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Astrology Observations 1

‍‍‍I'm no professional and this is my first time writing astro notes these are all personal observations so take with a grain of salt!💕

While the rising and midheaven sign are very important and promient in the birth chart houses, I feel like the 12th house can be just as important as the rising sign.

Like, while the rising sign is what you show on the outside and how you generally interact with people and your surroundings, the 12th house sign can show you what you need to be fundamentally fufilled and satisfied. Like your rising is what you project and what everyone thinks you want and need, but your 12h sign is what you truly want and need and could be what you lack (henceforth why you need and/or want it).

It may be apart of yourself that you may unconsciously shun and hide from the world. You might not like not like someone with planets in your 12th house or you could be obsessed with them. The 12th house is all about delusion and hidden things.

For example I'm a sagittarius rising, my 12h is Scorpio. While I am laid back and It might seem like I don't take anything seriously cuz I'm always joking or laughing something off, but deep down I wish I more people would take me seriously. Someone I can talk about taboo things with and for them to not ridicule or be appalled. And sometimes I shun people for being so open with things I would keep secret if I were them because of this. And I sometimes feel ashamed about being obsessed with certain things.

I might do a more in depth post about all signs in the 12th house  one of these days.

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No offense 😭 but Gemini moons CANNOT for the life of them focus on a singular topic or person at a time. If there is more than one person around. I know a couple people close to me with this placement who always alternate between talking to different people at a time, which can be kinda annoying if one of the many things they bring up during conversation is something you really wanna talk about and delve deeper into, and they might skim past it while jumping to the next topic or person.

I feel like they do this to keep up with the tempo for their need for mental stimulation during socializing. When in a high energy environment you can always rely on a Gemini moon to keep up with the beat of the group 💕

Air Venuses can also be guilty of this. They will switch from topic to topic and person to person during conversation very frequently. They do this to keep up with the pace and everyone in the group. However if they have a fixed Mars sign (especially Leo or even Aquarius) then this could be worse as they will try to command everyone's attention and have the spotlight on themselves so they can finish up, only to start up again with another topic instantly, it can be really hard to get any words in when talking to these people while they are passionate in the moment. It's more of an instinct to these people, so they don't try to do this on purpose but they feel like they need to get out what is on their minds before they forget about it or the topic changes.

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Saturn aspecting any planet or placement, especially if it's a stronger aspect like Conjunction or Opposition, can restrict certain parts of your life regarding the planet it's aspected to.

For example if you have Mars/Saturn aspects, you may have excellent anger and emotion control, it may feel like you are unable to express your anger for fear of losing control of yourself and the way people view you (Saturn rules reputation). And while you are tactful with the way you speak, it may feel like some people will walk all over you and you still won't lash out because you feel like all your pent up rage and emotions will come out in an unecessary display of rage from always bottling up your emotions.

Or for another example Venus and Saturn aspects, it may put a damper on your love and indulgent life. Certain things you enjoy to do may constantly feel more like a chore that you have to keep up with. May look at ways to make money or build a reputation from doing what you love which could be one of the reasons where this feeling stems from. Also you might be slow to the love game and feel like it isn't your biggest priority. Wants any relationship that happens to be serious so they will take it slow or not at all and focus on themselves and their endeavors.

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People with Uranus in the 3rd house may have an unconventional childhood and relationship with their siblings. Same can go for the Uranus 4th house.

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The 5th house could show how you like spending your birthday and what you want from it.

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You might not like someone who has your 12th house sign as their rising sign. Because they will project traits and have things that you secretly yearn for and wish you had yourself. You might feel insecure or uncomfortable around them because you'll feel like they have everything you wish you had.

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Having Mercury and Mars in the same house could make you have consistently intrusive thoughts on that area of your life, and sometimes it's unwarranted but you can't help it either way.

For example, having them both in houses 5th or 8th means you probably always have sex on your mind. It's just something that is always on the back burner of your mind. Sometimes you might be embarrassed if people bring up sex during conversation just because it reminds you of how much you think about it.

