Omg Yeah! Its Like I Dont Feel Crippling Dysphoria From Being Called Sir So Therefore I Must Be A Boy!

omg yeah! its like “i dont feel crippling dysphoria from being called sir so therefore i must be a boy!”

you know when youre like “im not [agab] im enby!” and youre really proud of yourself for not questioning anymore but then youre like “wait what if im really just a [binary gender opposite to agab]” and youre questioning all over again

A new song I wrote

I wrote a song! it’s called Dysphoria. it goes like this:

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ive come to realize something about the way we think about ourselves. gender isnt a social construct. heres why:

it implies that if there was no society, there wouldnt be any gender but people who are isolated from society can still have a gender

if all it took to be a woman was to simply identify as a woman, a transmasc egg would be considered a woman

it kinda feeds into the gender = gender expression myth

people from ye olden days and from other cultures who have different words for being trans like hijra instead of enby wouldnt be that gender because its a different label

tying back to that first point, if you need society to have a gender, wouldnt that make it a choice?

i propose this: gender is a psychological connection to femmininity/masculinity/androgyny/etc. like zodiacs, youre stuck with it for life, but how it applies to you is different then how it applies to someone else with the same zodiac/gender. how you interpret it can be different. you can call a color teal or cyan or turquoise but that doesnt change what color it is. and even if youre really short, that doesnt stop you from wearing heels, like how being a man doesnt stop you from wearing a dress. to be a woman, you have a psychological connection to femininity. you can present masculine, but inside its still femme. same thing for feminine presenting men and feminine/masculine presenting enbies.

thanks for reading, have a great day :)

brownie badge to anyone who can guess who this is! (hint: 🌿)

note: these are the characters that i have ideas for, so i had to make some sacrifices. i couldnt see a way to make nahida work for my project, so sadly i wont be including her right now. as for what the project is, stay tuned!

a conversation i had with a friend

i love bread too much