CRYSTAL READING: How To Feel More Secure In Yourself

CRYSTAL READING: How to feel more secure in yourself

This is a general reading meant for multiple people. Take only what resonates and leave out the rest.

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1. Tiger's eye

There is a conflict within yourself about how you should present yourself to the world.

On one hand, you desire harmonious connections with people. You want to feel a sense of belonging. Because of that, you might even have a habit of people-pleasing, you are afraid that if you don't act nice, people won't accept you.

On the other hand, you feel restrictive of that habit and want to assert yourself more, creating some sudden outbursts that could take people by surprise.

You put weight on social interaction but also want to be free from the rules of that interaction.

There is nothing wrong with the desire to belong, but you may need to be more aware of the place from which that desire comes from. Is it motivated by fears? You have lots of compassion and a genuine desire for connection, to share, to nurture. Don't let that beautiful side of yours be restricted by fears and be confused with being just a means to achieve something.

To be secure with yourself is to be able to speak your truth. There will be always someone who doesn't agree with you or go against your opinions, but that doesn't mean you have to go along with them or, on the opposite, act defensive about it. Just communicate yourself clearly, with compassion and understanding, for both yourself and the other person. Practice being direct and firm yet soft and considerate at the same time. Finding the balance.

Also, I think that having a sense of direction for your life will make you feel a lot more secure in yourself. To feel that you're the one behind the driving wheel, that you are independent.

Learning and expand your knowledge of the world, to satiate your inner child's curiosity will help you feel more secured, as in, you will feel like your words have enough backbone to them and will be more confident in saying what you have to say.

2. Amethyst

There are lots of pairs in the image. It's like you would need to supplement one trait with another. To pair them up to create a more coherent story.

Sun with Mars, vitality and willpower. To spark and to act. Creatively.

Saturn with Moon, structure and nutrition. To build and to have. Steadily.

Pluto and Uranus, transformation and upheaval. To destroy and to change. Fundamentally.

Neptune and Jupiter, ideals and faith. To dream and to believe. Openly.

Mercury and Fear, thoughts and worries. To think and to feel. Gently.

Venus and Place, affection and destination. To love and to focus. Freely.

Child and Life, core and flow. To be and to go. Deeply.

For the question of how to feel more secure in yourself, the answer for you is simple, to know all of yourself, every nook and cranny, everything get to be acknowledged, no more hide and seek. The more you know about yourself, the more you will feel secure. Understanding of the self will lead to understanding of others. You will feel the flow of life and see that there is no need to hold on or to force something.

If you feel aspired towards something grand, like wanting to change the world. Don't ever think that you're too small for that. You have the ability of self-transformation, going through the birth of the self multiple times in this life.

Give your worrying mind a rest once in a while.

If you feel a lack, give yourself time and act steadily, your self worth is built over time, not in the blink of an eye.

3. Citrine

I get a story in my mind when I see your layout of the stones. A group of travellers finally settled down, built a place for themselves, and welcomed anyone to take shelter in their new home. They still go on adventures, but now they have a home to come back to. And those that are lost also can find a new home for themselves.

For you to feel more secure would be to do just like that, build a home for yourself to come back to, welcome others in, and go on adventures whenever you want. The home is not necessarily a physical house that you need to have. It's your inner home. The sense that whatever happens, you won't feel lost.

This inner home is built from inner faith. It may be religious beliefs, but it also may be just a holistic view of the world that formed in you during your journey in this life. But nonetheless, faith and spirituality are very important to you. It is the force from deep within your psyche that motivates your actions and desires. It can also manifest as physical symptoms and changes in the body. Keeping your heart healthy (figuratively and literally) will also keep your body healthy.

You may want to have a routine to practice spirituality. Conventional and well-known methods are good, but formulating your own from real-life observations and experiences is also important. Observe your dreams, have a conversation with the self regularly, and tune in to the collective stream.

But don't be too immerse in the inner working to the point of neglecting your mundane life and day to day responsibilities.

Life may throw you some crises along the way, but that is how you're tested and given opportunities to know and to be in your power. You may be taught the lesson of life's transience and how to respond with changes. Not by forcing your will or try to bend the situation to your desire but by self reflection and bring about transformation from within. That's how life is helping you build your inner home.

