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[after emptying my balls inside of you unprotected] ...hey, do you still like me??
Just because I choose not to drink doesn't automatically make me no fun. That's a seperate choice, which I've also made.
Strong Sad, probably
I see now that Zebra is my spirit animal
Sunny: What's the first thing you notice when someone approaches you?
Zebra: The audacity.
Trying out a new more cartoonist artstyle with my babygirl malewife pussy boss femcel(not france)
Personally? I genuinely like intimacy. Not sex but kissing, hugging, touching, being open and stuff.
I am also a hopeless romantic, you could probably do something with that.
Also I make as many, if not more sex jokes than my allo friends so take that as you will.
But my experiences are not universal and I have frequently baffled my therapist in ways she didn't know she could be baffled, so... Yup.
But I also think most asexual people (from my experience) just don't want to be treated as other. We are the exact same as people who enjoy sex. Our sexual preference is a small factor in our lives. Yes it will be important for a romance book but the real key is the communication, both verbal and nonverbal.
When me and my boyfriend were on the line of getting together I sat him down and basically said "hey. I'm not interested in all the sex stuff. It kinda grosses me out when I think of myself in that position. Kisses and touching is fine. I'll tell you to stop if I need to." and since then it has been brought up in conversation, " hey do you want to try this?"" hey, I saw a thing and I want to see if I like it" and other such conversations
I hope I actually answered your questions and not just gone on a rant about myself lol
Okay I have done past research and talked to other sex repulsed people, but I thought I might as well ask you lot
Sex repulsed aces, how would you like to be portrayed in a book?
Note: this book is a romance book between an allo and a sex repulsed ace and developing a truely healthy relationship between them!! So any thoughts of what a healthy relationship would mean to you!!
Everyone meet just a normal goose :)