Or another example is if they're both in the 1st or 11th house. This could make you always think about how people perceive you and what they think about you and others. They might always ask you questions pertaining to themself or about others. In the 11th house they might always want someone's input on a certain thing just because they're curious about it.

Either way, mercury and mars sharing the same house can make you obsessed with the stuff related to that house.

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Scorpio Suns with a Sagittarius Moon are AMAZING to talk to. They know just the right amount of lighthearted and seriousness. They're some of the most wisest and intuitive people. It feels like you can talk about ANYTHING with these people and they'll listen to you, without brushing off what you have to say, and give you their most honest opinion and advice.

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People that have Leo or Capricorn stelliums can have an almost royal aura to them, however they can come off as stand-off ish. This is because when they want something, they WILL get it eventually. And whatever they do or anything others do for them, they want 100% full effort and dedication. They only want and only will accept the best that is offered. This can be amplified if the stellium is in the 6th or 2nd house.

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All cancer suns I've met either fit the Cancer stereotype perfectly or don't at all. Including myself.

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Speaking of, I feel like if someone has the same sign as you, but has a personal planets in the same moditalitiy but different signs (Squares), you might feel irritated by them in many aspects. Because they'll feel similar to you, but do things in a different way or unconventionally (to you).

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If you have recurring degrees from certain signs in your chart then, you may attract a lot of people with placements in those signs. I have a lot of placements in Gemini degrees and so many people I'm close to have prominent gemini placements.

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JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE A LOT OF CONJUNCTIONS OR "GOOD" ASPECTS DOES NOT MEAN LIFE WILL BE EASY FOR YOU!! It may indicate that there is a lot of POWER but not a cake walk.

I know some people (Including my dad) who have this and life has constantly hit them with curve balls and a lot of downs and ups. My dad has many conjunctions in his chart and he has gone through A LOT of difficult situations throughout his life, some of which have actually almost killed him a couple times.. But he always manages to get back on his feet and stay strong during extremely hard times.

The main take away from this is that having a lot of conjunctions or good aspects does not secure you an easy or bountiful life, but it may give you the power to always pull through very tough times and succeed if you harness it's power properly. So in a way, it truly can be a gift from the universe.

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Affirming my one point about Leo and Capricorn, do NOT date somene with Venus in Capricorn if you aren't in it for the long term. They already do not tolerate bullshit, and take their relationships very seriously.

Like Scorpio Venus, once invested, they can become very infatuated and attached to someone they deem as their lifelong partner. This is why you might not see many of them in relationships until they're in their later years because they would rather not date at all then entertain something that isn't for the long run, like most things in life, they're in it to win it 💕

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What are yalls thoughts on these? Did you like my first astro observation post? If so, let me know because I might do more like these in the future 💖

💐 Master List 💐

🌺 Planets and Astroids 🌺

🌸 Chiron in The Houses ( And How it Relates To The opposite House 🌸

🌺 Astrology Observations 🌺

🌸 Astrology Observations 1 🌸

🌸 Astrology Observations 2 🌸

🌸 Astrology Observations 3 🌸

🌸 Astrology Observations 4 🌸

🌸 Astrology Observations 5 🌸

🌺 Persona Chart 🌺

🌸 What Does Your Venus PC Represent? 🌸

🌺 Placements that . . . 🌺

🌸 Placements That Show Your Strengths and Weaknesses 🌸

🌸 Placements That Empower Your Lilith 🌸

🌺 Astrology Theories 🌺

🌸 Honorary Exalted Signs in Planets 🌸

🌸 Who should Venus really be exalted in : Pisces or Cancer? 🌸

🌸 The truth about Venus 🌸

🌸 Tropical vs Sidereal : How They Connect 🌸

💕 Miscellaneous / Q/A 💕

🌸 Lilith Opposition Ascendant 🌸

🌸 Sun Opposition Lilith Aspect 🌸

🌸 Lilith in Aquarius in The 10th House 🌸

🌸 My Experience With Libra Rising 🌸

🌸 Lilith / Mars / Pluto Synastry 🌸

🌸 What's it Like Having Ascendant/Lilith Aspects? 🌸

🌸 Lilith - Moon Aspects and Their Significance 🌸

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💕 Don't be afraid to ask me questions! I'm usually willing to give insight or an analytical breakdown of anything so don't hesitate 💕

