Man It's 20fucking20 And I Still Have To Prove That What Transpired In The Parking Lot Of Scandals In

😩 Man it's 20fucking20 and I still have to Prove that what transpired in the parking lot of Scandals in the academic year of 2012 was sexual assault, plain and simple. I recently saw a comment that said we need to cut Blaine some slack because of the lack of awareness about consent back in the day, and of course because it's just a high school relationship it's meant to be flawed, Baby Blainy Days was drunk, etc

First off all, ignorance and/or motivation does not equal justification and it clearly doesn't negate the trauma of the victim. Secondly, the concept of consent is such a basic thing, one that Blaine was apparently perfectly willing to adhere to as long as it was convenient to him. As soon as he needed sex to play a role he didn't need in a high school production of West Side Story, his regard for Kurt's wishes went out the window. Moreover , Glee saw fit to address the nuances of consent in the Power of Madonna, so it why is it something that gets glossed over when it comes to boys ( and possibly ,Brittany)

Im still bitter about the glee boys not apologizing to Ryder, but at least his story was acknowledged as the serious shit it was by Kitty and (quite surprisingly, Mr.Shuester). Rachel got a sincere apology from Jessie. Compare that to Blaine's offhand explanation meant to absolve himself of all guilt. No remorse , no consideration for Kurt's feelings, AnD Kurt's the one that initiated the apology, for what , fuck knows. Yes, all relationships including high school ones are flawed the point of depicting such flaws on television should be to have the characters learn something from it, not to gloss over them completely.

All this would be slightly more bearable if Blaine was an actual lovesick hormonal drunken teen trying to get laid and not a calculating and selfish person who could handle no hands down south for a year but somehow became hell bent on lying to ,coercing his boyfriend into sex as soon as it promised him the spotlight. Blaine had One beer y'all he was not possessed by the ghost of Jeffrey Dahmer. The reason he couldn't pick up on Kurt's obvious distress and lack of enthusiasm is because he can't do it when he's sober. As a character that copes by repressing his emotions I think that maybee Kurt needs someone less obtuse and more attuned to his emotions than that

Sebastian: Then he said "That's not my name" and I said "Well it is now because I don't care"

Santana *nodding*: My abuela told me never remember a dogs name or they won't leave you alone, I'm allergic to dogs.

Kurt: Hey, Bas you need to update your eye prescription.

Sebastian:And see the guys I hook up with clearly and develop standards ? No, thanks.

Does anyone remember that scene in What If it's Us by Becky Albertalli and Adam Silvera where Arthur mistook a random adult for Ansel Elgort and that man proceeded buy an underage Arthur a drink. I'm just sayin', they called it.

Santana: She is so fake!

Sebastian:Like your boobs?

Santana: My boobs are real.

Sebastian: ...

Santana: REAL EXPENSIVE!

*both laugh maniacally, Kurt facepalms in the background*

John: Boys will be like "I know a spot" then take you to a crime scene.