Ok Being A Factive Hurts So Much Fucking Worse When You See Online Discourse Of Your Source. So Uh Woohoo.

Ok… being a factive hurts so much fucking worse when you see online discourse of your source. So… uh… woohoo. Blocking that shit cuz it’s triggering as hell for me… online discourse fucking sucks. I get why it happens, but damn.

So… uh… please label things with a trigger warning when it comes to discourse as well?? Because we had that tag blocked but it still made its way on our dashboard because it wasn’t marked as a trigger warning… yay…

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WIP Blue made of our singletsona (that is also part of a school project…) that they’re talking about finishing later. (Probably after the project is finished).

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People who are starved out of conversation will approach it as if it was sacred, people who are starved out of touch experience any touch given to them as the highest form of intimacy, people starved out of gentleness will react to it as if it’s an invasion, an attempt to break them down, and people starved out of a community will approach it as if it was a minefield.

Real shit said in headspace:

💊: Alright! Plan B!

🍓: Plan B???

🩶👻: There was a Plan A???

📖: What was there even a plan for??

💊: Plan B

🩶👻: WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU MEAN??? THERE WAS A PLAN A????

🍓: What is this plan even for????

🧬: Initiating Plan B sequence

🍓: What???????

💊: At least Donathan understands what I’m talking about

⛈️: I’m fucking married to you and I don’t even understand what the hell you’re talking about. What is this even about?? We’re just sitting on the couch playing a game on our phone what the fuck???

🧬: Plan B initiated

*nothing happens*

📖: I hate everyone in this system

Uh… accidentally deleted the message from an anon responding to this post I made two days ago…

So, I just want to make a quick response to that message:

I completely understand what you’re saying about how no one owes me anything with adding a trigger warning to discourse posts, and how conflicting conversation is more of a personable trigger.

I understand that, but my main gripe is more that the discourse wasn’t labeled in the first place. I understand the no trigger warning, and I get what you’re saying and how I should keep doing what I’m doing and block tags and all that when it comes up.

That post was just… more out of exhaustion because no one even labels the discourse sometimes.

And then there’s the mix of those who label discourse with a trigger warning and who doesn’t. Some of my headmates enjoy discourse. I just… don’t. It’s extremely triggering for me. Extreme panic attacks and the like, even when my source isn’t even remotely involved.

It was just a desperate plea, but it’s fine if people don’t do that. I literally was not expecting anyone to see that post, so getting a message about it was a huge surprise. Thank you for the advice anon! Even though I accidentally deleted the message when trying to respond to it….

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