Random Question. Which Persona Charts (or Any Other Astro Placements) Highlights A Persons Strengths,

Random question. Which persona charts (or any other Astro placements) highlights a persons strengths, weaknesses, personal development, and path to self improvement?? Thank you

Placements That Show Your Strengths and Your Weaknesses

Now I wanna start this off with these are my personal observations and what I think makes sense. So some things may not apply to everyone, and always keep in mind you may have aspects to certain planets and other contributing factors to negate some of the stuff I list!

Placements That Can Show Your Strengths

Your Sun sign shows your traits that shine when you are doing your best, the traits of your sun sign will show how you are in a leader/power position. And what traits you may have or will need to display to be a leader and have people follow in your footsteps.

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Your Mars Sign and the house it's in will show you the reason for your goals (Sun sign), what you channel your energy into, and how you'll project it onto the world. The house your Mars is in will be the 'Why?' for your life choices, and the sign in your Mars will be the 'How?'

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Planets aspecting Chiron will give you the powers to and show you how you cope with your deepest internal wounds. For example, if you have Venus/Chiron aspects, then you might be the kind of person to enjoy the finer things in life and getting other people to enjoy it too. You probably love spending money on luxury items ( When either it's your or someone elses money ), food, and with/on people close to you, because it makes you feel good about yourself and others when you do it, probably feels like putting on an emotionally healing bandaid on a deep psychic wound when you do this.

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Your Jupiter sign will show you how you gain wealth and luck. Your Jupiter sign will be HOW you need to do things in life to succeed. Things you need to abide by to have luck by your side. Which Jupiter sign's agenda you need to flavor your agenda with to have their power by your side.

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The Sign of your chart ruler's planet. ( Example is if you're Rising is in Taurus and if your venus is in Aquarius ). Like Jupiter, abiding by your ruling planet's sign should bring you much luck and success in your life in whatever you do. With the example above, the way you should go about life if you had that placement is to connect with your community, cherish society's achievements and push to revolutionize your generation, break social norms so the outcasted and shunned feel like they have a community they can feel apart of, ect. But also using Venusian traits to achieve this too, like charming, showing people that everyone is similar, showing what the finer things in life could be if everyone worked together, ect.

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Your Venus Persona Chart can show you how you'll appeal to others, and what you can do to boost this appeal. What assets you can use to further yourself in life. Venus rules relationships, money and indulgence, so take a look at this PC to get more insight about this.

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Your Chiron Sign and House it's in will show how you'll be able to heal others, while this astroid is mainly known for your deepest uncurable wound, it can also show how you heal this same wound in others.

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Your 2nd house sign can show what you are persistent and consistent about. What values you will stick to and live by, what motivates you in life. What are your reasons for wanting money. What are the little and simple things that keep you motived.

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Your 5th house sign can show why you may have these values, what are your hobbies and entertainment that you strive to experience and how it keeps you motivated. What your natural talents are and how you can use them in life. This house represents what you like and what your a natural in.

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Placements That Can Show Your Weaknesses

Your Moon Sign is your emotional needs and what makes you emotionally satisfied, the Moon is everything emotions. However, this can also show how people can manipulate you, and what they might threaten you with to hurt you emotionally. And any emotional baggage and/or attacks will feel amplified if the Moon is in debilitation or fall ( Capricorn or Scorpio ), or if the moon is aspecting Saturn or/and Neptune. Also while your Sun sign are what traits you display at your best, you may display the negative traits of your Moon sign at your worst.

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Your Venus sign can show what/how you may fall victim to indulging in too much and forfeiting many important responsibilities. And the house your Venus is in can show where it's worst at. For example, Venus in Gemini may have problems with never finishing what they start and are too quick to jump to the next thing, and may spend too much time socializing, and not getting what they need to do done. And Venus in the 6th house could mean the area of their life most affected my all of this is at work and daily routines. Your Venus can also show what you do when your procrastinating.

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Your Saturn Sign can show road blocks you will frequently encounter during your life until you learn to discipline yourself in that area of life and over come it's challenges. For example, a Saturn in Scorpio will have to learn to see the signs, listen to their gut feeling, and trust very few people. Or they'll constantly be hit with blows in life they didn't see coming and aren't prepared for, and will likely be betrayed more than once.