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Astrology Observations 2

Please only take what resonates with you. These are my personal observations. So take with a grain of salt 💕

Having a mix of prominent Scorpio and Gemini placements can make them a beacon for other peoples secrets. People will be compelled to tell them TMI a lot for some reason. But are usually tight lip about their own secrets and things about themselves. Some natives may use this to their advantage. 👀

I feel like the planetary ruler of your 7th house is something you might feel like you lack, and wish you had better / more of.

For example, my 7th house is in Gemini, and Mercury rules Gemini. And with other people, I feel like my sociable/conversation skills aren't on par with my peers. Like I'm too rigid or stale with words and how I communicate.

Any planets in your 3rd house in someone elses 1st house can make their voice sound hypnotic to you.

If someone has multiple planets (especially personal ones) in your 1st house, you could be OBSESSED with them. Like, these people can unravel your sense of self and make you discover different parts of your personality and identity.

Same can be said for people with many planets in your 12th house. But it could be a obsessed / hate relationship. You might be highly envious of these people and hate them for it.

You might feel more competitive and/or always trying to prove something around them.

7th house Mars people can be some of the best hype men I swear💪💪

Some of the more dogmatic Mars placements are usually in the 1st, 4th, 9th, and 10th house from what I seen. Fierce defenders of their possessions, beliefs, and overall anything they hold close to their heart. Might try to push certain narratives or beliefs on you 😅

On the other hand, the more chill Mars placements I've seen are usually in the 7th, 8th and 12th house. They tend to keep some of their more stronger/personal beliefs to themselves because it's more of a private thing for them and they might not be as bothered by other's points of views (because it's not their beliefs anyways and they believe everyone's entitled to their own opinions) unless someone tries to force words into their mouth or twist the narrative on them.

Cancer moon native's emotions change with the moon; Very frequently. They're Are generally good sports though😊. They'll baby you the way they want to be babied. Just don't double cross them because while they MIGHT forgive you, they will NEVER forget.

Pisces Mercury natives could convince you to hear them out on ANYTHING. Like wtf I don't even know how they do it, arguably could be more convincing with words than an Air Mercury.

People with neptune, mercury and/or venus in your 2nd house this is your wake up call to start an ASMR channel! You guys have such soothing voices. 💤

Earth and Leo Venus natives love to pamper their partners and close friends with nice and luxurious things. And they also feel heavily appreciated when you do the same for them💕.

People with Venus in Leo are also the kind of people who go big or go home. They're likely the ones to pay the for the tabs when yall go out eat or shop💖.

Having Lilith - Ascendent aspects can make the native feel like an object in the eyes of others. Like the way a miser loves money or a hoarder keeps trinkets. With the way some people see them as a possession that needs to be controlled. Some people feel the need to control these natives or things about them because they feel intimidated by their presence. Which, for the native, can make interacting or associating with some people a very uncomfortable experience.

Although on the other hand, some natives may secretly want people become obsessed with them, even to a creepy degree. A few of these natives may enjoy the feeling of attention, power and significance it gives them. Until it falls out of their favor, then they'll probably hate it and try to squirm out of the situation.

Either way, these natives usually get a lot of attention, wanted or not.

Also these people tend to have voyeur/exhibitionist fantasies👀.

Honorary mention : sun-lilith and moon-lilith aspect natives

You might be obsessed with the sign in your Sun sign's ruling house. For example, I'm a Cancer Sun, and for the longest time, I've been obsessed with Aries placements. Aries rules my 4th house ( Cancer traditionally rules the 4th house ).

