth and Transformation

Shaina Tranquilino

September 29, 2023

Change is an inevitable part of life. From the moment we are born, our lives constantly evolve and transform. Yet, many of us find it difficult to embrace change. We tend to cling onto familiarity and resist stepping out of our comfort zones. However, being open to change can lead to personal growth, new opportunities, and a more fulfilling life.

One of the main reasons why people resist change is fear. The fear of the unknown can be paralyzing, making us hesitant to take risks or try something different. But what if we reframed our perspective on change? Instead of viewing it as something terrifying, we can see it as an opportunity for growth and learning.

Change often brings about new experiences and challenges that force us to adapt and develop new skills. By embracing change, we open ourselves up to expanding our knowledge base and enhancing our capabilities. We become more resilient and adaptable in the face of uncertainty.

Moreover, being open to change allows us to break free from stagnant routines and explore uncharted territories. It opens doors to new possibilities that would have otherwise remained closed. When we let go of the familiar, we create space for innovation, creativity, and self-discovery.

In today's fast-paced world, where technology advances at an unprecedented rate, being open to change is essential for survival. Industries are constantly evolving, job roles are changing rapidly, and staying relevant requires continuous adaptation. Those who refuse to embrace change risk becoming obsolete.

However, being open to change doesn't mean blindly accepting anything that comes our way. It means approaching new situations with curiosity and a willingness to learn. It involves critically evaluating whether a particular change aligns with our values and goals before deciding if it's right for us.

To cultivate openness towards change in your life:

1. Embrace discomfort: Recognize that growth often happens outside your comfort zone. Challenge yourself regularly and be open to trying new things, even if they initially make you feel uncomfortable.

2. Adopt a growth mindset: Believe in your ability to learn and adapt. View failures as opportunities for growth rather than setbacks. Embrace a mindset that sees challenges as stepping stones towards success.

3. Seek different perspectives: Engage with people who have diverse backgrounds and opinions. Surround yourself with individuals who challenge your thinking and expose you to new ideas.

4. Practice mindfulness: Being present allows us to observe our thoughts and emotions without judgment. Mindfulness helps us become aware of any resistance or fear we may have towards change and enables us to approach it more objectively.

5. Set goals: Define what you want to achieve in life and set clear, actionable goals. Being open to change means being proactive about creating the life you desire while remaining flexible enough to adapt when necessary.

Ultimately, being open to change is not just about embracing external circumstances; it's about embracing personal transformation from within. It's about continuously evolving, shedding old patterns, and growing into the best version of ourselves.

So, let go of the fear holding you back, embrace change wholeheartedly, and watch as your life unfolds in ways you could never have imagined. Remember, only through change can we truly grow and experience everything that life has to offer.

Embracing the Unknown: Honouring Life Changes Shaina Tranquilino May 11, 2024

Change is the only constant in life. We've all heard this adage countless times, yet when faced with significant shifts, we often find ourselves hesitating, held back by fear of the unknown. Whether it's starting a new job, moving to a new city, ending a relationship, or embarking on a new adventure, transitions can be daunting. However, it's precisely these moments of change that offer us the opportunity for growth, discovery, and transformation.

Anything worth doing in our lives inevitably comes with a certain level of fear attached to it. Fear of failure, fear of rejection, fear of the unfamiliar – these emotions can paralyze us, preventing us from taking the necessary steps toward our goals and aspirations. Yet, if we allow ourselves to be consumed by fear, we risk stagnation and regret. Instead, we must learn to embrace change with open arms, recognizing it as an integral part of the human experience.

Honouring life changes means acknowledging the discomfort that comes with them and choosing to move forward despite it. It means accepting that growth often requires stepping outside of our comfort zones and into the realm of uncertainty. It's about trusting in ourselves and our ability to adapt, even when the path ahead seems unclear.

One of the most powerful ways to honour life changes is by cultivating a mindset of resilience and optimism. Rather than focusing on what could go wrong, focus on what could go right. Instead of dwelling on past failures, see them as valuable lessons that have brought you one step closer to where you are today. By shifting our perspective in this way, we can approach change with a sense of possibility rather than dread.

Another essential aspect of honouring life changes is practicing self-compassion. Change can be challenging, and it's okay to feel scared or overwhelmed at times. Be gentle with yourself as you navigate these transitions, and remember that it's okay to ask for help when you need it. Surround yourself with supportive friends, family, or mentors who can offer guidance and encouragement along the way.

Moreover, staying present in the moment can help alleviate anxiety about the future. Instead of getting caught up in "what ifs" and hypothetical scenarios, focus on the here and now. Take things one step at a time, celebrating each small victory along the way. By staying grounded in the present moment, you can cultivate a sense of gratitude for the journey, even amidst the uncertainty.

Ultimately, honouring life changes is about embracing the full spectrum of human experience – the highs and the lows, the triumphs and the challenges. It's about recognizing that growth often requires us to step into the unknown and trusting that we have the strength and resilience to navigate whatever comes our way.

So, the next time you find yourself facing a significant life change, remember this: Anything worth doing will likely stir up some fear within you. But instead of letting that fear hold you back, let it propel you forward. Embrace the uncertainty, lean into the discomfort, and trust that on the other side of change lies endless opportunity for growth, fulfillment, and joy.

CHANGES HAVE BEEN MADE!!!!!!

To My Followers! I have changed my username and blog appearance to match my current frame of mind as far as the posts and fandoms I am focused on. DO NOT BE ALARMED!

@grass-isnt-greener

@bkdk4lif3bitch

@thiamislove18

@marisamakesthings

@marimagines

@zukowantshishonourback

@touyalove

@nottodayg0d

@chibidevi333

@wolfiered666

@smilingsam

@stranger2time

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@sorrymrs-jackson

@blademoxley20

@dopedragonlight

@psychictrashmoon

@therockandrolllibrarytroll

@thanad-zid

@novas-grimoire

@cooper-l0s3r

@allthefujoshiunite

@raymusterio

I am also enacting a block of all people with suspicious/empty blogs. These will include blogs that have those shape icons and those that just scream "Porn Bot".

If your username is on this list, then congrats! I trust you and your blogs and will look forward to your likes, messages, and posts!

there will come a day where they don’t know you anymore.

where they can’t pick you out in a crowd wearing your favorite sweater which recently changed 2 seasons ago.

- someone i used to know