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The sign and house your Neptune is in will show what you are delusional about and what you might over idealize. Neptune is a generational planet, so the sign it's in is more for our generation as a whole and the house it's in is more related to us as a person.

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Your Mars sign in the Moon PC, in addition to your Moon sign, can show what you get emotional and defensive over with very little push. Your Moon PC Mars can show what you need to be emotionally satisfied. But when these needs aren't met, just like your Moon sign, it can show what you're like when you're emotionally unhappy.

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Your Mercury and Mars combination in the Mercury PC can show how you lash out at others verbally when angry. And what you might say to hurt others in the heat of the moment.

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The house opposite from the one your Jupiter is in can show an area of life you feel unlucky and have to work harder for success in. Not saying it's gonna be complete hardship, but you may feel like you have to go the extra mile in that house to make ends meet. This will ring especially true if you have planets in opposition with your Jupiter.

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Your 12th house sign can show things you feel like you lack, and subconsciously wish you had more of, even if you already have things and traits related to this house, it can still feel like it isn't enough and it can make you envious of things related to your 12th house sign.

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Your 8th house sign can show how people overstep your boundaries, where your most vulnerable at, and how people take avdantage of that. Things that you can't help but people may shun or belittle you for, so you keep it private and close to your heart.

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What do you guys think of this? I know there can be other Strength and Weakness placements but I wanted to list some of the general ones I've seen. What other indicators do you think there are of these? Do any of these placements resonate with you? Let me know in the comments.

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Astrology Observations 2

Please only take what resonates with you. These are my personal observations. So take with a grain of salt 💕

Having a mix of prominent Scorpio and Gemini placements can make them a beacon for other peoples secrets. People will be compelled to tell them TMI a lot for some reason. But are usually tight lip about their own secrets and things about themselves. Some natives may use this to their advantage. 👀

I feel like the planetary ruler of your 7th house is something you might feel like you lack, and wish you had better / more of.

For example, my 7th house is in Gemini, and Mercury rules Gemini. And with other people, I feel like my sociable/conversation skills aren't on par with my peers. Like I'm too rigid or stale with words and how I communicate.

Any planets in your 3rd house in someone elses 1st house can make their voice sound hypnotic to you.

If someone has multiple planets (especially personal ones) in your 1st house, you could be OBSESSED with them. Like, these people can unravel your sense of self and make you discover different parts of your personality and identity.

Same can be said for people with many planets in your 12th house. But it could be a obsessed / hate relationship. You might be highly envious of these people and hate them for it.

You might feel more competitive and/or always trying to prove something around them.

7th house Mars people can be some of the best hype men I swear💪💪

Some of the more dogmatic Mars placements are usually in the 1st, 4th, 9th, and 10th house from what I seen. Fierce defenders of their possessions, beliefs, and overall anything they hold close to their heart. Might try to push certain narratives or beliefs on you 😅

On the other hand, the more chill Mars placements I've seen are usually in the 7th, 8th and 12th house. They tend to keep some of their more stronger/personal beliefs to themselves because it's more of a private thing for them and they might not be as bothered by other's points of views (because it's not their beliefs anyways and they believe everyone's entitled to their own opinions) unless someone tries to force words into their mouth or twist the narrative on them.

Cancer moon native's emotions change with the moon; Very frequently. They're Are generally good sports though😊. They'll baby you the way they want to be babied. Just don't double cross them because while they MIGHT forgive you, they will NEVER forget.

Pisces Mercury natives could convince you to hear them out on ANYTHING. Like wtf I don't even know how they do it, arguably could be more convincing with words than an Air Mercury.

People with neptune, mercury and/or venus in your 2nd house this is your wake up call to start an ASMR channel! You guys have such soothing voices. 💤

Earth and Leo Venus natives love to pamper their partners and close friends with nice and luxurious things. And they also feel heavily appreciated when you do the same for them💕.

People with Venus in Leo are also the kind of people who go big or go home. They're likely the ones to pay the for the tabs when yall go out eat or shop💖.

Having Lilith - Ascendent aspects can make the native feel like an object in the eyes of others. Like the way a miser loves money or a hoarder keeps trinkets. With the way some people see them as a possession that needs to be controlled. Some people feel the need to control these natives or things about them because they feel intimidated by their presence. Which, for the native, can make interacting or associating with some people a very uncomfortable experience.