The house your 10th house ruler's planet is in and the degree of your MC may show you how to achieve a reputable and fruitful status in life.

For example if your 10th house is in Leo at 28° and your Sun is in the 6th house. You could benefit from starting a vlog/blog. Posting about your everyday life ( 6th house is about your day to day life, routine, and animals ). Stories about yourself, work, pets, ect ( The Sun is about one's self ). And making your fans feel like part of your family and everyday life ( 28° is a Cancer Degree, a sign all about home and nurturing others ).

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Do you guys have any ascendent-lilith, sun-lilith, or moon-lilith aspects? Tell me your experiences or thoughts about having these placements!💕

As someone with a very prominent, tight lilith-ascendant placement, I don't want the attention of men and I also don't really get their attention thankfully. I am however obsessed with myself and my looks. I want to like what I see in the mirror more than anything.

I feel like this is also another attribute to lilith. Even when you're not trying to seem appealing or magnetizing to others, and only for self satisfaction, you can't help it and other people will still try to obsess over you and might get drawn in. Some people might even try to control or shame you because they're intimidated by you, So be careful 💕

So I have the weirdest synastry with this guy I'm obsessed with, like I'm so attracted to him it’s insane (he’s also three years older than me) but I don't know if he feels the same way

My rising sign conjuncts his mars and squares his pluto and eros, my mars squares his Pluto and his mars and sun conjuncts my south node, his lilith conjuncts my venus and his uranus trines my venus. And his mars is also opposite my uranus and my mars trines his venus. Also his mars trines my sun…I don’t know what this means tho.

Does this mean he finds me attractive or am I the one who’s more obsessed???

Mars / Pluto / Lilith Synastry

These are some very powerful planets in some strong aspects lol. The Mars/Pluto ( + Eros ) aspects to the ascendant can feel like chemistry at first sight, like it was inevitable. With his Mars conjuncting your Ascendant, his energy and passion can feel like it's becoming yours too.

The orgins of your obssession may stem from his Mars and Sun being conjunct with your south node (and by extension, opposition with the north node.) The south node is your past life, what you're used to/comfortable with. And with your opposition north node aspects, he can feel like a missing piece of the puzzle for you on your life journey.

And his Lilith conjuncting your Venus will reel him in. The appeal and attraction with this placement is actually insane. Once you got him reeled in, he may feel like leaving or abandoning you is like leaving a piece of himself behind. He'll probably be OBSESSED with you as much as you are to him.

HOWEVER, if things go south between yall, the conflict could be intense, or even life threatening. Strong Mars/Pluto/Lilith aspects in synastry imply a lot of intensity and energy into whatever you guys do together. So while this could mean in bed or devotion to each other, it can also mean fights and arguments.

So I think you guys should just dip your toes in and test the waters before taking a deep dive, so you can feel out each other's energies and intensity.

Hello. I just wanted to ask you what’s your experience like having Lilith square Ascendant?

Not very fun I can say, While I feel like this affected my earlier childhood more than it is now at the moment, I felt like people were always rude to me for no reason or had something against me, despite me literally trying my hardest to be kind to everyone.

I feel like people with this placement will get heavily bullied or disliked for no reason at least at some point in their lives, if not, all throughout it. Certain people just don't like us or our energy for some reason.

Especially when we try to stand out or put our selves out there. A lot of people don't like when we do that. It's that or you have the creepily obsessed people who think they're entitled to us and how we portray ourselves despite us only trying to express ourselves FOR ourselves.

I feel like some us natives either use Lilith's intimidating and taboo energy to their full advantage and can make use of it, or ( and in most cases unfortunately ) we suffer the pitfalls and detriments of having this placement.

Like Pluto aspects/placements, this placement takes a lot of energy and self will to harness and harvest the fruits of it's power.

