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Depression is so weird. It’s not that I don’t care - I’d love to want to care. I desperately want to care.

Anything is better than feeling a dullness inside of you. What’s the point? I’m going to die anyway.

I don’t feel sad or angry, I just feel empty. And it is all consuming.

I feel like I’m watching my life slip away. Witness to my own self destruction.

I can’t muster the energy or desire to do anything even though I know I should. I know it’ll make me feel better but I’m not fully convinced enough to actually take action.

My floor is covered in laundry that hasn’t been done in longer than I want to admit on the internet.

I haven’t showered in over a week. My eating and sleeping habits are a joke. I’m slipping.

The worst part about depression is that is snowballs and you don’t. see. it. happening.

Then it’s a few years later and you can barely take care of yourself. The fact that I have so far to go to get back to where I’ll feel okay is daunting; it makes me give up without trying sometimes.

But then I think, I get to set a new standard for where and how I’ll feel okay.

But what if I set the wrong one?

You see I am EXHAUSTED at trying to figure myself out. I just want to get to a point where I can manage the stress of life without relying on a substance. Where I can ignore intrusive thoughts. Where I have the capacity to consistently be a good friend, daughter, wife, worker….

I ran out of my meds a few days ago so I want to blame that for how I feel okay.

But I’m not drinking.

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I drank again. Still drinking. I know it’s bad. I’ll save all of the justifications.

My husband said “I need you to stop drinking”.

And I got angry. Like who the hell is he to tell me HE NEEDS ME to stop drinking? As if I don’t already know that. As if I don’t need ME to stop drinking. As if I didn’t raise myself this whole time and this is how I made it through. As if I don’t already hate myself for this.

I know it’s the addict in me getting defensive but..it’s hard.

Maybe tomorrow will be better.

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It’s funny how we wait until we feel good, to do the things that make us feel good.

I have so many cute clothes and ideas and projects and adventures I want to try….when I’m no longer depressed.

So they just sit in the back of the closet and I pass them on occasion and I feel sad that I’m stuck in this apathetic rut.

But that’s the thing right? These things - these bring me joy. If I don’t do them, then I wont have the joy. So obviously I have to take care of myself even when I don’t feel my best because THAT’S when it’s MOST important! It carries you through those times.

I mean duh right?

Anything is easy when you feel up to doing it.

So with that in mind, I’ve been trying to step into my fear. Embrace not doing it perfectly. Embrace saying the wrong thing sometimes. Embrace making people mad, because I will. Embrace messing up. Embrace having the same lesson taught over and over to me.

I feel…not good, but not bad?

This weekend I did laundry, cleaned, went on a little walk, took care of my husband, got some pizza and finished my homework! Go me!

We will keep trying to figure this shit out.

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What a day this has turned into. I found out a coworker that was let go last week may have blabbed about my drinking problem - likely to shift the spotlight.

I understand but I really don’t. I wouldn’t do that to another person.

I don’t want my substance abuse issues to ruin yet another thing in my life. I’m really trying not to let it.

You know? I am doing my best. Sometimes my best means more one day and less on another. Sometimes my best means doing it half assed instead of avoiding it.

I’m not perfect and I am horribly inconsistent in everything I do but I still try. I acknowledge my vulnerabilities and embrace my strengths.

As an addict, there’s a stigma associated with it. Once people know, I fear that’s all they see.

It’s all I’ve seen for a long, long time.

I have come far and I continue to learn.

I know that 99% of the time, people’s actions & behaviors have more to do with themselves than with me. The way they behave is as a result of their thought patterns and beliefs. It’s hard not to take it personally. Especially as an insecure only child - surprise!! It really had nothing to do with me all along.

I feel invalidated. Someone else is using my vulnerability and pain to hide theirs. How twisted huh.

It’s almost like that voice in my head, the one that says “you are a piece of shit, you’ll never amount to anything worthy and you’ll always struggle” - she got a little louder after being quiet for a while. Ugh.

Tomorrow will be a good day, I know it. Day over day it’s hard to see the evolution but I look back to a year ago and ….. definitely not where I want to be BUT I think I might actually like myself now?

If I say love, I’m afraid I’ll jinx it.

So we are making moves and improving and when people try to take us out, we say NOT TODAY SATAN!!!!

Cheers lol

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Sometimes I feel this urge to do something shady, to keep secrets. It’s always when my life is going good. I feel suffocated if I don’t have something for myself. I feel like I need to explode.

