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Hello, what does it mean when two people have their Lilith aspecting each other’s Moon in synastry?
It depends on the people involved, the relationship, other planetary aspects and what kind of aspect are the liliths making (i.e. conjunction, opposition, trine etc)
In general, it shows a deep emotional connection, unexplainable yet intense attraction, sexual attraction, expressing our vulnerable, dark and wild sides to the other person, rage, obsession, possessiveness and jealousy.
conjunction: even if they don't show it directly, the moon person can see through and feel the lilith person's dark side and would be able to understand them. Both feel a deep emotional connection but also feel unsafe by it. Lilith person could trigger a primal instinct within the moon person, because of that, the moon person could try and nurture the lilith person. Moon person could be very enamored by the lilith person and help heal the lilith person's emotional wounds. There's an intense attraction between them. If one or both of them don't have evolved liliths, they could trigger each others emotional wounds. They could be possessive and controlling towards each other. Both/either of them could be become very obsessive towards the other. Lilith person might also become jealous of the moon person. This is also a stalker placement. If the people are evolved, both could feel emotionally comfortable to express their shadow sides and vulnerability to each other.
trine/sextile: lilith person could trigger a primal instinct within the moon person, because of that, the moon person could try and nurture the lilith person. Strong physical and sexual attraction towards each other. They are comfortable with each other's dark side because they're similar but they both express it differently. Both learn how to be vulnerable and feel safe with one another. It is more harmonious than conjunction, however, trine can also be an enabler if the people are unevolved.
square: a lot of tension and aggression between them. sexual tension too. Moon person would want to nurture lilith but feels rejected or lilith person would want to be nurtured by moon but feels rejected or misunderstood. They feel uneasy with each other's shadow side and can be triggered by it. The moon person might be caught off guard by the lilith person. It can be emotionally exhausting and draining for moon person to deal with them. If the people are evolved, they could be comfortable with each other even if they don't understand.
opposite: magnetic pull towards one another. However, they could overstep each other's boundaries. They're attracted to each other but feel unsafe about each other as well. Moon person can see through and feel the lilith person's dark side but can not understand why they are like this. If they are unevolved especially, this can create a power struggle. Lilith person can trigger the moon person's emotional wounds. It can be emotionally exhausting and draining for the moon person to deal with the lilith person.
(If anything here doesn't make sense or isn't right, feel free to let me know I'll correct or add to it. Also I would like to know what other people's experiences with lilith synastry are like cuz I normally don't see a lot about it and personally I have only dealt with a few conjunctions nothing else)
[Exeunt Leo]