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You Have To Remind Yourself To Remain Soft When Life Starts To Get Hard

You have to remind yourself to remain soft when life starts to get hard 💜

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7 months ago

This is exactly where I am in my journey.

I hope you wake up & go get the life you want so you aren’t miserable in the life you settled for


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6 months ago

Hey, I love your blog! I’ve noticed you’ve been sharing some pretty heavy stuff lately, and I totally get it. I think a place like Elizabethtown, Kentucky, could really suit you.

It has this quiet charm, with peaceful parks and cozy coffee shops where you can just vibe with your thoughts. The community is low-key, which might be a nice change. Plus, there’s a lot of history to explore if you’re into that. Sometimes, a different setting can spark new inspiration. Just a thought!

Hi, you know what I've been thinking about relocating. Maybe this is a sign. Thank you for the suggestion.

7 months ago

I decided today that I'm going to quit my job. I have nothing to fall back on. I do feel selfish and irresponsible. I have a family and bills to take care of. But I also have never done anything for me. I have been struggling with my mental health for a while now. Just last year I started doing something about it because I left one job and hopped right into another without taking any time off. I didn't want to do that again. I don't want to carry the same ill feelings into another space. It defeats the purpose of me starting over. I honestly don't know what my next step is. Am I worried and scared? Yes. Surprisingly I'm not as much as I thought I would be. I'm mostly relieved. I like a lot of weight is lifted off of my shoulders. Anxiety is caused by the fear of the unknown. I'm letting that go. I am doing what's best for me and not what I think is best for me. This is my first major step in making changes in my life. If you have any advice or encouraging words, please feel free to comment. They may come in hand on bad days.

Take Care, Be Considerate, Have Compassion💜


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7 months ago

For the first time in a long time I actually believe that I am going to be okay.

For the first time I truly do not care what anyone thinks or says about me.

For the first time I'm finally pouring into me.

Having all 3 of those at the same time is the best feeling anyone could ever have.

My support for other's wasn't because I was a hater and that I didn't want them to make it. I was because I saw that shine and I was mad that I couldn't get that feeling for myself.

I let fear get in the way of that feeling.

But not anymore. 💜


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