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I’ve been applying to colleges and I can decide between these two majors 😭

🌺Fashion design/styling

Or

🌺Political Science

This will be an amazing month for me

This will be an amazing month for me

This will be an amazing month for me

This will be an amazing month for me

This will be an amazing month for me

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Good morning girlies and ghosties ! I I’ve been on a hiatus for a while but will be posting soon again. I’ve been busy with my senior year such as applying to colleges and such.

Hope you all have a good day or night!

September in’s ——❥ Self love, better boundaries, workout, reading, meditation, journaling, self-evaluations, a better diet, good risk taking, studying, good grades, good high school credit, confrontation, not being walked all over, learning makeup, taking care of my body and mind 💗

September outs ——❥ negative self talk, drama, laziness, suppressing my feelings, procrastination, bad grades, people pleasing, avoiding my feelings, neglecting my body and mind.

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Avril Lavigne in 2003 ･ﾟﾟ･｡ᡣ𐭩

I’ve been dressing more scene and scene everyday!!

How to get the confidence to dress alternative in public: LONG POST {from a scene king!!}

I hear a lot of young teens online saying things along the lines of, “I would love to dress like that but I’m scared”. We’ve all been there, it takes bravery to step outside the box. Since 2020, there has been an uptick in alternative fashion, which makes things a little better, but it doesn’t mitigate the fear some people feel.

As someone who has been dressing alternative all throughout highschool and who I’d like to think has some 17 year old wisdom, this is how you can get the confidence to dress how you want. This can apply to other alternative fashion types like decora, punk, goth ect ect.

This post goes with a youtube video!! You can just watch it if you dont wanna read

Realize why you’re scared: Is it because you’re afraid of being different or picked on? Are you afraid of change? Do you think your friends/peers won’t care about you anymore? These are all valid reasons, and once you know why, you can start to tackle it. Change isn’t bad, everyone changes, change is natural. Look around at nature, seasons change, we grow and age, animals migrate and go through metamorphosis. You don’t have to be confined to one thing forever just because you weren’t born that way. As for the fear of being picked on, fuck those people. Do you know why people tease others? It’s because they’re insecure. Hurt people hurt people. When people see you being yourself and they wish they could do that, they take it out on you because in their heart, they’re jealous. You’re not the problem, they are. (If you’re afraid of being physically hurt, that is completely different and I would not advise putting your safety in jeopardy)

Start slow. While you’re still building your wardrobe, you can start slowly stepping out with small accessories and such. Add some kandi to your outfit or a tattoo choker. This is mainly to ease yourself into it. Big changes can be pretty scary and jarring, so easing into it can help you.

Have some role models. By this I mean, have people you look up to, people that are inspiration to you. Me? Some of mine here on tumblr are @xx-may4-malic3-xx , @xx-k1tsun3-k1d-xx , @xxdespairfactionashtonxx , @cigsnvalentines to name a few. Theres also some old scene queens, musicians, ect. Find whoever you want. I’m reccomending this, because when you see other people doing the same as you, it makes you go “if they can do it, so can I”. Most people probably wont even mind if you send them an ask about specific things (ik i dont, i love them).

Kinda the same point, but build a community. We have a pretty good community here on tumblr. Community is the backbone to everything. Ideally it would be someone irl, but not everyone is lucky enough to have cool irl friendz.

Fake it till you make it. Nobody has to know you’re scared but you. I’m not saying get super extroverted if you’re introverted and go around exuding confidence like a lazar beam. Dance in your mirror, hype yourself up. Take cool pictures and edit them, even if you don’t post them online. Learn to walk with your head up, again SLOWLY. As you start introducing more alternative elements into your wardrobe, wear them with pride.

Be the change you want to see. What I mean is if you want people to be kinder, you be kinder. Try to compliment someone every day. People actually aren’t as rude as you think, maybe I’m an optimist, but I think the average person isn’t terrible. Complimenting other people also makes you feel good, try it. Piggybacking off this point, don’t take things so personally. I know if can be easier to harp on the negative looks and comments you got versus the good ones, but you have to look past this. There are gonna be bad apples always, but their misdeeds can blind you from the people who think you’re pretty cool. Don’t let one bad apple ruin the bunch.

Lastly, realize being cringe is okay. Not just realize it, but internalize it. What even is cringe? Define cringe… Weird? Different? Everyone is different, everyone is weird about something. As I said earlier, some people are just too scared to be themselves. In 80 years when you’re old and looking back on your life, would you rather regret not being your authentic self, or think of all the fond memories of your life? Regret is one of the worse things in life, it’s terrible. There is nobody you can be but yourself. You’re you, so be you.

Remember that this is something that can take months or years. I feel like this past year and a half I have become fully confident in my fashion. I have been dressing alternative for 5 years for reference. I hope this could help someone.

If I wasnt clear on anything, feel free to send me an ask! Im more than happy to help!!

Hey girlies and ghosties! I made an Instagram, please go check it out! It’s based on my blog here so I’ll try to add some stuff from here to there 🎀

Linktree Is in pinned post

October in’s -> good grades, manifesting, a fitness routine, learning more makeup techniques/styles, finance, taking good risks, softball, a good diet, organization, balance, timeliness, positive self talk, confidence, positive energy.

October outs -> negative self talk, unnecessary/toxic people, laziness, a poor diet, fast food, unorganized areas of my life, lateness, lack of confidence, and negative energy.

PLEASE 🙏

take me back to the early 2000s

>w<

Rihanna in 2006｡⊹ ♡.*࿐ ｡ ₊ ·

Avril Lavigne in 2003 ･ﾟﾟ･｡ᡣ𐭩

I’ve been feeling like this song lately

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𝜗𝜚 ໋𓈒 Have Fun with Manifesting .ᐟ 🎀🧁

…📧; have fun with manifesting use your power to your advantage , you can do absolutely anything you want, you can be an astronaut one day and a victoria’s secret supermodel the next the possibilities are absolutely endless you can do whatever you want !!

listen i know we all want good grades,desired face,money and a s/o but you can have SO MUCH MORE!!! im not saying you HAVE to manifest certain stuff but like use it to ur advantage , you can have a secret magical garden or a fairy godmother if you wanted!!! 🎀

make it fun for yourself you live in a reality where you’re the operant power and “ logic” can’t exist so DO WHATEVER YOU WANT!! 🎀🥞🐬

Hi girlies and ghosties! I know I have not been posting as much, but it’ll resume back up soon!

HOCO IS ALMOST HERE!

So my last homecoming (senior year) is on Friday October 25th and the theme is “Night in New York”. So I have been thinking of what to wear, especially since I want something to suit my skin tone, body shape and eye color nicely! So I wanna ask you all what should I wear? Should I match with a fashion style I like or the theme itself?

Styles I LOVE

🎀Mcbling

🎀scene

🎀goth / gothabilly

🎀trashy 2000s

Some Dresses I found for idea!

Let me know if u like any of these dresses!!