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YOU'RE ALLOWED TO BE OKAY WITH YOURSELF!
Now, I know what you're thinking.
"Oh, but I'm just such a fuck up! My mistakes can never be forgiven nor forgotten!"
Well, I'm here to tell you that it's okay to screw up! Learn from those mistakes and grow from them! Be the best you that you can be! Well, unless the best you happens to be a murderer or a drug dealer or a criminal in general. At that point I suggest you choose a different career path. Secondly...
YOUR FEELINGS MATTER!
Whatever emotions you've been feeling, they're okay! Feeling is what makes you human! Whether it's joy, sadness, anger or fear, that's okay! That's all natural! Emotions are a part of life! Just don't let them control you more than you control them. For example, let's say you really want to tell someone how you feel, but you're scared of rejection. After all, the worst they can do is say no. But you never did tell them. They lived their life with someone else and you were all alone. See? You let fear decide your fate. Now, I know it's hard to get a hold of your emotions, but that's okay too! Fear is what makes us human! And finally...
LOVING SOMEONE IS OKAY!
This one is very important, so pay attention! Whoever you're in love with, whether it be a guy or a girl, heck, if you love someone who is neither or both or something like that, that's okay! What really matters is if they like you back. If they do, great! And if they don't, it's their loss. But if they don't like you, don't continue to pursue them. Even if you think they're playing hard to get. Also, if this person is a child and you are a grown-ass adult...
You are asking for a beat down.
I don't care if the kid is real or fictional, you keep those awful, filthy hands off of them! That's a kid! A literal child, for god's sake! Is that how you get your rocks off, you sick fuck? They're children! They can't consent!
And also, if you want to stick your dingle dang wiener in either a child or an animal, I will rip your leg off, remove the skin and, when you least expect, decapitate you with a sword I carved out of your very bones.
TL;DR The emotions you're feeling are okay, the people you like? That's great. Don't touch kids or animals in a sexual manner or you will be decapitated with your own leg that I fashioned into a sword, yada yada yada...oh! I almost forgot! Make sure you take any medication you needed to today!
Stay safe out there! -J
in LGBTQIA+ the A stands for:
Asexual
Aromantic
Agender
AllyCloseted
shoutout to the 90s and early 2k kids who were in the closet but could get away with going to their schools' LGBTQ clubs when the A got added so they could tell their parents they were Allies and supporting their queer friends, or even just The Idea Of Gay People Existing Somewhere depending on the level and brand of conservatism surrounding them.
There are still kids out there for whom this is true. There are still adults out there for whom this is true. Please don't leave them out in the cold. Let them be safe and also stay sane without having to uproot every part of their lives.
You don't out someone without permission, and you don't bully people if it's not safe for them or if they feel uncomfortable or if they're not there yet. You all know that, yes! But then what happens to them if they need support WHILE they're in the closet?
PLEASE don't cut them out of a safe space they've managed to find, one that they can have without putting themselves at risk.
Let them be "allies" and get to know people IRL who can be their support once they're ready.
...
but yeet any motherfukcin jizzrag that DARES to say it DOESNT stand for aro, ace, and agender because THOSE assholes are just exclusionist turtle pimps
sincerely, a 40yo aroace enby substitute teacher
[EDIT: I did not mean to imply that ALL allies are closeted/questioning! Just that it's a super important space for those ones to have available to them. Because yeah you really don't wanna (FOR EXAMPLE) be telling your girlfriend's awesome supportive cishet dad to fuck off after he bakes you a gender repeal party cake 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️. Check out the notes, the notes are EPIC 💜🤍🖤]
Don't buy stuff with random credit cards kids. Remember online fraud is a crime. Which could make you spend up to five years in the house. Even though the person might deserve it, don't do it. Jail isn't a joke nor is it fun. Stay safe out there kids!
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