Lilith Square Ascendant seems like a Scorpio Rising. What other aspects can soften the blow?

Placements that Empower your Lilith

Lilith in the bible was Adam's first wife, and when he tried to make her submit to him, she rebelled and forged her own path. Truth to be told, I think there's no real way to soften Lilith's influence. I just think there's things that may strengthen Lilith's hold on you and it's power, like having-

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Scorpio Ascendant

( or any water ascendant but mostly Scorpio )

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Pluto, Moon, or Mars in the 1st, 4th, 8th or 10th house

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Neptune in the 1st, 8th or 12th house

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Lilith in the ruling house of the ascendant

( For example, my rising is Sagittarius, and Lilith is in my 9th House ( ruled by sagittarius )

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Lilith in Aries, Aquarius, Pisces or Scorpio

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Sun, Mars, Neptune, Pluto and/or North Node aspecting your Ascendant or Lilith

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Chiron and Lilith in the same house or opposite houses.

Chiron in The Houses : And How it Affects The Opposite House

I've noticed that when it comes to the astroid Chiron, there are similarities to problems from the house it's initially in and the house it's opposite from it. Like, many problems Chiron brings to a house can stem from the opposite house's properties and characteristics.

Chiron in The 1st House

Chiron 1st natives could feel like people predominantly judge them from the people they associate with. ( 7th house rules partners, associates, and other people connecting to us ) Like they don't have their own identity and live in the shadow of those around them. These people may rely on their partner/others to shape their identity. And they probably don't feel like their own person, and just an extension of others. These natives probably hate when people point out similarities between them and other people, which will add to their belief that they feel like an extension of others. Some might do absurd or outrageous things to stand out and be different from other people.

Chiron in The 2nd House

Chiron 2nd house natives might always have to worry about themselves or other people ( 8th house rules other peoples possesions ) losing and/or breaking their possesions. People may prefer to use the natives stuff instead of their own. At the same time people may not like sharing their valubles or stuff with the native. Or people may flaunt their possessions to the latter. These natives might feel like they always have to compare what they have to what others have, leaving them never feeling satisfied with what they have. And they may feel like their worth is dependent on other people and what they have.

Chiron in The 3rd House

Chiron 3rd house natives will always look for the deeper meaning in whatever people say to them. And always try to pick apart what people say. It can be exhausting talking to some of them as it may feel like they're trying to force their opinions and beliefs ( 9th house rules opinions, beliefs, philosophy and higher meanings ) onto someone when communicating. This native's childhood however could indicate that this happened a lot to them, with siblings, classmates, and people close to them shoving opinions and beliefs on them when they were young. So this is where they likely got it from.

Chiron in The 4th House

Chiron 4th house natives may feel like they won't amount to anything in life, that their family hasn't already achieved. They might feel like they live in their family's shadow. Could have a very popular, famous, and/or important family member, to where the native lives in their shadow, and the public always associates this native with someone from their family ( 10th house rules reputation, what you're known for, and how the public views you )  Might have been the lesser child and not held in as high hopes as their other siblings by the other family members. And family members could pressure these natives by reminding them of their family's feats.

Chiron in The 5th House

Chiron 5th house natives might seek out groups of people with the same interest, feeling most emotionally satisfied when they find their "flock" ( 11th house rules the groups we hang with, our hopes and dreams for society/our impact on it, and our societal views ) However they could feel like society makes fun of or doesn't accept this native's hobbies and what they do for pleasure because it isn't the "norm". Many people might shame this native for the things they enjoy and make them feel guilty, making them think about how their hobbies and things they enjoy affect society and the people around them.

Chiron in The 6th House

Chiron 6th natives probably feel like they're trapped in their day to day lives. Like life doesn't get more interesting or won't be any greater than what they have. These people likely hard workers, sticking to their vigorous routine, in the hopes that the universe or some higher being will bless them with good karma ( 12th house rules higher powers, the unconscious, dreams, isolation, and karma ). And these natives may actually not know what they want in life or in themselves, except that they don't want to be nothing. Which can lead them down a path of monotony and not doing anything great or dreaming big. Can feel like they can't fantasize or dream big because they have to focus on the now and everyday life tasks.

