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AROSPECS AND ASPECS ARE JUST AS QUEER AS LESBIANS AND TRANS PEOPLE.
AROMANTIC PEOPLE ARE VALID.
ASEXUALS ARE VALID.
ALLOSEXUAL AROMANTICS ARE VALID.
ALLOROMANTIC ASEXUALS ARE VALID.
AROACES ARE VALID.
DEMISEXUALS ARE VALID.
GREYSEXUALS ARE VALID.
DEMIROMANTICS ARE VALID.
GREYROMANTICS ARE VALID.
CISHET ALLOAROS ARE VALID.
CISHET ALLOACES ARE VALID.
CISHET AROACES ARE VALID.
IF YOU DISAGREE, GET OFF MY BLOG.
Found these images and had a vision cut through me, so have the aroallo version as well.
I apologize immensely
Living well with your aromanticism, not despite of it, gets easier when you notice that this world wasn't made for you. You are not restricted by expectations, you don't have to follow a pre-planned course of steps to what happiness should be at; being aromantic can bring upon you the will to mold your life to whatever shape you want, because you know fully well what's expected won't fulfill you. Instead, you have the power and time to find what does.
You can live alone, unabashedly happy, surrounded by the little things that give you comfort.
You can build meaningful, long-lasting relationships that have not even a hint of romance.
You can have fleeting relations with people that make you feel good and not deepen your bond.
You can have one-night stands and leave before the morning comes if it feels right for you.
You can be present in your family or community, helping and being helped by people you trust and feel like a gift of being part of.
You can hear stories from the mouth of your companions and elders, and tell your own.
You can find beauty where people don't usually care to look at, revel in how much wonder is within you.
You can do what people usually feel like they need a romantic partner to do, without the limitations or complications one would need to fit themself around; ranging for dates to caring for children.
You can pursue hobbies, engage with art and craftsmanship, explore nature, do research, fill your days with the joy of creation all by yourself, just because you can.
The world was not built for you, but it doesn't mean it can't fill your days with joy, or that you can never belong in it. There is so much more than romance.
idk if someones already done this but i've already made them all so :3
-demisexual -agender -demiromantic
-aromantic -nebularomantic -asexual
-demigender -transgender -demiboy
-neopronouns -xenogender -queerplatonic
-oriented aroace -polyamourus -transmasculine
-aroace -aromantic allosexual -nonbinary
lemme know if i got anything wrong lol
also if u want more just ask :]
fuck im so sick of every1 assuming that being aro also means ur ace
i love you polyamory i love you open relationships i love you situationships i love you queer platonic relationships i love you friends with benefits i love you uncommon demonstrations of love i love you complexity of the human emotion and experience
AROMANTIC ALLOSEXUAL PEOPLE EXIST
WE ARE HERE
WE ARE REAL
IT IS POSSIBLE TO FEEL SEXUAL ATTRACTION WITHOUT ROMANTIC ATTRACTION
AROMANTIC ≠ ASEXUAL
how dare you call me out like this lol
aroallo culture is not understanding crushes beyond just physical attraction
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i love you aroallos. i love you cishet aros. i love you non-sam aros. i love you aros that society deems ‘not queer enough,’ you existing is enough.
Dipper Pines from Gravity Falls is aroallo
Stanley Pines from Gravity Falls is aroallo
I don't even LIKE hazbin or helluva, but i think that the fandom is a GREAT example of how piss-poor shippers act when a character is specifically stated to be aromantic and/or asexual. Alastor was specifically stated to be Aroace, but so many shippers just disregard it.
The complete disregard for Aromantic and Asexual folks is really disheartening, especially for aspec/arospec folks who want to put our own media out there.
Anyway, reblog this telling me about an aspec/arospec character or OC you really like. Can be from any media, I'm obviously not going to judge
Having both of my protagonists for my webcomic be aromantic can be a little daunting sometimes, because I've met so many people online that just completely disregard Aro and/or Ace rep in favour of shipping something.
Alloromantic folks are totally valid obviously, don't get me wrong, but like dude just let us Aromantics have SOMETHING.
It's honestly one of my biggest pet peeves with the internet.
Being calm is fantastic. Here is my guide to doing it.
Ignore insults or "Oh you shouldn't just take" phases. These often cause rage due to nature. But you simply can just ignore if you put no mind to it and overcome your habit of reacting to insults or a personalized one.
Suppress your rage. Just don't put thought on a certain thing whether it's a conflict or someone arguing. Often rage makes us do terrible things but it is not an excuse to destroy someone's life.
Think straight. What do I mean? As in what is he trying to say is it offensive or criticizing your stuff. Read close. Critics can help you, insults don't.
(made a typo)
Hopefully, it helps you.