I fuck up then I spend all this time trying to repair it and come out stronger - and then I’m like “hmm things are going a little tooo well” and I light my life on fire with gasoline.

I don’t get it. Why?

What motivates people to continue choosing the same choices/decisions even though they KNOW that it’s not the right one?

Even though I know that my choices are keeping me on this little hamster wheel of alcoholism and doom.

Why do we make the same mistakes over and over when we know better? I say I’m not afraid of stepping into my fear, but why am I terrified of choosing different when it comes to substance abuse?

I have a husband who loves me deeply and is so devoted. Sometimes the weight of the love is daunting. I am afraid of myself sometimes. I am afraid of the way I think. I worry that he has me on a pedestal. I am terrified of deeply hurting him or ruining us. I feel suffocated by the pressure of trying to improve. I am not doing it as gracefully as I hoped and I am holding fault with myself for that.

So when I look at myself, I think of all of my mistakes. Of how far I still need to go. Of the lessons learned. Of whether or not I am defined by the choices I make.

But I think that when other people look at me, they don’t see that. I think they may see the good.

I just want to see it too. And I am, slowly.

I had myself convinced that I was manic and suffering from grandiose delusions because I stopped people pleasing and started agreeing with people when they complimented me and speaking my mind and thinking that “I actually am a really great person”…..LOL

No, I’m just developing a strong sense of self worth. I’m doing things from a genuine place and not just so I can feel like I’m earning people’s approval/liking of me.

Sometimes I wonder if I’m totally delusional and I’m actually a giant asshole who totally self-absorbed and unaware of reality.

Welp. Hopefully not! Just gonna keep trusting my intuition and hoping for the best hehe

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Random brain dump:

I am not great at school. Mostly because I struggle with consistency. In like…every aspect of my life. I’m smart, I test quickly & well. But I have a hard time staying focused, I get distracted & my sense of time is so warped. I think I walk around half disassociated all the time.

Also like…school is such a TASK *yawn*

So yes, I have ADHD.

I have been on a stimulant medication now for a few months At first, it turned the 10 channels in my head down to 2. The noise got quiet. It was amazing.

Now I think I’ve adjusted. I’m struggling again. I feel like I’m going crazy and have dementia at 30.

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I really wanted to impress my final teacher. And well, I don’t think I did. She’s tough.

Today though, she told me that I’ve really pulled it together the last few weeks with my focus and being present. She knows I care and is proud of me.

This is going to sound terrible but because I already feel insecure about her “liking” me, I don’t feel like this was genuine. I am having trouble accepting it.

^ there’s my bitchy little twit (BLT) of a trauma voice trying to convince me I suck.

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The pendulum swings between extremes before it reaches equilibrium. I’ve swung from a severe people pleaser to speaking my mind completely, anyone be damned.

Erm….it’s made a couple of things awkward. So like let’s hurry up and find my new comfort level with this.

I realized lately that while I may be all like “let me look deep into myself and come to terms with/embrace all of my shame and wear it proudly because that takes away its power to control me blah blah”- not everyone is there yet.

Whether they want to get there or not, how they get there, etc….none of my business.

I try really hard to stay in my own lane and worry about myself mostly. But it’s hard because I still feel the claws of my BLT trying to pull me back into the land of insecure misery lol

Sometimes I pretend I’m actually just an actor in a lifelong biopic and actually, it does help. Because then I realize how ludicrous almost everything is.

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My moral alignment is chaotic neutral and I feel like it really defines me and I’m not ashamed of it.

Having a solid sense of understanding and identity is my #1 priority right now.

Idk ya’ll. I think I may like myself. Uh oh…shit. I might get all healed and take over the world!!!!! Watch out

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A friend told me recently how he could see how I could be extremely easy to love but incredibly hard to deal with.

I was dying to ask for him to explain exactly what they meant and how/why he thinks this. Hi, I’m insecure.

But I held my tongue. Unsure as to why. Sense of pride or protection? I find myself holding in my thoughts much more frequently these days.

I guess subconsciously, I am more selective now about who I share myself with.

People are exhausting and honestly? I have worked/am working really hard to improve myself.

I will no longer give away pieces of myself with no regard or care.

Not sure what to make of it. I mean, he’s probably right. I can be a lot. Sometimes I swear I disassociate and I watch a version of me running full speed until my batteries run out

And all the while I’m banging on the glass like “Stop!!!!!!”