Chiron in The 7th House

Chiron 7th natives probably surround themselves with people like them; They are the company they keep. ( 1st house rules identity, the self, and how people perceive you ) However when other people come for the native's partner, spouse or associates they're likely get very defensive, as people who come at them can feel like a direct attack at the native. And when in a relationship, they can be hypocritics because they probably share some attributes with their partners that they have ill feelings towards, because as before, these natives surround themselves with people like them, which can make them narrow minded.

Chiron in The 8th House

Chiron 8th natives can feel be abrasive with other peoples values and stuff ( 2nd house rules one's values and possessions ). They might see other peoples possessions or values as their own. And might share the same sentiment that their stuff is for others, or not. But these natives might feel like people overstep their boundaries a lot and might even do this themselves to others. But this can make some natives very possessive of what they own and build up walls to prevent people overstepping their boundaries. Making the natives do a lot of stuff themselves for them self instead of with others for this reason. May hold a lot of taboo values, but keeps this to themselves.

Chiron in The 9th House

Chiron 9th natives may feel all their values come heavily from siblings, classmates, and peers from their childhood ( 3rd house rules childhood, siblings, and communication ), and that it molded many of their present day beliefs, good and negative. Unlike Chiron 3rd house natives, they may not like to or might be scared to communicate their beliefs. These natives may feel like, despite their journey through life and discovering things about the world and themselves, that it's ultimately their past that represents who they are, which might not be good if they were bullied a lot in their childhood. So they might hold some sentiment to things said to them during childhood and the native's view on themselves could be very low, and they could still hold resentment for some people from thier younger years, this is another that placement can indicate being narrow minded.

Chiron in The 10th House

Chiron 10th natives will always have to worry about something and/or someone damaging the publics view on them and their overall reputation. Likely home issues or things from childhood ( 4th house rules home, roots, and foundations ) resurfacing and altering the public's view on them. And/Or they're trying to bury and run away from their roots to appeal to the public. These natives don't want to be defined by their childhood or family roots. Some may even leave behind and/or betray their family for greater things in life like reputation and fame. However this is probably because they will have envious relatives who seek to destroy what name this native made for themselves out of jealousy and/or old family drama resurfacing.

Chiron in The 11th House

Chiron 11th natives probably feel like they can't enjoy their hobbies or anything they like without thinking about how it affects others, and it's impact on society ( 5th house rules pleasure, hobbies, and indulgence ). They probably don't want to or don't like indulging themselves too much, feeling like there are greater things to worry about more than their own pleasures. Or some might have big dreams and visions for changing their society/community, but are too caught up in their own pleasures and indulgence to actually act on them. However some natives could get treated poorly by their group, peers, or overall community, causing them to not care about bettering society or helping people. And in the end, make them only seek out their own pleasure and well being, because if society doesn't care about the native's needs, why should they care about societys'?

Chiron in The 12th House

Chiron 12th natives have very cloudy and active minds. They're big dreamers and probably mostly live life in the clouds of their mind. These natives can feel trapped by the claws of everyday, boring life ( 6th house rules everyday life, routine, and service ). They could have many dreams and goals but probably won't act on many of them, because the fantasy in their heads is good enough for them instead of the real thing. These natives may not get the tasks they need to do everyday done, and probably procrastinate A LOT. They may feel isolated and/or not mentally present at their workplace, and would rather daydream and keep to themselves than interact with peers. These are the people that could fall off the face of the earth and not many people would notice, because they're so private and keep to themselves.

What are yalls thoughts? Did any of this resonate with you? If not, check your Chiron sign and use it's sign's ruling house. ( Ex. if you have Chiron in Aquarius, read Chiron in the 11th house )

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Do do know anyone with a Libra Rising? If so what are they like?

