Just A Reminder That It Will Take Some Time Please Don't Be Upset If I Get To Your Ask Late

just a reminder that it will take some time 😭 please don't be upset if I get to your ask late

Things women should never feel ashamed of:

• Orgasms

• Receiving money

• Receiving compliments

• Pretty privilege

• Being smart

• Dressing up

• Menstrual cycles

• Emotions and being sensitive

• Expressing our sexuality

• Resting and relaxation

• Asserting our sexual needs

• Maintaining our standards

• Saying No

• Wanting or having children

• Choosing to be childfree

• Our body count

• Our nude body

• Wearing makeup or not wearing makeup

• Having boundaries and protecting ourselves

• Our spiritual practices

• Using witchcraft

• Being ambitious

• Going to college

• Being a housewife or stay at home mom

• Loving who and what we love

heyyyyyy ✨🦋

May I please know how my future spouse will pursue me?

- R 🥰

yes sorry for my late response

your future spouse will come in with an offer of stability. they might seem a little straight forward. you could be struggling at the time they come in or be looking for something more. it's important to mention that you should also do shadow work around self worth and feeling that you deserve good things. this is important especially to your future spouse because you have to be prepared to accept their offers without being too stubborn about it because you "don't deserve it." your future spouse is a very emotional person and might trust their heart and gut more than their head. you'll have to work hard to release burdens. your fs went through their own struggles in which they learned how to treat the people their interested in. these experiences will help them know how to treat you as a partner. overall, they'll be a really giving, emotion-guided person and will be ready to start off things with you through a strong offer.

I'll be very busy this week readings may be delayed

pac — what's the drama? (ex edition bc that's all the messages were about 💀)

@ pile one

your words have HURTTTT someone. if this was someone you had to cuss out, I understand. it caused a lot of growth for them. this was like an awakening for them. they had to realize how they act isn't aligned with how they view themselves. you set boundaries to protect yourself and they weren't having it. they couldn't grasp the idea that you don't have to obey them and they aren't the main character. you went through some kind of heartbreak before this situation started but you actually learned from it. you realized you don't wanna experience that again and did better. you probably operate in a more logical way and hide your emotions until you're really comfortable with someone. after you experienced that heartbreak, you could have gotten into short lived relationships a lot and flings to protect your feelings. they see you in your power not worrying about them and it hurts them even more. don't go chasing them, let them enjoy the situation they put themselves in.

@ pile two

if you don't let your ex go immediately... there's nothing to like. the drama is that they're a piece of shit and you're still thinking about them. if they cheated once, they'll cheat again. if they used you, they'll use you again. if they replaced you, they'll replace you again. I need you to be so serious, do you really think someone like this is worth your time? you need to stop talking to people about this person and focus on yourself. a lot of people around you are lowkey haters too so you shouldn't be telling them much of anything. do you have any projects/goals of your own right now? besides things to do with them, of course. you're trying to rest but you're still worrying about your ex so how are you relaxing? 😭😭 you need to block them asap. ill tryyyy to be nice since I can see you're going through it but please have some standards for yourself and others. no, dating people like them will not fill that void. YOU need to fill that void by loving yourself enough that you don't need love from random losers to feel worthy. instead of being sad about the things you can't change, work on the things you can.

@ pile three

i wanna start off by saying this pile is not for everyone. then i wanna point out how annoyingggg you and your ex are 😭😭 ive been getting this piles energy all in the other readings even when it didn't make sense with the other piles messages. i swear y'all need to stop being stubborn. if you like them, you like them. I pulled the lovers and kept channeling let em know through this entire pac. i get you guys are all mad at each other but it doesn't even seem like the breakup was that serious. it seems like it was just a petty argument, moving homes, or a fight from way too long ago to still be upset about. you guys might not be realizing the things you did wrong too. im not gonna tell you to text your ex or anything though. just let things happen naturally. you have to maintain a balance. don't deny your clear feelings but don't be obsessed. you're independent but not overdependent. accept how you feel and do your shadow work. there's not a whole lot else besides that to do. if the same cycle is repeating with them then maybe try doing something different. i hate to be one of those "your ex is coming back" tarot readers but y'all are killing me.

Can I ask why my future spouse fall in love with me

M

sure sorry for my late response I've been a bit busy

they like how strong you are emotionally. you probably went through a lot of things that led you to set more boundaries. you learned to stand up for yourself and not lower yourself or standards for someone who isn't for you. they like that you can be independent sometimes and you like to do things for yourself. they like seeing how much effort you put into things and seeing you being attentive to what you're doing. you try to do everything at once and they wanna help you deal with things, even if you're stubborn about it. I feel like you're stubbornness is one of their favorite things and they find it cute how serious you take it. you give kind of tomboy energy too even if you don't present that way. they find that cute too.