My brain hurts often.

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I will try to stay positive and breathe through the tough moments.

Made it through Day 1. Again.

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I am afraid I will never kick my issues. Right when I think I’ve got a grip, I slip. Again, and again, and again.

I’m so sick of this.

How many more mistakes do I need to make? What is it going to take for me to stop?

I don’t know what to do or think anymore. Ugh.

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Woke up not feeling great. The anxiety monster is looming. My heart is racing. I’m panicked I’ve forgotten something.

Normally I’d give up on today, go back to bed, and hope that tomorrow will be better.

Instead I’m challenging myself to push through this. I am challenging myself to sit with this feeling and carry it with me but still do the things I need to do.

Like a real, functional human being :)

Right? It’s moments like these that build resilience.

All I need to do is go to school and then I can come home and snuggle up.

Okay self? That’s a deal.

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Day 1 again. Hi Day 1. We’ve become very good friends lately

I will not drink today. But I will take a shower and go on a walk and meet with my therapist.

I feel so all over the place.

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The anxiety built up. I kept sitting there in a daze, unable to concentrate & subconsciously holding in my breath (as if to block out pain).

Then I gasp and come to. Idk a weird fugue state.

I’m such a talker and yet when it comes to describing what I feel or why….I often find myself speechless. Riddle me that lol.

So I sat on the bathroom floor and cried. Had to force the tears at first but then it was like a dam breaking loose.

Then my husband held me and soothed me and he really is the best.

Ok see, I just have to remember that I am loved and seen and cherished - so it’s not the end of the world!

It felt so cathartic to cry. To really sob. And poof, it feels a little less scary now. You know, life.

One day at a time. Each day a little better and brighter.

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Today, I am grateful. I had plans with some new friends and I’ll be honest - I get nervous.

Especially doing it sober? I’ve always counted on alcohol or something to reduce the insecurity. To relax my social barometer.

These days, I usually hide out on the weekends trying to muster myself up to survive the week.

Kind of sad to live life this way but I’ve got a lot going on so this is how it is right now.

So I hung out with these two friends and made myself not drink. And it was not bad. I was nervous and felt a little uncomfortable in my own skin, but I did it.

And what was really special, is I was able to vocalize this feeling ^ and share it safely without fear.

I feel like a baby deer learning how to walk, all awkward and gangly - but kind of cute, right?

Baby steps.

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I feel stuck, between who I used to be and who I want to be.

It’s funny, I thought that I was better than the substance - I didn’t think I would get addicted in complete honesty. I thought I had full control.

I did. At first.. But somewhere along the ride, it was easier to jump in the passenger seat and let things unfold.

I feel very alone in my struggle. In the sense that it’s like I’m slowly waking up to my life as it has become in the last few years of full blown mindless addiction.

Addiction is lonely, but it’ll trick you into thinking you have all the friends in the world.

People don’t wait around for you to fix all your problems and finally start realizing your potential. They’ve got lives to live and shit to do!

The ones that do wait around, hold them so so close.

I’ve got a few irrational and unhelpful ruminating thoughts in my head. I’m actually trying to tell them “no”. It feels stupid, but in my head I literally have to go “This is not productive. I need more evidence for this thought. I will just worry about tangible problems in front of me and not be anxious until I need to be”

You know how lame I feel doing that? I just want to roll my eyes at myself. *rolls eyes*

But it’s also working. LIKE I AM DOING IT PEOPLE, I am rewiring the brain!! You’re seeing it live! Grab some popcorn and enjoy the show because I am about to evolve into someone really fucking great!!!

Feeling like I’m failing at everything or that I’m delusional or that I am going about this (life) all wrong. Worried constantly about what others think about me. Trying to be ~zen~ and trust in what I am doing.

Holding space for these feelings and carrying them with me while still living my life. Embracing that I won’t feel this way forever and that it’s normal to go through periods of doubt & insecurity.

What a concept!!!

Friendly reminder to myself - if you are spending all this time worrying about your life & yourself, imagine that everyone is probably doing the same about their lives and selves. They don’t have time to be thinking about that cringe comment I made!

An affirmation for me lately: I welcome however my life unfolds because I trust in my ability to be resilient, kind, and persevere.

Not everyone is going to like me and that’s okay too!!!! I am not less than!