4. Amazonite

You may feel uncomfortable or challenged when having to put yourself out there. To promote yourself more. Maybe you feel that doing so is being egotistical and showing off. When you actually have to be in the spotlight or to be show yourself to an audience, because of that reservation, you would try to dim your light, almost like a desire to be egoless. It may also muddle your communication. You don't feel safe to deliver your thoughts in a more direct manner.

I feel that it's because of your soft inner self. It's vulnerable and a little fragile, easily bruised, or getting lost in the collective current. It feels very open. You may have the ability to tap into the collective feelings and delve into the subconscious. But be sure to bring back something with you from that trip. Not the burdens though, it's where you need to put discipline in yourself, to anchor yourself in somekind of physical form, to identify yourself as an individual self, not just a part of the whole. It's okay to have an ego. It helps us survive and navigate this world.

What you need to bring back are the insights that help you understand the world in a meaningful way. It may sound like a cliché but finding the meaning of life will help you be more secure in yourself.

And also, have compassion for your fears. No fear is unreasonable or silly. It's actually the source of your transformation. Whatever your fear is, be it the fear of the dark, fear of a certain animal, fear of intimacy, fear of death, etc. It's a human thing to have fears. To be alive is to have fears. So there should be no shame and guilt about those fears. To be secure in yourself is to accept your fallibility.

Love.

FUTURE SPOUSE : THE FIRST MEETING (can also apply to long-term committed partner)

In this reading, we will look at how you and your future spouse will meet for the first time. What kind of situation will lead you two to meet?

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1. Pyrite

Your energy: Crow Their energy: Starfish

The meeting:

Someone might come off as a little too strong for the other person.

On that day, you will find them very alluring and physically attractive. They could be hanging out with friends and somehow they will stand out from the rest and catch your eyes, maybe they are the center of attention at that moment, bantering, telling some jokes that crack up the crowd. You could catch their laughing voice first before seeing them.

Even though you will be the one that notice them first, they will be the one that do the approaching.

The situation seems not really casual as in a beach party or some bar, but more serious. Could be something related to work and finance, could be a bank or where there will be people from the higher up, a meeting for work, some convention, or a conference, but people will be able to talk freely. There could be lots of foreigners or it will happen at a foreign place, a foreign country.

You will be there to learn something and exchange ideas. To find opportunities for change, which could be related to your finances, this situation will open opportunities for you to secure your finances more, to give you more stability. This is where you have to express yourself, show your creativity, something about making yourself stand out more. You will feel nervous, wanting to look around for an anchor. Maybe that's why you will be attracted to your person's voice or laughter, it will show confidence and ease.

For the meeting, it will be unplanned, out of the blue. Maybe you see them one moment but won't pay too much attention. After you turn away and turn back, they won't be there at the same place anymore and will have moved to somewhere else. But then some moments later, you guys kind of bump into each other or will be in close proximity to each other.

There won't be enough time to prepare yourself, so you will just react with the most natural reaction for a surprise. When you see someone that you have noticed them before and now they are approaching you, maybe you would get a little self-conscious and try to prepare yourself ? That kind of thing, but in this situation, you won't be able to do that.

They may notice that you're a little tense and want to make a conversation to put you at ease. Could be saying something funny or offhand, some random stuff that may not be related to the situation.

There will be a hidden undercurrent of sexual attraction. On that day, you will be on high alert mode, and your intuition will be sharper than usual. You may have an inkling that this person will play some important role in your life, but you will be distrustful. You may find them to be superficial and shallow, vain even. They may boast a little about their achievements, perhaps. But you won't find their words completely tasteless. Some of those would make you smile and feel more comfortable.

After this meeting, there may be some time before another contact. This connection seems to have many moments of surprises and separations, likely from external factors. There could be space and distance between you guys. Sometimes, you will feel like this connection would go nowhere and fading, then some surprises will spring up, and you two will connect again.

I feel colder months for this first meeting.

