Lovequeer Aro - Tumblr Posts
Living well with your aromanticism, not despite of it, gets easier when you notice that this world wasn't made for you. You are not restricted by expectations, you don't have to follow a pre-planned course of steps to what happiness should be at; being aromantic can bring upon you the will to mold your life to whatever shape you want, because you know fully well what's expected won't fulfill you. Instead, you have the power and time to find what does.
You can live alone, unabashedly happy, surrounded by the little things that give you comfort.
You can build meaningful, long-lasting relationships that have not even a hint of romance.
You can have fleeting relations with people that make you feel good and not deepen your bond.
You can have one-night stands and leave before the morning comes if it feels right for you.
You can be present in your family or community, helping and being helped by people you trust and feel like a gift of being part of.
You can hear stories from the mouth of your companions and elders, and tell your own.
You can find beauty where people don't usually care to look at, revel in how much wonder is within you.
You can do what people usually feel like they need a romantic partner to do, without the limitations or complications one would need to fit themself around; ranging for dates to caring for children.
You can pursue hobbies, engage with art and craftsmanship, explore nature, do research, fill your days with the joy of creation all by yourself, just because you can.
The world was not built for you, but it doesn't mean it can't fill your days with joy, or that you can never belong in it. There is so much more than romance.
✨💚Happy Tuesday💚✨
Happy Tuesday to romance repulsed aros
Happy Tuesday to romance indifferent aros
Happy Tuesday ro romance favorable aros
Happy Tuesday to aroaces
Happy Tuesday to aroallos
Happy Tuesday to loveless aros
Happy Tuesday to lovequeer aros
Happy Tuesday to aros who love being aro
Happy Tuesday to aros who haven't accepted themselves yet
Happy Tuesday to people who are questioning
Happy Tuesday to everyone on the aromantic spectrum who have a complicated relationship with romance
And of course, Happy Tuesday to people who aren't arospec but are currently single
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I redrew my valentines oc, Val. I have decided that it is now a lovequeer aro. (also, every time I redraw them, he gets a little cooler and a little more transgender)