Here’s a thought.. Maybe they’re the asshole?

Blah blah BLAH BLAH.

Each day is a new day. Some days are better and brighter. Some days, not so much. But each day is just one little piece of it all. And I want to live these days. At least for a little longer.

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I can feel myself shifting internally while the world is simultaneously trying to stop it.

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I can feel myself:

• growing less attached to the opinions of others

• growing in confidence (maybe some borderline arrogance but it’s new and I’m gleeful)

• more & more able to talk myself out of ruminating

• “testing” my intrusive thoughts for evidence - turns out they’re wrong a lot!

• feeling optimistic about the future - setting goals, making plans

• less *needing* to escape; instead, making a conscious choice to if so

• follow up ^ wanting to escape less often

• more comfortable letting things/people/situations go (not needing to control)

• embracing the freedom in realizing that I don’t matter to anyone else as much as I do to myself

• acknowledging the other side of the coin - the painful loneliness of realizing I don’t matter to anyone else as much as I do to myself

• defining my reality on my own terms

• feeling happy & confident, yet feeling like I’m doing something wrong

• tested by old thought patterns and behaviors

• trying to make a home for the scared little girl/old me while shifting into a newer mature new me

• heightened awareness of others’ need to be accepted, probably because I find myself growing less so - like a living juxtaposition

• acknowledging my weaknesses while, starting to accept my whole self in her entirety

• questioning myself often, worrying if I am turning into a selfish asshole

• feeling a loss of identity - Who am I? What do I like? What do I want? ….How do I decide?

• feeling like there isn’t enough time anymore

• being a human

••• holding all of these feelings separately, together •••

not. quitting.

maybe, stumbling

but then. getting. up. again.

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Oh, I was tested today on my no drinking and I prevailed. YAY me. It’s the little wins. Few and far between but they add up over time - experience > confidence > resilience

Addiction is all simple math really.

Drinks, dollars, grams, ounces, pills, dosage, days, hours - constantly counting; constantly surviving, dependent on a roulette of endless numbers.

And recovery? Getting sober is saying “fuck your math, I’m bored, let’s do some science”

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Feels like I’m losing my mind every other day.

Questioning my sense of reality more often than I ever have. Am I crazy?

I’m exhausted.

Embracing the Path of Healing: Moving On from Pain

Shaina Tranquilino

September 26, 2023

Life is an amalgamation of happiness and pain, joy and heartache. While some experiences bring us immense pleasure and fulfillment, others leave us broken, struggling to find solace amidst the fragments of our shattered hopes. However, it is essential to remember that pain does not define us; rather, it serves as a catalyst for growth and resilience. In this blog post, we will explore the transformative journey of moving on from pain and emerging stronger than ever.

1. Acknowledge the Pain:

The first step towards healing is acknowledging the pain you are going through. Denying or burying your emotions will only prolong the healing process. Acceptance allows you to confront your feelings head-on, enabling psychological and emotional growth.

2. Allow Yourself to Grieve:

Grieving is a natural response to loss or emotional distress. Give yourself permission to mourn over what was lost - be it a relationship, dream, or any other significant aspect of your life. Cry if you need to; let your emotions flow freely without judgment.

3. Seek Support:

Remember that you don't have to face your pain alone. Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or even professional counselors who can provide guidance and lend a listening ear during vulnerable moments. Surround yourself with positive influences who uplift and empower you throughout your healing journey.

4. Practice Self-Compassion:

Often, we harshly judge ourselves during tough times, adding unnecessary burdens to our already heavy hearts. Be kind and gentle with yourself by practicing self-compassion. Treat yourself with love, understanding that everyone stumbles along their path at some point in life.

5. Rediscover Your Identity:

Pain has an uncanny ability to overshadow our true selves. Use this opportunity for introspection and rediscovery; reconnect with activities or hobbies that bring joy into your life. Focus on personal growth and self-care, nurturing both your physical and emotional well-being.

6. Embrace Forgiveness:

Forgiveness is a powerful healing tool that frees us from the shackles of pain. Forgive those who have caused you harm, but most importantly, learn to forgive yourself. Understand that mistakes are part of being human and allow room for personal growth without carrying the weight of regret.

7. Set New Goals:

Moving on involves envisioning a new future filled with hope and purpose. Set meaningful goals that align with your values and aspirations. These objectives will not only motivate you but also serve as beacons of light guiding you towards a brighter tomorrow.