2. Strawberry quartz

Your energy: Moth Their energy: Bat

The meeting:

I see a big question mark. You guys will feel confused why you are meeting this person, why here, why now, who are they. Something feels both heavy and light with this group. You could meet them somewhere of a serious nature.

The image on the card shows you (the moth) flying up while them (the bat) flying down. This meeting has a certain fateful element to it. Two creatures meeting each other on their journey, completely unaware of each other until that moment, the meeting makes no sense but also make the most sense ?

Your energy is light, you seem to not take life too seriously at that time, you want to try different things, meet different people, going here and there, quite flighty. You would be in a hurry when meeting them. Running to somewhere. Could be carrying something, then drop it. Your energy feels a little clumsy and impulsive.

The place will be someone's home or at a real estate agency. A garden, somewhere private, that place will be decorated beautifully, could be a wedding. There will be a performance there, or someone will do something that pull everyone's attention to them. I feel that person could be you. You may say or do something to entertain the guests, intentionally or unintentionally. Or you stumbled, and everyone gathered to help you. Asking if you're okay. But someone will be nagging or say some harsh words that make you feel uneasy a bit.

Your person will be standing from a far, looking at the commotion, they may be in the process of leaving that place then heard the noise and turned back. Maybe that will be the first time that they notice you. They would want to come forward to help.

Your person's energy feels a lot heavier. They seem to be coming out of the dark, in the process of moving on, or have just moved on from something, someone. They will feel a sudden urge to approach, like someone is standing behind them, nudging them forward. But they may have trouble approaching you because of all the people surrounding you at that time. So there will be some hesitation, should I, should I not. Just a note, your energy feels younger than them, younger than everyone around you at that time also, or just physically smaller.

You seem upset or hurt, so they will want to approach carefully, they will be subtle, not saying much. But this interaction with you will somehow make a shift in their mind, subconsciously. They may still find it hard to let go of past situations. I see someone walking away, and their mind still linger on that direction. But meeting you will jolt them out of that reminiscing mode. They will question their feelings and their fears. Subconsciously, they already wanted to move on, and meeting you will be the final push.

While you, on the other hand, don't seem to think too deeply about this meeting. You will think that they are a nice person, someone helpful. But you will feel a sense of familiarity with them. Maybe you guys have seen each other in dreams before. Some kind of psychic connection.

The meeting will be on a sunny day, warm, could be spring or summer. At the time of the meeting, you guys will be at a confusing point of your life. Both will have some confusion and feeling lost, something is missing. This meeting will be a wake-up call to both, to make you reassess your mindset, digging deep within. Like walking aimlessly in the sea of dark mist, then suddenly a light is shone brightly for you.

3. Red jasper

Your energy: Buffalo Their energy: Elk

The meeting:

This group seems to have heavy earth energy. Two stable and grounded individuals meeting each other. For some of you, you may already meet this person, for other of you who haven't met this person yet, the meeting will be completely unpredictable. The stone represents the Place flung so faraway, so you guys will likely meet at a very faraway place, far from your home, foreign countries, not a short travel, could even be a change of living place.

Your energy is stable, but the meeting itself is the complete opposite. Some elements of spontaneity and surprises are here. You won't get any head up for this meeting (does this reading count ?), no inkling, no intuitive hunch. Your intuition on that day may be even lower than normal.

It could be because of the foreign environment, you will feel ungrounded and worry a little more than usual. You haven't gotten used to the new place yet. I'm getting something about feeling hungry and going out to find a place to eat. To explore the environment more. Your usual daily routines will be disturbed, you will do things and go to places that you have never been to before. If normally, you are the kind of person to go to bed early, you will stay up late at that time, or you don't normally eat a certain kind of food but being there will make you want to try out different things.

The setting will be at night. You could be walking on the street at night, exploring here and there. I see an art museum or some kind or large, beautiful building. And you will meet them there. Their energy will be pretty similar to you, grounded and stable, but they seem to be more established than you. Could be because they are the native of that place. They will want to guide you, giving you helpful advice. You will find them to be very reliable. They could work at the museum or just go there at the same time as you, but they know the place better than you so they could even give you a tour around. You guys will be talking to each other along the way. Slow walk, a little pause here and there, they may be walking a little behind you.

