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Experiencing misogyny as a nonbinary person is so odd. Like, you want to retort but your tongue is caught because they made two mistakes. A, you’re not a woman but b, don’t say those things to women either?
(you can reblog if you’re not a TERF or transmed)
the barbie (2023) experience as an afab non binary person is just [reconnecting with your femininity and love for pink bc you couldnt when u were younger bc being too girly will get u made fun of] [feeling guilt bc u dont identify with being a girl but girlhood is so inherently beautiful and magical and no experience is truly like it] [healing the inner child in you by allowing yourself to enjoy dolls and pink and maximalism] [unapologetically letting yourself wear pink and be stereotypically girly in a society where being non binary means you have to be presenting androgynous 24/7] [getting your heart shattered and then put back together again with sparkly glue over and over in the span of two hours] [realizing that no matter what you do you have somewhat experienced girlhood and it shaped you to be the person you are today and you will never get to erase that experience or truly disconnect yourself from it] [appreciating and understanding your mother in a way that you thought wasnt possible without experiecing motherhood]
this is really important
Some of y’all forget that bottom surgery and intersex people exist.
Amab ≠ penis
Afab ≠ vagina
There are people who are afab who have penises and people who are amab who have vaginas.
So please for the love of god stop saying afab when you mean ‘someone who has a vagina’ and amab when you mean ‘someone who has a penis’
OMG I'VE BEEN SAYING THAT FOR SO LONG!! it is not only intersexist but also transphobic cause people only want to know you agab in order to assume what you have between your legs....
AGAB is a system of oppression, not an identity. Stop treating it like an identity. These acronyms describe an event. They describe how you were categorized into an oppressive sex binary.
“For your assigned gender you put abfab.. did you mean afab?”
No queen, this is my assigned gender
Afraid
Hobie x reader
Soft!Hobie
(Background: Y/n was hit with a fear toxin on the mission, now she's having a panic attack)
"When i wake up, am afraid..." you muttered, in the corner of Miguels office when the toxin took effect, the team tried to comfort you, while Miguel and LayLa look for an antidote.
"Your so mean, I don't like you" choking on a sob, she opened her eyes slowly "Fuck you, anyway" you suffled away from, Gwen, who was rubbing your arm in comfort.
Gwen and the others were startled by the outburst, except Hobie, who was sitting a distance away, but rose from his sit, crouched by the you and held your hand, "Why are you Afraid?" he asked, though he's voice wasn't above a whisper.
Your tense shoulders fell, somewhere in your head you processed Hobie's voice and rough palm, "When I...when I wake up am afraid, somebody else might take my place", you spoke shakingly but your breathing calmed, and squeezed Hobie's hand and raised your other arm, 'hug', he embraced you without thought, and pulled your face to he's chest as he rested his head on your hair...
"Noone will ever take you away from me, love, never be Afraid", he muttered in your hair, its getting so much harder to hide his feelings for you.
{Part two?}
masterlist
Honestly one of the best things to come out of the pandemic for me.
poll time because something my mother said pissed me off lmao
and in the tags tell me your gender and age?
One thing that I notice as I get older, is that as a woman I grow more and more like my mom when I was a child. Not mentally but just physically. All the health issues and conditions my mother has, I have grown to either develop them or notice them more and more as everyday goes on.
So women and afab's, especially younger once, please take notice of things your mom is going through or experiences so that you can look for the signs as you get older. To combat/ help control whatever it maybe.
For me, for example, my mom has dealt with psoriasis ever since I could really remember. Now, at 24, I am noticing that I am developing the psoriasis in the same way that she did. This is not to scare people, but I cation to monitor yourself for self-care and maintenace with your body
Breathless Bokuto
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Bokuto during half time in the locker room washing his face with cold water to wake himself up and he looks up to see you sitting on the bench smiling softly at him he walks over and lays down next to you his head laying on your thighs he was to tall to fit fully on the bench so his feet bend touching the floor on the end of the bench. He sighs “Sorry baby” You look down at him with question “for what?” He chuckled softly “You came wearing my jersey cheering on me and I can’t even score a point for you.” He looks utterly disappointed in himself. You stare down at him in under disbelief and then you have a idea you say “I have a way to cheer you up” 2 minutes later your underwear is ripped off and so if your bra the only thing left is his extra jersey he lent you, you are hovering over his face he says “stop hovering, sit.” As he clench’s your thigh with his hands pulling you down onto his mouth he uses one hand to squeeze your thigh the other in your shirt rubbing circles on your nipple. He laps his tongue back and fourth sucking on your clit, you squeeze your thighs around his head and it makes him go faster like a starved man, one he is. He loves that you can take his breath away, who needs breathing anyway not him all he wants to do in please you as you ride his face that’s his one duty to please you. His tongue runs laps in your flaps as your thighs squeeze around his hand and bench you moan “Kou- we uh.. have to go.. play time...” he just goes faster as you squeeze his head making him breathless Bokuto doesn’t give a fuck if he misses the rest of the game if that means he can stay on this position. Til there’s a knock on the locker room door Akashi’s voice rings through the locker room meshing in with Bokutos slurping noises “Bokuto, We have two minutes can I come in?” Bokuto takes his two hands and puts them under your thighs and lifted you up a bit he yells “one second.” He moves you from his face to his bulge in his pants he sits up and turns so he can stand up he picks you up before and he holds you up with one hand while ur legs wrap around him he gently lets you down and takes a deep breathe his mouth sloppy he likes the juices off his face and helps you get your underwear and bra back on and he’s back to his normal perky self. He puts his hand in yours and whispers “Are you okay to walk?” You nod a little wobbly knowing if you said no he would carry you back to the bleachers you hold hold his hand he opens the door walking next to him Akashi smiles at you both until he sees you both together he definitely knows He keeps himself calm and together and he says “comeon before coach yells at us” you three walk to the gym together and he kisses your cheek before you go up to watch not forgetting to whisper “thanks for the good luck food.” Akashi face is horrified and Bokuto just smiles widely at us both they walk out to the court and in a few seconds the whistle blows and they start to play, a few minutes ago he was leaving bruises on your thighs and boobs and now he’s smiling proudly as he spikes the ball over the net. Akashi is next to him contemplating his life. Bokuto has traumatized Akashi you could say took his breath away
Bokuto :
Konig is so pretty, and he’d be such a pretty crier. Imagine, just imagine him tied to the bed crying about how overstimulated he is. He wants you to stop, but when you stop all he can do is whine for more. He just needs his mommy to take care of him. He has the prettiest moans and whines, and it makes ur heart flutter when you bite his neck while riding him, with his moans filling the house along with the slaps your body’s make as you bounce taking him in as fully as you can get. His moans are like a song. You just give this sweet boy kisses all over his body and mark him up until all he can do is moan for more and moan ur name
(@itscratus my editor and irl friend🤫)
His Bimbo and His only.