8. Cultivate Gratitude:

In moments of despair, it can be challenging to find gratitude amidst the chaos. However, consciously practicing gratitude can shift your perspective and empower you to see beauty in the simplest moments of life. Count your blessings daily, focusing on what brings happiness into your world.

Though moving on from pain may seem like an uphill battle, remember that healing is not linear. It requires patience, resilience, and self-compassion. By acknowledging your pain, seeking support, practicing self-care, rediscovering yourself, embracing forgiveness, setting new goals, and cultivating gratitude - you will emerge stronger than ever before. In time, wounds heal, hearts mend, and the scars we carry become beautiful reminders of our ability to persevere through adversity.

Healing Your Inner Child: A Journey Towards Emotional Wholeness

Shaina Tranquilino

October 17, 2023

As we navigate through life's challenges and responsibilities, many of us carry unresolved emotional wounds from our past. These unhealed wounds often originate from childhood experiences, shaping our beliefs, behaviours, and relationships as adults. The concept of healing your inner child offers a powerful way to address these deep-rooted issues, paving the path towards emotional wholeness and self-acceptance. In this blog post, we will explore practical steps you can take to embark on this transformative journey.

1. Acknowledge the Existence of Your Inner Child:

The first step in any healing process is acknowledging that there is an inner child within you who requires attention and care. Recognize that your younger self still exists within you, carrying all those emotions and experiences. Allow yourself to reconnect with this part of you without judgment or criticism.

2. Create a Safe Space for Self-Exploration:

Creating a safe space for self-reflection is crucial when delving into your inner child's healing process. Find a peaceful setting where you feel comfortable expressing your emotions freely. Consider journaling, meditation, or seeking professional support to help guide you through this introspective journey.

3. Identify Past Traumas and Limiting Beliefs:

Take time to reflect on your childhood experiences and identify any significant traumas or negative events that might have impacted your psyche. Explore how these incidents may have shaped your beliefs about yourself, others, and the world around you. By gaining awareness of these limiting beliefs, you can begin to challenge them effectively.

4. Practice Self-Compassion:

Healing your inner child requires showing compassion towards yourself in ways that perhaps weren't offered during your formative years. Embrace self-care practices such as nurturing activities, affirmations, forgiveness exercises (including forgiving yourself), and treating yourself with love and kindness whenever possible.

5. Reconnect with Your Inner Child:

Allow yourself to tap into the childlike wonder and innocence that resides within you. Engage in activities that evoke joy, creativity, and playfulness. Embrace hobbies or interests that once brought you happiness as a child. By nurturing this connection, you are providing your inner child with the love and attention they may have lacked.

6. Reparenting Yourself:

Reparenting involves fulfilling your own emotional needs by giving yourself the care and support you longed for during childhood. Be attentive to your feelings and emotions, validating them instead of dismissing or suppressing them. Cultivate healthy boundaries, self-discipline, and self-compassion as part of this healing process.

7. Seek Professional Support if Needed:

Sometimes, healing deep-seated wounds requires professional guidance from therapists specializing in inner child work or trauma recovery. These professionals can offer valuable insights, techniques, and tools tailored to your unique journey towards healing your inner child.

Healing your inner child is an ongoing process that requires patience, compassion, and commitment to self-discovery. By acknowledging their existence, creating a safe space for exploration, identifying past traumas and limiting beliefs, practicing self-compassion, reconnecting with your inner child, reparenting yourself, and seeking professional support when necessary – you can pave the way towards emotional wholeness and lead a more authentic life filled with love and acceptance.

Understanding Trauma and Exploring Strategies for Healing

Shaina Tranquilino

October 24, 2023

Trauma is a powerful, life-altering experience that can leave lasting emotional, psychological, and even physical scars. It can be caused by various events such as accidents, abuse, violence, natural disasters, or the loss of a loved one. While each person's experience with trauma is unique, it often leads to feelings of fear, helplessness, and disrupted daily functioning. However, there is hope for healing and growth. In this blog post, we will delve into what trauma is and explore strategies to navigate through its aftermath.

Defining Trauma: Trauma refers to an event or series of events that overwhelm an individual's ability to cope effectively. It disrupts their sense of safety and security. Such experiences trigger intense emotions and physiological responses that may persist long after the traumatic event has occurred. Common symptoms include intrusive thoughts, nightmares, flashbacks, hypervigilance, anxiety disorders, depression, mood swings, and difficulty trusting others.