You will find yourself being very open to this person, an immediate trust. You and them will talk about something profound, quite philosophical, could be related to the contents that you guys are watching. They will talk a little more than you, you will get to learn more about them and find out that they are someone pretty well respected in the community. They may appear a little stubborn. There could be a debate, but nothing too heated. This person is usually a lot more reserved, but on that day, when they are with you, they will be more willing to open up. You guys will both feel comfortable with each other.

At the end of the meeting, you will exchange contracts with each other. A chance meeting that will turn into something more serious.

Maybe, on that night, when you return to your bed, you will find it hard to sleep, thinking about what you have said, what they have said, or on the opposite end, you will sleep soundly, peacefully. The earlier anxious feeling will go away. You and them may mutually feel a certainty about this connection, a future. Something that you can build together.

4. Blue agate

Your energy: peacock Their energy: cosmic egg

The meeting:

This group feels very straightforward. To be honest, I'm not getting many situations for you guys.

By the time you meet them, both of you will be in a state of inner peace. You have found your own contentment after a long journey. You have come to the point of having a compassionate view for life despite all the hardships along the way. All of that comes from being self-aware. Some of you may have gone through a dark night of the soul before meeting this person. Or both of you. You and them mirror each other.

I see some place for a retreat and to relax.

Daily life would put stress on your mind, so you would suddenly get the idea of going away to relax and enjoy yourself. This could be your usual way to deal with stress. You seem to be pretty balanced, knowing when to stop and take a rest. Maybe some friends will invite you to go with them somewhere. You will feel the nudge to go.

The place will be different from your usual go-to place. Somewhere heavy with scents and drinks. Could be a fair, an event, a concert. You may even receive a psychic reading there, some element of spirituality. They will be there, could be the one doing the reading for you, or participate in a group activity with you.

Immediately you guys will talk to each other, you just clicked. At first, sharing your thoughts about the event or the place, then later on going to more personal topics. You will find the other person's view and opinions on things in life that are pretty similar or harmonious with yours. Even if there are some differences, you will be able to understand and accept them. You guys could talk about your past experiences, the journeys that you took, travelling, religion, childhood stories, words just flow.

Accompanying that feeling of compatibility with be a strong physical attraction. You light up the other person, passions are ignited. Later on that day, you guys could be intimate with each other. The connection would progress pretty fast. Could be a hook up at first that will later develop into something more committed.

This group is pretty short, nothing complicated. You have learnt your own individual lessons, now it's time to learn the new lessons together. You guys will have many spiritual journeys together, to feel the expansiveness of your spirit and discover love in the highest sense.

Love.

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CRYSTAL READING : What kind of partner does your soul need right now ?

This is a general reading meant for multiple people. Take only what resonates and leave out the rest.

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1. Strawberry quartz

Energy : cheetah

Immediately, I can see a lot of warm and fast-paced, action oriented energy. A lot of fire and creativity. They could have fire signs in their chart, jupiter dominant or sun dominant. Red and orange would be their colours. They know what they want and how to go after it.

This person will be like the sun to you, at first, you may not used to their intensity and decisive way of doing things, they may even have a big ego and a little arrogant but they bring so much inspirations and motivations to you. Being with them will ignite your creative fire. You will feel more carefree, more open to the joy of life. Your inner child would safely be expressed. They could even widen your circle of friends and introduce you to a new social network with many interesting people.

Maybe you struggle with feeling confident. This person will lift you up and help you build your confidence from within.

In a way, they are like a life teacher for you. You could learn so much from their example. They radiate light from within, the motivation behind whatever they do, whatever action they take comes from their inner truth, their own guiding spirit. They value authenticity and meaningful purpose behind actions.

This is not a person who does something just because everyone else is doing it, who initiates superficial conversations just for the sake of talking.

Their words sometimes would trigger your deeper fears and make you feel exposed, but at the same time, you will feel so much love and tender compassion. They would understand intuitively your secret intimate desires and dreams and gradually help you fulfil them.

This is the kind of partner that can give you unconditional love, the one that your inner child has been yearning so much for but may not get so often.

