As A Rule Of Thumb I Never Listen To Men Who Call Women Females

as a rule of thumb i never listen to men who call women females

i can’t stop thinking abt that brooklyn 99 episode when jake is SO sure that a suspect killed the victim that he arrests them without any proof.

in the end obviously he’s right but what if he hadn’t been? would he have made up evidence bc he was so sure of his hunch? would he have continues to harass this man until he was sued? would he have done everything in his power to make this man’s life harder bc he’s so sure he’s the perpetrator he’s looking for?

it kind of horrifies me that jake is clearly the hero in this story and it’s supposed to be funny that he abused his power as a police officer to ‘get the job done’ and we as the audience are supposed to accept that

hfgvg i finish school on friday and i think i might cry

like i’ve spent six years in this place and u expect me not to come back next september?? i’m just supposed to go to uni and probably never see these ppl again?

wack

hdjsjs so he messaged back saying he only sees me as a friend and on the one hand i’m really sad bc being rejected sucks but i’m also really proud of myself for telling him?? bc this was he first time i’ve told someone directly that i have feelings for them, so it’s still a win??

just messaged my crush and told him i liked him and now my adrenaline has peaked and im using it to get thru my revision slump haha

anyways i’ve decided to go as an ancient egyptian cos dramatic eye makeup is my THING

um so every year the upper sixth get dressed up for their last day before leaving and noone knew if it was happening this year bc of covid but they JUST confirmed it's happening next friday and i have no ideas, so if u have any costume ideas pls lmk!!

i think one of the most important things i’ve learned this last year is how labels are supposed to accommodate and describe us rather than act as strict parameters for who we allow ourselves to be (this applies to pretty much every type of label but i’m more specifically talking abt sexuality here).

for me, the term bisexual best describes my sexuality so it’s what i use. if in the future i realise it’s not a good fit anymore i can just stop using it and either be label-less or find a different one. changing labels doesn’t invalidate the feelings and experiences i’ve had, it just shows i’ve learnt more about myself as a person. it doesn’t mean i lied abt being bi either, just that i’ve figured out it’s not quite who i am.

realising this has made me so much more comfortable about calling myself bi, bc for a long time when i was questioning i was so scared that i was lying bc i didn’t feel i had enough ‘proof’ that this was a term i could use. but it’s not me that has to squeeze myself into the box i think i need to be in, but instead just living and trying new things and if i feel like i’ve found a place for myself i can stay for as long as it feels right - whether that be for good or not.