Recognizing the Impact: It's crucial to acknowledge that everyone processes trauma differently; what may be traumatic for one person might not have the same effect on another. Therefore, it's essential to validate personal experiences and offer support without judgment or comparison. Understanding the impact of trauma helps individuals develop empathy towards themselves and others who have gone through similar challenges.

Strategies for Healing:

Seek Professional Help: Trauma recovery often requires professional assistance from therapists specializing in trauma-focused therapy techniques like Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), or Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). These therapeutic approaches empower individuals to process their trauma safely while developing coping mechanisms.

Practice Self-Care: Engaging in self-care activities can promote healing by nurturing your mind, body, and spirit. This includes getting adequate restorative sleep, maintaining a balanced diet rich in essential nutrients, exercising regularly, and engaging in activities that bring joy and relaxation. Self-care also encompasses setting healthy boundaries, practicing mindfulness or meditation, and seeking support from loved ones.

Connect with Support Networks: Sharing your experiences with trusted friends, family members, or support groups can reduce feelings of isolation and provide a sense of belonging. Surrounding yourself with empathetic individuals who validate your emotions helps rebuild trust and foster a supportive environment for healing.

Cultivate Resilience: Building resilience is an integral part of trauma recovery. Engaging in activities such as journaling, art therapy, or participating in support groups can enhance self-awareness and personal growth. Seeking out positive role models who have overcome similar traumas can inspire hope and motivate you to move forward.

Practice Mindfulness Techniques: Incorporating mindfulness techniques into your daily routine can help manage stress levels and regulate emotional responses triggered by traumatic memories. Breathing exercises, grounding techniques, yoga, or meditation can promote relaxation, self-reflection, and emotional stability.

Trauma is a harrowing experience that disrupts lives but navigating through it is possible with proper understanding and support. Healing from trauma requires patience, self-compassion, professional guidance, and the implementation of various coping strategies tailored to individual needs. Remember that everyone's journey is unique; there is no predefined timeline for healing from trauma. By embracing these strategies and cultivating resilience within ourselves, we can embark on a path towards healing, growth, and reclaiming our lives.

Ho'oponopono: The Ancient Hawaiian Healing Practice for Inner Harmony

Shaina Tranquilino

November 3, 2023

In today's fast-paced world, it is easy to get caught up in the chaos and stress of our daily lives. We often find ourselves overwhelmed by negative emotions, past traumas, and relationships that need healing. However, amidst this turmoil, an ancient Hawaiian practice called Ho'oponopono offers us a powerful method to restore balance and harmony within ourselves and our relationships. What is Ho'oponopono? Ho'oponopono (pronounced HO-oh-pono-pono) is a traditional Hawaiian practice that means "to make right" or "to rectify an error." It is deeply rooted in the belief that everything in the universe is interconnected and that we are responsible for our own experiences – not only individually but also collectively. At its core, Ho'oponopono aims to heal and cleanse any disharmony within oneself while promoting forgiveness, reconciliation, and restoration of relationships with others. How does it work? According to the teachings of Ho'oponopono, everything we experience originates from within ourselves. By taking responsibility for our thoughts, actions, and reactions towards events and people around us, we can begin to heal from deep-seated wounds. This practice shifts the focus away from blaming others or external circumstances and directs it inwardly towards self-reflection. The Four Key Phrases of Ho'oponopono: 1. I'm sorry (Kala) Admitting mistakes or acknowledging one's contribution to a problem is crucial in initiating the process of healing through Ho'oponopono. Saying "I'm sorry" doesn't necessarily mean you have done something wrong; rather, it signifies your willingness to take responsibility for creating harmony. 2. Please forgive me (Makala) Asking for forgiveness demonstrates humility and vulnerability. By recognizing our own shortcomings and seeking forgiveness, we open the door for healing and transformation. 3. Thank you (Mahalo) Expressing gratitude is a powerful tool in Ho'oponopono as it helps us shift our focus from negativity to appreciation. Gratitude allows us to find blessings even in challenging situations, fostering inner peace and harmony. 4. I love you (Aloha) Love is the ultimate healer in Ho'oponopono. By sincerely offering love to ourselves and others involved in a conflict or challenge, we release negative energy and invite compassion, empathy, and understanding into our lives. How to Practice Ho'oponopono: 1. Find a quiet space: Set aside some time where you can be alone without distractions. 2. Reflect on the issue: Identify an area of your life that needs healing or a relationship that requires reconciliation. 3. Repeat the four key phrases: While focusing on the issue at hand, repeat each phrase – "I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you" – either silently or out loud. Allow yourself to feel the emotions associated with these words. 4. Visualize healing: Imagine the situation being transformed into one of perfect harmony and wellbeing. See all parties involved releasing any negative feelings and embracing forgiveness. 5. Repeat regularly: Make Ho'oponopono a regular practice, allowing it to become an integral part of your daily routine. Regularly revisiting this process will strengthen your ability to heal deep-seated wounds and maintain healthy relationships. Ho'oponopono offers us a profound opportunity for personal growth, emotional healing, and restoration of relationships within ourselves and with others. By taking responsibility for our experiences through humble acknowledgment, sincere apologies, gratitude, and heartfelt love, we can foster inner harmony while creating positive ripples in the world around us. Remember that change takes time; practicing Ho'oponopono consistently will gradually transform your mindset, allowing you to embrace forgiveness, compassion, and love more readily. Embrace the power of Ho'oponopono and discover its transformative potential within yourself and in the relationships that matter most to you.