You could meet them when doing your daily routine like taking a walk, going to the supermarket or at the workplace. They would seem intimidating or demanding, hardworking. They would make you feel more conscious of your health and working habits. Maybe when you guys first meet, they will give you advice on how to improve your health and build a more healthy routines. After that, gradually, it turns into a more romantic connection.

Another scenario is that someone older than you, could be your superior of someone you respect would introduce you guys to each other.

2. Flourite

Energy : dragon

This group's energy is quite similar to group 1 but softer. Strong spiritual energy.

This person is wise, no matter their physical age. They have inner wisdom, the kind that is deep and profound, the truth that lies hidden in each of us. They understand it, and they will help you awaken to that understanding, too. Their energy is very stabilising. Just by being within the same physical proximity of this person, you could feel more safe and clear in your soul. Their spiritual energy protects you.

This person is not afraid to show the world their wounds and fears. They are honest about them because they understand that everyone has their own wounds and fears. They are strong by being honest with their vulnerability. That inner strength will help you process your own fears.

If you have some hidden wounds, your inner child doesn't feel safe. They are well hidden in the dark corner. This person will gently heal your inner child. I see the image of the parents console a crying child. Not that I'm saying they will act like a parent to you, but they embody both fatherly and motherly energy. They are very balance, somehow they can understand what is the best approach for you. They would help you understand more deeply about yourself, encourage you to learn new things, to go travel with them, to experience many activities that maybe you haven't tried before or wouldn't dare to. They give you courage. At the same time, they will nurture you softly, soothe your pains and sadness. This person could have a strong moon in their chart.

Through them, you will learn how to build a strong foundation within, to be able to withstand life's many challenges but still have the ability to dream, to be generous with your love, you will learn to give love more freely just like how they give to you. You will learn to persevere, to know when to give up, when to keep trying.

You would meet this person when you are having fun, talking with people. Could be a place where there are lots of children.

They could be a writer, a magician or someone doing jobs related to logistics, traveling, or speculative business. Someone good with their hands, can makes beautiful things with their hands.

3. Citrine

Energy : nightingale

Music and poetry. This is someone who will sing to your soul. You could even hear music or feel the urge to sing, to hum when being near this person.

This person's energy is gentle and a little childlike, a little nervous and restless. So many interesting conversations about all kinds of topics. You will not feel tired talking or listening to this person. Their words just have a soothing effect on your heart. Like running your hands through a gentle stream of clear water. It's invigorating and freshening.

They could be popular, the kind that can mingle with all kinds of people with no differentiation, they can charm the crowd easily. They would give off quite a captivating and sexy impression.

You may meet this person through a mutual friend or through your siblings, in school, in a concert, a workshop, a forum, or simply somewhere people share their thoughts freely. I don't really see that you need to be with them for a lifetime. Maybe they would come into your life like a light breeze, and someday, you guys would move one from each other, but the memories you shared will stay with you for the rest of your life.

They would help you be more open with your thoughts, give your mind more freedom. If you are the type to feel shy in front of the public or have some difficulties speaking more clearly and openly, this person will help you find your voice and communicate your ideas more beautifully. They bring inspiration.

Also, they would encourage you to re-examine your beliefs. Those that formed in your past thay may no longer serve you. They may even inspire you to take some trips, to go on some journeys or adventures with them, both outside and in the bedroom, something you may have felt before that wasn't too comfortable or you thought that didn't suit your characters. But they have some kind of sway, they will persuade you do it, not in a manipulative ways for their selfish desires but more like how a child persuades you to go finding fairies in the wood with them. You just can't help but smile and go with them.

Maybe you are someone who is more uptight or more concerned about rules and practicality. This person will gently nudge you out of the rigid mould and be more free, to dare to dream and see that life is a lot more magical.

4. Agate

Energy : swan

This person is quite a beauty. They are graceful and mysterious. There is a certain pure vibe about them. They could wear lots of white.