Although on the other hand, some natives may secretly want people become obsessed with them, even to a creepy degree. A few of these natives may enjoy the feeling of attention, power and significance it gives them. Until it falls out of their favor, then they'll probably hate it and try to squirm out of the situation.

Either way, these natives usually get a lot of attention, wanted or not.

Also these people tend to have voyeur/exhibitionist fantasies👀.

Honorary mention : sun-lilith and moon-lilith aspect natives

You might be obsessed with the sign in your Sun sign's ruling house. For example, I'm a Cancer Sun, and for the longest time, I've been obsessed with Aries placements. Aries rules my 4th house ( Cancer traditionally rules the 4th house ).

The house your 10th house ruler's planet is in and the degree of your MC may show you how to achieve a reputable and fruitful status in life.

For example if your 10th house is in Leo at 28° and your Sun is in the 6th house. You could benefit from starting a vlog/blog. Posting about your everyday life ( 6th house is about your day to day life, routine, and animals ). Stories about yourself, work, pets, ect ( The Sun is about one's self ). And making your fans feel like part of your family and everyday life ( 28° is a Cancer Degree, a sign all about home and nurturing others ).

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Do you guys have any ascendent-lilith, sun-lilith, or moon-lilith aspects? Tell me your experiences or thoughts about having these placements!💕

Astrology Observations and Theories : Honorary Exalted Signs

Exalt in Astrology is when a planet is at it's best in a sign that it doesn't rule. For Example, the Moon is exalted in Taurus because, outside of Cancer ( The Moon rules Cancer ), Taurus is the biggest home body in the Zodiac. They are all about comfortability and being stable, which the Moon likes and is all about.

So almost all the planets' are exalted in a sign, except Uranus, Neptune and Pluto ( Mercury is up for debate ). Here are the planets that have an exalt sign.

The Sun is exalted in Aries

The Moon is exalted in Taurus

Mercury is exalted in Virgo (Idk why and idk if it is, cuz they rule it already)

Venus is exalted in Pisces

Mars is exalted in Capricorn

Jupiter is exalted in Cancer

Saturn is exalted in Libra

These are all the planets with exalts that everyone knows. But I feel like all the planets can be exalted and do very well in other signs too. which I'm going to give a sign for each planet then a reason for why I think it does so well in that planet.

The Sun Co Exalted in Taurus

While Taurus can be all about luxury and being secure, have you ever really met an insecure Taurus before? Lol. The Sun has to do with ego, the self, and our goals. All of which I feel Sun in Taurus people will almoat always have. Usually it's 'my way or the highway' with these people, but to a less agressive and in-your-face degree than their exalt Martian counterpart, Aries. And more of in a charming, Venusian way. They KNOW their worth and aren't willing to stoop to anything less. But they can be unmovable in opinion and belief sometimes, and but are still willing to hear you out SOMETIMES. Prone to indulging themselves a lot.

Moon Co Exalted in Aries

The Moon is our emotions, how we feel, what we're comfortable with, and our inner needs. Here, Aries isn't trying to hide or supress their emotions. They're usually very open about how they feel. How they say they feel is likely how they feel, no hidden meanings. I feel like people don't give this placement enough credit. Aries here won't focus as much of their energy on others needs and emotions to the point it exhausts them, however they can still relate to you. With them being so honest and open, if they've ever felt what you're feeling about something, they will validate your feeling and emotions by explaining a similar thing they experienced. They can be blunt with others, but more importantly, with themselves. They won't sugercoat anything if there's an issue they have and will probably try to solve it.

Mercury Co Exalted in Libra

Mercury is all about communication, the mindset we have, and what are reoccuring topics when conversing with you. Libra is a peoples' person kind of sign. Libra Mercury natives love to share and hear peoples stories and they love to share other peoples stories too. The words just flow from them naturally, silky smooth like honey. They can be very charming with their words and they always think before they speak because they know how words can affect people. Libra, the sign of partner ships, negotiation and sharing does very well in the planet of communication, thinking, and how we express ourselves.

Venus Co Exalted in Leo

Venus is a planet all about relationships, luxury, how we indulge, and how we spend our money. Like Taurus, Leos like to indulge; in themselves and in others. Leo's passion, creativity and pride seeps out and into others, making them a joy to be around. Like a typical Venusian, they can be generous and vain at the same time. There's never a dull moment with people like these and by the end the day they know how to settle down and chill too. Leos are lions, and like lions, they have their pride of people they always hang out with. Which coincides with Venus's relationship nature. Plus, Venus Leo natives are the ones to go big or go home, they like indulge on luxurious things too like a Venusian would.

