Does Anyone Else That's Afab Just... Forget That They Can Have Periods? Like Especially When I'm Identifying
does anyone else that's afab just... forget that they can have periods? like especially when i'm identifying as cis male (context: i'm genderfluid and also have adhd so i switch between genders and also my memory is shit) i just COMPLETELY forget about periods.
just a few weeks ago i downloaded the Flo app to keep track of it after years of meaning to and whenever i'm cis male i look at it and double take because periods? that's not a cismale thing?!? (but it is an afab thing if you're not on T or horomone blockers)
also it fucks with my ability to recognize if my cycle is going to happen or not. just two weeks ago i was "weirdly" craving chocolate so i went out during my usual working time and purchased some and felt like a shit impulse-controller and low and behold i get my period that night and yeah! it's cravings! this is what happens when you try hard as fuck to ignore a craving! it just gets worse!
so yeah basically my memory is shit (bc adhd) and my perspecitve is skewed (when i identify as cis male because then female body?! it does not jive!)
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