Normalize Alters Not Getting Along, Yes Among Your Own System, But Also With Partners Or Family Or Friends

normalize alters not getting along, yes among your own system, but also with partners or family or friends

i love my siblings but i have multiple headmates who dislike or even hate them

there’s someone in our system who absolutely hates an alter in our partner sys

there’s another who refuses to interact with someone who’s a friend of mine

alters are not a monolith

If you all do to Davrin what you did to Wyll Ravengard, I’m banning you from the game. - 🌃

First controversial post in a while but people need to realize a therapist is not going to challenge you on your reality directly. Because that can be insanely harmful. If you walk in going "I'm a system without trauma" they wont tell you no. Or that you are wrong. Because directly challenging someone's world view is not how you gain a clients trust nor does it help recovery. OF COURSE THE THERAPIST ONLINE ISN'T GOING TO GO "endos aren't real" because that could push people who need help away from help. A therapist is going to say "I'm not going to rebuttal anyone's lived experience" because to you. You are a system without trauma. No matter how factual that is. That is the way you see your brain.

Which is why I want people to get help. If you believe you are a system if you end up being one or not YOU NEED THERAPY. No if ands or buts.

I don't think you are a system without trauma. And I think endo logic is inherently harmful. But you and your struggles are real. Because that's how you perceive the world. And I want you to get help.

EVERYONE

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE START MAKING MORE (ANTI ENDO) POSTS ON THE SYSTEMPUNK TAG, ENDOS ARE TRYING TO STEAL IT SO PLEASE TRY TO FLOOD THEM OUT, THEY DO NOT BELONG IN THE TAG.

EDIT: BLOCK @the-alarm-system THEY ARE CONTRIBUTING TO THIS AND EVEN MAKING FLAGS FOR SYSTEMPUNK THAT DIRECTLY GO AGAINST THE POINT OF THE TAG

we definitely Have This

some alters have very similar vibes but they all have Vibes tm

Idk if others relate. But alters all have a vibe™

Like a lot can factor into the vibe. Their gender, their role in the system, their personality.

But each of those factors make a vibe till the point you can tell who it is. Alot of times it's about eliminating first. Like "this is the vibe of a girl. Out with all the men"

Telling which alters is fronting is playing a subjective game of guess who.