Mars Co Exalted in Gemini

Mars is a planet energy, action and passion, so for some it may come as a suprise that Gemini actually does very well in this planet but it makes sense because Gemini, while not as fiery as an Aries or Leo, is still a highly energetic ans bubbly sign. Gemini can jump from topic to topic, person to person and interest to interest at a very fast rate because of their constant need for stimuli. And here, Mars is supplying energy to a sign that uses a lot of energy, so it's a symbiotic relationship between planet and sign. This is a placement that is tireless and always on the move, just how Mars likes it.

Jupiter Co Exalted in Aquarius

Jupiter is the planet of travel, philosophy, and beliefs. Which is why I think it does well in Aquarius, because this sign is well known for it's humanitarian views and constantly pushing to revolutionize society. Like Sagittarius ( and by extension Jupiter ), Aquarius are more susceptible to being open minded. They're always trying to understand the world, and most importantly, the people around them. They can do this by travel and connecting with people. Which will satiate the questions they have about people, cultures, and life in general. They attract luck by connecting communities and trying to see both sides of the same coin in anything, much like a typical Jupitarian.

Saturn Co Exalted in Virgo

The main themes for Saturn are Discipline, Life Lessons, and Reputation. And Virgo, Like Capricorn (Domicile) and Libra (Exalt), this placement will always try to be nothing short of perfect. This placement cares a lot about how they present themselves to others, and more importantly, themselves. Virgo is a sign notorious for being judgemental and perfection, but how they judge others is 10 times worse when judging themselves. This is a very disciplined placement. This placement indicates being VERY self aware of your flaws and problems, and having the power to develop into a better version of over time if you're always honest with yourself, about yourself.

Possible Planetary Exalts

I'm not sure why Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto don't have an official exalt. But I'm here to do them justice. These aren't the official ones, but my own speculation and theories 💕

Uranus Exalted in Scorpio

Uranus represents how our generation rebels against previous traditions and societal expectations, what boundaries of the previous generations we push. Which is why Scorpio, the sign literally known for the taboo and being misunderstood would work so well in this planet. During times with this placement, Society may go through many huge changes in the political and social world. A point in time where we break many societal stereotypes, barriers and push to make the taboo the status quo. A highly transformative period, will likely be filled with many controversies and issues, but in the end, will help better our society. After all, theres no rainbow without rain.

Neptune Exalted in Sagittarius

Known as the planet of dreams, hopes, the unconscious, how our generation thinks, and how we're delusional, Neptune surprisingly does very well in Sagittarius. This placement is about a generation that makes their dreams come true. These are people with vivid and abstract thoughts, and know how to put them into action. A placement that isn't afraid of trial and error until they achieve their dreams, and can also indicate being a trendsetter. Because of Sagittarius' constant exploration and truth seeking nature, it can kind of negate Neptune's delusional, cloudy nature, making this a generation that is very self aware and good at disecting others and themselves.

Pluto Exalted in Pisces

Pluto represents a generation's power, how we transform society in our era, what legacy we leave behind as a generation. And Pluto in Pisces represents a generation that pours it's power into making our society into a more empathetic and connected place. Here in this placement, Pisces' many hopes and dreams give Pluto an outlet to pour their power into. Marking an era where many people pursue their visions for the world, become more accepting of others and put their creativity to use.

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If my mercury is in the 9th house and my Venus is in the 10th house, what does it mean is a conjunction?

Venus in the 10th and Mercury in the 9th

What this means is if you pursue your career, you'll have the most luck building a reputable status and legacy from talking about your experiences with foreign lands, people, cultures, ect. Being knowledgeable all around and giving your thoughts and opinions just about anything, people will likely always be willing to hear what you have to say about anything, even if they don't agree.

Mercury rules over our mindset, things we're good at, and what we likely have lots of knowledge in. So having it in the house of philosophy, beliefs and higher education is beneficial to activating your 10th house Venus in building yourself a fruitful career and reputation because this is a placement known for being widely liked and known by others, and to some people it may look like you can do no wrong.