The Emotion Code: Unlocking Emotional Healing for a Happier Life

Shaina Tranquilino

January 22, 2024

In our fast-paced world, it's no surprise that emotional baggage can accumulate and weigh us down. Unresolved emotions from past experiences can hinder personal growth, relationships, and overall well-being. However, there is hope on the horizon – Dr. Bradley Nelson's groundbreaking book, "The Emotion Code," offers a powerful solution to release emotional energy blocks and restore balance in our lives.

Understanding The Emotion Code: Dr. Bradley Nelson, a renowned holistic physician and chiropractor, developed The Emotion Code as a method to identify and release trapped emotions stored within the body. According to his theory, unresolved emotions create energetic imbalances or "trapped" emotions that disrupt the flow of vital life force energy.

Using muscle testing techniques (kinesiology), Dr. Nelson helps individuals discern the specific trapped emotions they carry within them. These could range from sadness, anger, fear, and guilt to even inherited emotions passed down through generations. By identifying these emotions with precision, individuals can then proceed to release them using simple yet effective techniques outlined in his book.

The Power of Energy Healing: "The Emotion Code" embraces the belief that we are all energetic beings connected by an invisible web of energy fields. This understanding aligns with ancient healing practices such as Traditional Chinese Medicine and Ayurveda.

By accessing this subtle energy system believed to underlie physical health and wellness, The Emotion Code empowers individuals to address both mental and physical ailments simultaneously. It aims to establish harmony between mind and body while promoting natural healing processes.

Benefits of Releasing Trapped Emotions: 1. Improved Mental Health: Releasing trapped emotions frees up space for positive thoughts and feelings by removing emotional burdens carried from past traumas or negative experiences. 2. Enhanced Relationships: Emotional baggage often affects how we interact with others. By clearing trapped emotions associated with relationship issues, we can foster healthier connections and experience deeper intimacy. 3. Physical Healing: The mind-body connection is undeniable. Releasing trapped emotions may alleviate physical ailments such as chronic pain, migraines, digestive disorders, or even autoimmune conditions. 4. Increased Emotional Intelligence: As we become more aware of our own emotions, we develop a heightened sense of empathy and understanding towards others – an essential aspect for personal growth and harmonious relationships.

Practical Application and Accessibility: Dr. Nelson's book provides step-by-step instructions on how to identify and release trapped emotions using muscle testing and the power of intention. While seeking professional assistance is beneficial, "The Emotion Code" allows individuals to practice self-healing in the comfort of their homes.

Additionally, Dr. Nelson offers certification programs for those interested in becoming Emotion Code practitioners. This ensures that individuals receive guidance from trained professionals who can help navigate the intricacies of emotional healing.

"The Emotion Code" by Dr. Bradley Nelson is a revolutionary approach to emotional healing that empowers individuals to take control of their well-being. By recognizing the impact of unresolved emotions on our mental, emotional, and physical health, we can break free from the shackles that hinder personal growth and happiness.

By embracing this holistic method, one can embark on a transformative journey towards releasing trapped emotions, restoring balance within oneself, and ultimately living a more fulfilling life. So why not explore this powerful technique today? Your emotional liberation awaits!