Hey Guys. I Had To Go On A Bit Of A Hiatus To Fix A Few Things In My Life And Help A Few Friends Get

Hey guys. I had to go on a bit of a hiatus to fix a few things in my life and help a few friends get through some things. I hope to be posting again soon but I am currently on a road trip and I have a convention after that and then I’m moving for college so I’ve got a lot to do between now and mid July but after that I should be back to our regularly scheduled program. Still feel free to message me or send me asks, I really do love answering those, and I will be active as much as possible besides full on posting. This is caregiver signing out, be good, stay safe, and have fun!

Dom Drop and Sub Drop

Okay lovelies I will be covering subdrop AND domdrop tomorrow. It’s gonna be long. It’s gonna be extensive but if there’s anything you feel should definitely be in there or an experience you’ve personally had with either of them and you want me to add what helped you or how you knew what was going on or the symptoms you feel need to be covered let me know!!!! Either through anon or messages my inbox is always open but with such a serious topic I want to make sure I cover every base possible. Thank you for all your help lovelies!! Be good, be safe, and have fun!

Just out of curiosity

to celebrate reaching 1k, ill be doing blog rates! i will only be rating sfw blogs!

ill rate your blog if you:

• follow me

• reblog this post

• send me an ask asking for a blog rate

ill be using:

url: its okay | cute | great | perfect | i want it

icon: its okay | cute | great | perfect | i want it

posts: its okay | cute | great | perfect | i want it

theme: its okay | cute | great | perfect | i want it

overall: its okay | cute | great | perfect | i want it

following?: no, but i love u! | i am now! | yes

i will be following most of these blogs!! also im sorry if im not harsh? enough but i rly love a lot of these blog sjodjsd

remember to take care of yourself <3

So I’m a little and my gf knows this. She knows I want a cg, and she’s asked if I would want her to be mine. Then she asks what to do differently and how to exactly be that, and I don’t know what to say! I get embarrassed when she’s asks, help!

Omg I’m so sorry I didn’t see this till now. I would say just talk to her. I know it’s embarrassing but communication is absolutely key to any relationship. You have to put your needs on the table and tell her how you need her to care for you. So before you talk to her make a list of your needs and wants. The rules you need to help you and the things you want out of it. It’ll take a while and you’ll have to be patient until she gets the hang of it. Start gradually and go from there. But you absolutely have to put communication first so any problems can be worked out as soon as possible. It’s great she’s willing to listen and adapt so don’t let that go to waste.

Me too, that’s what I thought it was going to be and now it just pisses me off. I’ve read so many amazing bdsm books that would be perfect representations of the community and sadly they’ll never see the light of day as a published book. I’ll post a list of you guys want. That way you at least have something to give you hope haha.

But like imagine if there was a gfd version of 50 Shades except instead of the dom being an abusive and manipulative asshole who in reality doesn’t give a shit about the subs safety or mental health, they were instead sweet and loving and respectful and actually followed the basic rules of a real dom/sub relashionship …and instead of an annoying, self obsorbed pushover, the sub was actually portrayed as an individual who is smart and understanding and respectful and is not afriad of the dom. ….I’d read that book so fast