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Ok now that the boops are gone and i can be grumpy again

"yeah the boops are fun but don't let them distract you from--" PLEASE let them distract you. Please take one goddamn day off from thinking about the world's problems. And if you can't figure out how to do that, for the love of god don't insist that everyone else be stuck in "I'm not allowed to be happy about anything ever" hell with you

If you insist that everyone be focusing on "the problems" at all times that is at best performative and at worst actively harmful to the cause you're trying to support. Taking real action uses up energy, often times a LOT of it. Insisting that no one ever takes a break means insisting that no one ever take time to rest and begin to gather more energy for another actual action. Being "on" all the time isn't your duty, it's an impossibility.

Take a fucking break. And remind everyone that they need to take breaks too.

btw. by the way. By The Way. BY THE WAY. if you gleefully boop you can also gleefully reblog edits. you can gleefully support content creators. you can gleefully leave compliments in the tags. i know you are all capable of pressing buttons now!!!!!!!!!!!!! REBLOG.

Feed Smallfrin a lemon.

SIFFRIN WAS TALKING ABOUT THEIR CHILDHOOD. PAUSED. AND THEN JUST . FORGOT??? WHAT JUST HAPPENED

I feel like the magolor fandom has really declined on here the past few months repost if you're still a magohead

Fun fact Adrienne did already reveal what the country was based off of in the discord but Canada is so fun too lmao

I've seen people say that the dev has said what the country is, but I haven't seen anyone actually say what the country is 😭😭

Which means I have plausible deniability FOR THE TRUE NORTH STRONG AND FREE 🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁WHAT THE FUCK IS A MILE 🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🍁🍁🍁🍁

holds mic up. favorite ISAT character?

THIS WAS A TOUGH ONE… [grabs mic] *ahem*…while I’d like to say Siffrin or Odile I actually flip out every time loop is on screen so…

LOOP WINS!!

What if we held hands in the backrooms... >////<

one of the more valuable things I’ve learned in life as a survivor of a mentally unstable parent is that it is likely that no one has thought through it as much as you have. 

no, your friend probably has not noticed they cut you off four times in this conversation. 

no, your brother didn’t realize his music was that loud while you were studying. 

no, your bff or S.O. doesn’t remember that you’re on a tight deadline right now.

no, no one else is paying attention to the four power dynamics at play in your friend group right now.  

a habit of abused kids, especially kids with unstable parents, is the tendency to notice every little detail. We magnify small nuances into major things, largely because small nuances quickly became breaking points for parents. Managing moods, reading the room, perceiving danger in the order of words, the shift of body weight….it’s all a natural outgrowth of trying to manage unstable parents from a young age. 

Here’s the thing: most people don’t do that. I’m not saying everyone else is oblivious, I’m saying the over analysis of minor nuances is a habit of abuse. 

I have a rule: I do not respond to subtext. This includes guilt tripping, silent treatments, passive aggressive behavior, etc. I see it. I notice it. I even sometimes have to analyze it and take a deep breath and CHOOSE not to respond. Because whether it’s really there or just me over-reading things that actually don’t mean anything, the habit of lending credence to the part of me that sees danger in the wrong shift of body weight…that’s toxic for me. And dangerous to my relationships. 

The best thing I ever did for myself and my relationships was insist upon frank communication and a categorical denial of subtext. For some people this is a moral stance. For survivors of mentally unstable parents this is a requirement of recovery. 

*Hands you a spider* *Hands you a spider* *Hands you a spider* *Hands you a spider*

that thing about your comfort characters recreating this meme

y’all i had this cute idea for making shitty abstract pride flags and i love them

first 5 faceless emojis are how your summers gonna go

[You got Memory of Gibberish!]

AU time! Maybe I’ll ramble about it all later.

Eating a burger

shrimp pasta <33333333333333

I literally only had one joke in me while playing pacifist and it was just repeatedly saying “no theyre justice” everytime clover was called kind

Reblog to kill it faster

reblog this rat until staff gets involved

You guys do know you're supposed to reblog things, right

clown ferret