Yandere Banda, whose bimbo little stupid girlfriend stands by his side in the store. You hold his hand as he gives men who even glance at you a killer stare. He watched you intently, and he knows how to read social ques and peoples reactions. He makes a mental note of everything you look at or say is cute because he will surprise you with it in a few days after you completely forget about it. He loves his little stupid gf. His final breaking point is when he goes to the bathroom, leaving you in your favorite aisle which is closest to the bathroom knowing that it will keep you entertained while he’s gone. Once he leaves a man walks up and starts flirting with you. You’re so stupid talking to the man not even realizing he’s making moves until he asks for your number. Now he’s the dumb one, all you do is reply with “Oh, I’m sorry :( I have a boyfriend but we can definitely be friends!” You are so sweet and stupid :( What you didn’t know is Banda was around the corner walking he stops in his tracks when he hears you talking with the man. He stops at the end of the aisle staring at your back and the man talking to you. The man sees Banda and his not so friendly smile on his face and the man’s smile fades almost immediately. It gives the man goosebumps and he just stares back at Banda, who’s watching him like a hawk. As he smiles his face and his aura are overwhelming the man looks down at you then at Banda.
The man stampers tripping over his words looking at Banda “O-Oh im sorry no-no it’s okay-” The man nearly trips over his own feet trying to get away as Banda walks over. Unfortunately, he didn’t get too far before Banda is by your side taking your hand in his hand. He smiles at you and you smile back kissing his cheek “Bannie! This is my new friend oh uh- I’m sorry I forgot your name haha.” The man looks like he just pissed himself; how could someone so sweet and nice be with such a scary man like Banda. But nevertheless the man stampers “R-Ren.” Banda looks at him and says coldly “Nice to meet you Ren.” You look at your new friend and say “Well have a nice day!” You go on with your day shopping with Banda and going for lunch. Til the next day you are home cuddling with Banda and the news that plays in the background talks about your newest friend’s murder. You frown “Bandie that guy from the store yesterday died.” God you are so dumb. He smiles sweetly humming in your neck. You look down at him and just giggle as he teases your neck completely forgetting about your last sentence.
Love my Editor for taking up with me and my writing @itscratus
HEY FERB! I KNOW WHAT WERE GONNA DO TODAY!!!! (That sounds extremely positive but I swear I mean it as a thank god for these doctors kinda way!!)
For anyone who needs this :)
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Even if you're not the target demographic, please share for any of your friends who may be.
And if you or someone you know would like to be added to the list, there's a place for that!
CHAT MARK THE CALENDAR
MY BINDER FITS
Also why didn’t anyone tell me they literally are fucking amazing and feel like a dream??????
All Nonbinary People Are Valid
Nonbinary people that present feminine are valid. Nonbinary people that present masculine are valid. Nonbinary people that present androgynously are valid. Nonbinary people that feel comfortable with their agab are valid. Nonbinary people that don’t feel comfortable with their agab are valid. Nonbinary people that are amab are valid. Nonbinary people that are afab are valid. Nonbinary people that are intersex are valid. Nonbinary people that like gendered language are valid. Nonbinary people that like androgynous language are valid. Nonbinary people that don’t have dysphoria are valid. Nonbinary people that do have dysphoria are valid. Nonbinary people that identify as gay/ lesbian are valid. Nonbinary people that identify as bisexual, pansexual, asexual, or other sexual/ romantic orientations are valid. Nonbinary people that identify with the trans label are valid. Nonbinary people that don’t identify with the trans label are valid
Nonbinary People Are Valid.
Nonbinary people don’t owe anyone a gendered or androgynous explanation to their gender orientation. Inspo: Many nonbinary people who have vocalized these struggles across multiple platforms
‘afab or amab’ no bitch acab
btw amab and afab do not define chromosomes or a persons junk or their facial hair situation or even their testosterone/estrogen levels. intersex people exist.
assigned male at birth and assigned female at birth are events. thats just a thing that happened it doesnt define anything about who anyone is.
I can say this as someone who used to be a part of the girly-gang before retiring to a life outside of the gender binary. Girls want cursed/magical talking swords, don’t let anyone else tell you otherwise
In 5th grade I was told my period wouldn’t hurt and I was LIED TO-
THIS BITCH HURTS SO BAD MY UTERUS IS OUT TO GET ME-