Upon meeting them, you will have an inner tower moment. Subconsciously, you will feel like some gate in your soul has been opened. You would even begin to see them a lot in your dreams. You guys might communicate with each other through dreams. You would even feel uncomfortable and strangely emotional around them, even though they may not say or do much. Their presence alone is enough to make you question yourself. Maybe you would find them a little unreal, like a mirage, you might even question if you are indeed seeing them. They are not elusive, but they trigger that reaction within yourself. You guys might mirror each other a lot, events and experiences in your life would be very similar to them.

Something about them feel egoless. They are not the kind to go around imposing their beliefs onto others or order others around. Most likely a quiet person. Their beauty will be apparent to you and to whomever they interact with. It's more of an undercurrent energy that affect other's vision of them. They could have heavy neptune influences in their chart.

Their silence will encourage you to speak more willingly and honestly. A certain simplicity. You would feel safe telling them your secrets and your silly jokes without fear of judgements. Just be careful not to overwhelm them with your talk, they might not be a talker but if one remains silent for too long, there would be an imbalance in the conversations and later would create some resentment or avoidance.

You could meet them at a social gathering, somewhere with lots of people, but they will seem to be alone. You will feel an immediate subconscious pull toward them. You might take the initiative to approach them first, even if that isn't how you normally are.

5. Obsidian

Energy : dragon

Flourite group's person also has dragon energy, but this dragon has completely different feel to them.

They are someone who is super intense and serious at first impression. Like a wounded animal. This is someone who will awaken your own dragon energy. You will be able to sense their wounds and pains from the first meeting, even if you normally don't consider yourself to be super sensitive to people's energy. With this person, you will, and you will want to help heal them.

Their inner child stone flung very far, so I had to move them back into the frame. You will also do that for them. You will help them find and bring back their inner child.

Their energy feels gloomy and cold. They could even wear dark clothes. Somehow, they have lost their own inner faith. Maybe your soul's need is to guide and help ignite the inner fire in other again, and you will meet this person. Their soul will need you.

Something feels very short and hard to channel with this group, maybe this person is not a talker. They don't feel too comfortable voicing their emotions. There is a sense of hidden love here too, this person will keep their feelings for you hidden for some times before expressing them to you. Even as I am typing this, I keep pressing the delete button by mistake. It's like they don't want you to know about them too much. They would feel too exposed. I suppose with enough time in the future, they will feel more comfortable to reveal themself to you more.

You will meet this person in an unexpected manner. On that day, you would do your usual daily routines, but there would be some unexpected changes or complications, and this person will be there. You could meet them at some place related to legal matters, signing contracts, or getting counselling. You could even have some arguments with them or someone else, and they will witness that. Their still water will feel alive again, new life will be formed, slowly, they will begin to imagine how their life would change after meeting you.

6. Carnelian

Energy : crow

This person will be a complete mystery to you. But you can sense that they have a very strong intuition. They could even be psychic or interested in spirituality and the occult. You and other people will feel a certain pull toward them, wanting to know them more, because their life would seem to be very intriguing and out of the norm, they will have many interesting tales to tell you.

You could see their confidence but not in an attention seeking way. Nobody would want to mess with them. They could wear black or dark red a lot.

Upon first meeting them, you would feel suddenly weak in the knee. There will be strong sexual attraction. It's not the fun and superficial kind, but the kind that you know won't fade easily. Their way of talking will feel sexy to you. You could like their voice, there is a hypnotic feel to it, and they don't need to talk very much to captivate you.

With this person, your emotions, all kinds of fears, deep dark secrets will be exposed. But they will keep them safe, you would tell them your most embarrassing stories, your guilts and shames, things that you deemed inappropriate and are afraid that will be rejected by others, not this person, they will accept them all, no more hiding and no use hiding. They will intuitively know you. Your soul is much in need of this kind of person. You will feel more confident and protected. It's like they help you untie a knot in your soul's journey so that you can go faster and smoother. Their words and embrace will sooth you in stormy times.

You could meet them in public institutions, when you go travelling, maybe for work or for something of a more serious nature than a vacation. You won't expect to see them. They could be a complete stranger. A male or someone with masculine energy would be the bridge to get you guys together. The scenario would be you and them both talk to the same person about the same topic so that person will later introduce you guys to each other.

Love.