"if You're Like This, No Man Will Ever Want To Date You."

"if you're like this, no man will ever want to date you."

say it louder so God can hear you pls

every day i get more and more shocked with the amount of disrespect the trans community gets. fucking gross.

its actually deeply upsetting that not a single active ftm tag is inclusive of anyone who wants bottom surgery. i want surgery. i need it. but post op bodies are never ever treated as desirable. i have never seen any even remotely sexual content allowing ftm characters to not be DEFINED by having a cunt. you realize how awful it feels to read that? not only does so much attention being put on body parts that make me want to die make a lot of guys dysphoric (making it impossible to read fics about people like us), it also feels very isolating. am i not allowed to want surgery? i cant have sex until i get bottom surgery. i can hardly even masturbate. it makes me cry. i have seen exactly two artworks featuring guys with bottom sugery. i cant go into ftm tags without seeing boypussy everywhere. it feels like theres no one else like me. those tags are just porn. they treat trans men like we're just sexual fantasies. as if we're not real. as if we're objects for cis people to rail and nothing else. it also seems that they think old trans men don't exist. almost all of the fetish porn i see is about femboys who are barely even legal age. its disgusting on so many levels. i don't want to be an anime femboy, but thats all you see us as. you treat us like fucktoys. we're people. treat us as such. do your fucking research and stop demonizing life saving surgery. youre just a terf. even worse its mostly young trans men saying surgery is disgusting. stop it. if you keep telling young guys that surgery is dangerous and all that, people will not get surgery they need to live. if you convince people not to get that tumour removed they will die. if you convince people not to get bottom surgery when they really need it, they will die. if you do this shit and youre trans, you are still transphobic. you need to deconstruct patriarchy. you are telling people not to get surgery that could save their life. do better.

I'm already planning the funeral🤞

Reblog to kill it faster

Right now life is a real struggle. And I wanna say I Appreciate and love and thank everyone for their help and thank u for reading this!

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I recently just got outta a real abusive situation with my dad which caused me to have to leave where I was living and I haven’t been stable since. I’ve been staying with my mother since (not biological) and I can tell she’s struggling to care for me all the dogs and all of the family. I had recently got super sick and lethargic and that went on for a month and a haft before the doctor finally figured out what it was. (Will no disclose) I’m barely getting back on my toes. I really need help. My dog recently this past few days been having seizures and it has destroyed me. I could possibly lose my best friend forever.

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He has to be put on medication that unfortunately is fucking expensive for his seizures. And I’m slowly running outta dog food. I will try to pop out as many adopts as I can and maybe lower prices so that it’s easy affordable. My mom had a mental break down the other day because this is killing her. Please I need any help that I can get. I’m even thinking of selling almost all of my ocs expect Angel. I’m getting desperate.. I’m watching my world fall apart.

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-also as far as I mean about clothing and hygiene is like I’m on my last bit of toothpaste and I’ve been using body wash to wash my hair and body (which is so bad) and I don’t have decent clothes most of my clothes have holes in them or they just look nasty and old I’ve had them for years. Can’t go out to nice places or even a job bcs of my clothes

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— here is my Ko-Fi https://ko-fi.com/angellbwunniii

Here is my PayPal @AngelMayy849

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If you want to donate or buy comms from me these are what I offer!

I thank you guys for your time 🩵 ik this community has its struggles but ik there are good people here and I thank y’all for everything you do!

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pro-AI in the sense of "they taught a bread scanning computer to recognize cancer cells" etc etc

against AI in the sense of "we stole artwork from hundreds to thousands of artists, didn't credit them and didn't financially compensate them"

BRO I LOVE THESAURUS

some people think writers are so eloquent and good with words, but the reality is that we can sit there with our fingers on the keyboard going, “what’s the word for non-sunlight lighting? Like, fake lighting?” and for ten minutes, all our brain will supply is “unofficial”, and we know that’s not the right word, but it’s the only word we can come up with…until finally it’s like our face got smashed into a brick wall and we remember the word we want is “artificial”.