Astrology Observations 1

‍‍‍I'm no professional and this is my first time writing astro notes these are all personal observations so take with a grain of salt!💕

While the rising and midheaven sign are very important and promient in the birth chart houses, I feel like the 12th house can be just as important as the rising sign.

Like, while the rising sign is what you show on the outside and how you generally interact with people and your surroundings, the 12th house sign can show you what you need to be fundamentally fufilled and satisfied. Like your rising is what you project and what everyone thinks you want and need, but your 12h sign is what you truly want and need and could be what you lack (henceforth why you need and/or want it).

It may be apart of yourself that you may unconsciously shun and hide from the world. You might not like not like someone with planets in your 12th house or you could be obsessed with them. The 12th house is all about delusion and hidden things.

For example I'm a sagittarius rising, my 12h is Scorpio. While I am laid back and It might seem like I don't take anything seriously cuz I'm always joking or laughing something off, but deep down I wish I more people would take me seriously. Someone I can talk about taboo things with and for them to not ridicule or be appalled. And sometimes I shun people for being so open with things I would keep secret if I were them because of this. And I sometimes feel ashamed about being obsessed with certain things.

I might do a more in depth post about all signs in the 12th house  one of these days.

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No offense 😭 but Gemini moons CANNOT for the life of them focus on a singular topic or person at a time. If there is more than one person around. I know a couple people close to me with this placement who always alternate between talking to different people at a time, which can be kinda annoying if one of the many things they bring up during conversation is something you really wanna talk about and delve deeper into, and they might skim past it while jumping to the next topic or person.

I feel like they do this to keep up with the tempo for their need for mental stimulation during socializing. When in a high energy environment you can always rely on a Gemini moon to keep up with the beat of the group 💕

Air Venuses can also be guilty of this. They will switch from topic to topic and person to person during conversation very frequently. They do this to keep up with the pace and everyone in the group. However if they have a fixed Mars sign (especially Leo or even Aquarius) then this could be worse as they will try to command everyone's attention and have the spotlight on themselves so they can finish up, only to start up again with another topic instantly, it can be really hard to get any words in when talking to these people while they are passionate in the moment. It's more of an instinct to these people, so they don't try to do this on purpose but they feel like they need to get out what is on their minds before they forget about it or the topic changes.

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Saturn aspecting any planet or placement, especially if it's a stronger aspect like Conjunction or Opposition, can restrict certain parts of your life regarding the planet it's aspected to.

For example if you have Mars/Saturn aspects, you may have excellent anger and emotion control, it may feel like you are unable to express your anger for fear of losing control of yourself and the way people view you (Saturn rules reputation). And while you are tactful with the way you speak, it may feel like some people will walk all over you and you still won't lash out because you feel like all your pent up rage and emotions will come out in an unecessary display of rage from always bottling up your emotions.

Or for another example Venus and Saturn aspects, it may put a damper on your love and indulgent life. Certain things you enjoy to do may constantly feel more like a chore that you have to keep up with. May look at ways to make money or build a reputation from doing what you love which could be one of the reasons where this feeling stems from. Also you might be slow to the love game and feel like it isn't your biggest priority. Wants any relationship that happens to be serious so they will take it slow or not at all and focus on themselves and their endeavors.

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People with Uranus in the 3rd house may have an unconventional childhood and relationship with their siblings. Same can go for the Uranus 4th house.

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The 5th house could show how you like spending your birthday and what you want from it.

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You might not like someone who has your 12th house sign as their rising sign. Because they will project traits and have things that you secretly yearn for and wish you had yourself. You might feel insecure or uncomfortable around them because you'll feel like they have everything you wish you had.

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Having Mercury and Mars in the same house could make you have consistently intrusive thoughts on that area of your life, and sometimes it's unwarranted but you can't help it either way.

For example, having them both in houses 5th or 8th means you probably always have sex on your mind. It's just something that is always on the back burner of your mind. Sometimes you might be embarrassed if people bring up sex during conversation just because it reminds you of how much you think about it.

Or another example is if they're both in the 1st or 11th house. This could make you always think about how people perceive you and what they think about you and others. They might always ask you questions pertaining to themself or about others. In the 11th house they might always want someone's input on a certain thing just because they're curious about it.

Either way, mercury and mars sharing the same house can make you obsessed with the stuff related to that house.

