You Dont Need To Change Your Personality To Pass. I Repeat, You Dont Need To Change Your Personality

You don’t need to change your personality to pass. I repeat, you don’t need to change your personality to pass

A lot of passing guides I see for ftm are things like “don’t be too cheery!” “Don’t engage in feminine behaviors!” “Wear only dark and bland clothing!!”

And a lot of the time, the passing guides for mtf say stuff like “stop lifting weights!!” “Wear bright floral patterns!” “Have more female friends than male friends!!!”

No. Fuck that. Do whatever you want. Passing is great and all but it absolutely does not make you more valid in your gender identity. You don’t need to change your entire personality just to pass <3

Just so like... it's clear... anyone who censors words that contain "man" or "men" to anything like "xxn" that's TERF shit.

Any reference to women/womanhood that solely revolves around having a uterus or "womb" is TERF shit.

Any sentence where the OP says they support people being "trans identified" with quotes around ""transwomen"" or ""transmen"" is TERF shit.

I'm seeing a lot of you baby Tumblr gays out there not knowing what these specific TERF dogwhistles look like.

"Wombxxn" is an incredibly dumb way of spelling "woman" that treats the word "man" like a slur and also reduces women to their ability to give birth.

"Trans identified" is their way of saying "this person calls themselves trans, but I don't believe they are."

Saying "People should be allowed to identify however they wish, but we still need to protect women/children" IS TERF SHIT.

Learn to identify this garbage, because not all TERFs are going to spell out their intolerance for you. Some of them are going to try and seem reasonable and polite and normal, and it's fucking dangerous to our community.

Also unpack any internalized transphobia and your transmedicalism, because both those things will have you quickly siding with TERFs and bigots.

ITS ALMOST OCTOBER‼️‼️

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I’m like halfway age regressed rn so this fact is making my serotonin run HIGH

Im genuinely so excited for Halloween though!!! I need to buy a tail for my Halloween “costume”

(get it? Quotes around costume bc it’s not a costume?? It’s just actually me?? Get it?? Get it???)

anyone got any good Etsy store recommendations for tail buying?

Pleasepleasepleasepleasepleasepleaseplease Pleasepleasepleasepleasepleasepleaseplease Pleasepleasepleasepleasepleasepleaseplease Pleasepleasepleasepleasepleasepleaseplease Pleasepleasepleasepleasepleasepleaseple-

Me if you even care smh

Tumblr warps my sense of time istg. I saw a post from someone I follow on my dash while scrolling and then while checking to see if anyone else I follow has posted something, I see that the same blog is marked as having posted 43 minutes ago. I’m like “oh! They must’ve posted another thing since I saw the first post bc I saw that post like 2 hours ago!” Nope. It was the same post. I just have no sense of time.

Also I’ll be like “hmmmm when did I post this?? It feels like maybe two days ago but it could’ve also been this morning. Idk 🤷”

The worst part about childhood trauma is that they never remember what they did to you.

“I never remember all these things you always bring up…” (actual quote from my father btw)

The second worst part is that you still love them.