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You have to remind yourself to remain soft when life starts to get hard 💜

Do the things that you enjoy. Learn what interests you. Listen to YOUR needs.

Just a little update

The night I quit my job I was called for an interview somewhere else. I had been filling out applications since the beginning of the year. I accepted the job offer. I was able to have a week off to just reflect on my life and what direction I wanted to go in. I am going to see where this new path leads me. I've been feeling a lot better since I've been putting my needs first. Before my mind was all over the place. I didn't recognize who I was any more. Now, I swear it's like a fog lifting and I can see clearly. Idk, that's the best way to describe it. This season is mine, I'm claiming it 💜

Hey, I love your blog! I’ve noticed you’ve been sharing some pretty heavy stuff lately, and I totally get it. I think a place like Elizabethtown, Kentucky, could really suit you.

It has this quiet charm, with peaceful parks and cozy coffee shops where you can just vibe with your thoughts. The community is low-key, which might be a nice change. Plus, there’s a lot of history to explore if you’re into that. Sometimes, a different setting can spark new inspiration. Just a thought!

Hi, you know what I've been thinking about relocating. Maybe this is a sign. Thank you for the suggestion.

This is exactly where I am in my journey.

I hope you wake up & go get the life you want so you aren’t miserable in the life you settled for

For the first time in a long time I actually believe that I am going to be okay.

For the first time I truly do not care what anyone thinks or says about me.

For the first time I'm finally pouring into me.

Having all 3 of those at the same time is the best feeling anyone could ever have.

My support for other's wasn't because I was a hater and that I didn't want them to make it. I was because I saw that shine and I was mad that I couldn't get that feeling for myself.

I let fear get in the way of that feeling.

But not anymore. 💜

I decided today that I'm going to quit my job. I have nothing to fall back on. I do feel selfish and irresponsible. I have a family and bills to take care of. But I also have never done anything for me. I have been struggling with my mental health for a while now. Just last year I started doing something about it because I left one job and hopped right into another without taking any time off. I didn't want to do that again. I don't want to carry the same ill feelings into another space. It defeats the purpose of me starting over. I honestly don't know what my next step is. Am I worried and scared? Yes. Surprisingly I'm not as much as I thought I would be. I'm mostly relieved. I like a lot of weight is lifted off of my shoulders. Anxiety is caused by the fear of the unknown. I'm letting that go. I am doing what's best for me and not what I think is best for me. This is my first major step in making changes in my life. If you have any advice or encouraging words, please feel free to comment. They may come in hand on bad days.

Take Care, Be Considerate, Have Compassion💜

You are not your disfunction 💜

On this journey, I'm learning a lot about myself. Things I considered to be a weakness are actually my greatest strengths. And everything I considered a strength to protect me has hindered me instead.💜

Don't kill yourself, please.

If you’re suffering from depression and are looking for a sign to not go through with ending your life, this is it. This is the sign. We care.

If you see this on your dash, reblog it. You could save a life.

What's meant for you, is for you. You cannot mess that up 💜

I've been stuck for a long time and today I decided to change my mindset and look at the glass as being half full instead of half empty. I have spent so much time pouring into everyone else around me to please them. To be liked. I wasn't pouring into myself. I created this blog because I want to build my self-confidence and work through my insecurities. I want to look back and see how far I've come. So welcome to my safe space and my healing journey 💜