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Scorpio Suns with a Sagittarius Moon are AMAZING to talk to. They know just the right amount of lighthearted and seriousness. They're some of the most wisest and intuitive people. It feels like you can talk about ANYTHING with these people and they'll listen to you, without brushing off what you have to say, and give you their most honest opinion and advice.

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People that have Leo or Capricorn stelliums can have an almost royal aura to them, however they can come off as stand-off ish. This is because when they want something, they WILL get it eventually. And whatever they do or anything others do for them, they want 100% full effort and dedication. They only want and only will accept the best that is offered. This can be amplified if the stellium is in the 6th or 2nd house.

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All cancer suns I've met either fit the Cancer stereotype perfectly or don't at all. Including myself.

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Speaking of, I feel like if someone has the same sign as you, but has a personal planets in the same moditalitiy but different signs (Squares), you might feel irritated by them in many aspects. Because they'll feel similar to you, but do things in a different way or unconventionally (to you).

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If you have recurring degrees from certain signs in your chart then, you may attract a lot of people with placements in those signs. I have a lot of placements in Gemini degrees and so many people I'm close to have prominent gemini placements.

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JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE A LOT OF CONJUNCTIONS OR "GOOD" ASPECTS DOES NOT MEAN LIFE WILL BE EASY FOR YOU!! It may indicate that there is a lot of POWER but not a cake walk.

I know some people (Including my dad) who have this and life has constantly hit them with curve balls and a lot of downs and ups. My dad has many conjunctions in his chart and he has gone through A LOT of difficult situations throughout his life, some of which have actually almost killed him a couple times.. But he always manages to get back on his feet and stay strong during extremely hard times.

The main take away from this is that having a lot of conjunctions or good aspects does not secure you an easy or bountiful life, but it may give you the power to always pull through very tough times and succeed if you harness it's power properly. So in a way, it truly can be a gift from the universe.

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Affirming my one point about Leo and Capricorn, do NOT date somene with Venus in Capricorn if you aren't in it for the long term. They already do not tolerate bullshit, and take their relationships very seriously.

Like Scorpio Venus, once invested, they can become very infatuated and attached to someone they deem as their lifelong partner. This is why you might not see many of them in relationships until they're in their later years because they would rather not date at all then entertain something that isn't for the long run, like most things in life, they're in it to win it 💕

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What are yalls thoughts on these? Did you like my first astro observation post? If so, let me know because I might do more like these in the future 💖

Hello 🤗

I saw you are very interested in Lilith things because you make some posts about her and they all look very good!

I wanted to ask since i can't really found nothing on Tumblr about this, what do you think about Lilith opposite Sun?

In my opinion oppositions are very powerful because there are 2 opposite signs and their energies coming together, but i wanted to ask someone who knows more about Lilith than me!

Thanks! Have a very great day

Sun Opposition Lilith

You're right. People often see oppositions as "bad" or "not good" but the truth is, like conjunctions, they aren't good or bad. It's when two foreign yet similar energies learning to combine and work together, once they overcome each other's differences. Planets in opposition are very similar, but the differences in energies are very pronounced and will be the driving force between two planets working together. The classic opposites attract.

The Sun represents ego, goals and our core traits. People often say we act like our sun sign when we are doing very well for ourselves and at our best.

Lilith Represents our darker sides and desires, things we just can't help because they are engrained in our being. Like Chiron, it's not something we can run away from. Only something you can try to supress and hide from the world.

So when the Sun and Lilith are in opposition, it's very similar to when Adam and Eve ate the forbidden fruit in the garden of Eden and got kicked out from it because of the serpent; it's all about doing what's best for yourself vs the temptations of desire. There's a constant tug of war between your goals for success in life and the outward persona you project onto the world, and your temptation to fall back on old habits and indulge yourself.

Your goals for success or anything might be very different from what you actually desire subconsciously. Leaving you feeling unsatisfied even when you reach certain ones. You don't WANT to indulge in your more raw and unsavoury desires, in fear of it controlling your life, but sometimes temptation is too high and you just can't help it.

Like Neptune, Sun/Lilith ( also Moon/Lilith ) aspects can indicate addiction or unbreakable habits. Except, you will likely do anything in your power to stop it, so it doesn't ruin your life.

With this placement, you will likely do everything in your power to suppress the traits you have of your Sun sign's sister sign ( aka your Lilith sign, if your lilith is in a different sign, still keep in mind the sign opposite from the Sun )