My Experience With A Libra Rising

My best friend's boyfriend is a Libra Rising at 20+ degrees with a 1st house stellium ( but the stellium is in scorpio ). He's really cool dude to talk to and hang out with. I known him since 4th grade. However when we were younger I remember when he used to usually try to fit in with the more gossipy and popular kids. And would sometimes do this at the expense of others ( Ex laughing or making fun of someone if the group didn't like said person ).

Like it would be a point and laugh kind of thing to fit in with the group and he used to go over board with it sometimes. But as time passed on ( And he started to develop his ascendant more ) he had grown out of that mindset. Yes, he still flows with the group he's in, but it's in a more natural and chill way that doesn't harm others anymore. And he tries to set boundaries on what is and isn't acceptable for him when interacting with others, and stands up for his beliefs, even if others disagree.

Also My best friend's and his relationship are a big part of his identity, and they're not afraid to show it. He can be corny sometimes with him but he always means well.

Hello! Just read your post about placements that can enhance Lilith's energy and wanted to know your opinion about this: I have an aquarius moon in the 10th, venus in capricorn in the 10th, lilith in aquarius in the 10th and lilith conjunct moon. Is it a coincidence? I also have some placements you mentioned on your post. Thanks :)

Probably not. With Aquarius ( A sign known for standing out amongst their peers and being different, which can make them feel isolated a lot and people may not understand where they come from with certain things ) Paired with the regular moon and dark moons energys are practically at their peak here, especially in the 10th house.

You're reputation is probably that of someone who is controversial, with taboo views and beliefs people just don't understand or comprehend, but they are willing to hear you out anyways.

I feel like if Lilith is in the 1st or 10th house, it amplifies the power of the sign it's in.

You can use this to your advantage if you express your true emotions on a matter and can morph the publics view on things and community opinions by relating it to things of the 11th house. By showing people that your stand on topics is not just personal bias, but opening their eyes and showing that it can revolutionize society and help better the community in the long run. By standing strong with your beliefs, BUT also being able to hear out other people too as they hear you out as well on certain opinions and beliefs.

And with Venus in Capricorn in your 10th house too, people will find it hard to truly dislike you, and with lilith here, people can dislike you, but will still tune in on what you have to say because of Lilith's magnetic power. Even if you have very controversial opinions. Because the way you present your argument for things will likely be grounded, to the point, and reasonable enough for people to hear you out.

Just make sure not to go over board and too hard on trying to desensitize the public to controversial views and beliefs or people may see your views as not coming from a place of genuineness and to help better the community, but for your own personal gain and selfish reasons. And the table turn can be a very harsh one, where you will be heavily scrutinized by the public. And Lilith's power will still keep the public obsessed with you, but this time it will be less than unsavory,

Long story short, you derive a lot of power with this combination of placements, but great power comes great responsibility. And if you abuse the power of these placements too much, the backlash can be devastating.

Hello 🤗

I saw you are very interested in Lilith things because you make some posts about her and they all look very good!

I wanted to ask since i can't really found nothing on Tumblr about this, what do you think about Lilith opposite Sun?

In my opinion oppositions are very powerful because there are 2 opposite signs and their energies coming together, but i wanted to ask someone who knows more about Lilith than me!

Thanks! Have a very great day

Sun Opposition Lilith

You're right. People often see oppositions as "bad" or "not good" but the truth is, like conjunctions, they aren't good or bad. It's when two foreign yet similar energies learning to combine and work together, once they overcome each other's differences. Planets in opposition are very similar, but the differences in energies are very pronounced and will be the driving force between two planets working together. The classic opposites attract.

The Sun represents ego, goals and our core traits. People often say we act like our sun sign when we are doing very well for ourselves and at our best.

Lilith Represents our darker sides and desires, things we just can't help because they are engrained in our being. Like Chiron, it's not something we can run away from. Only something you can try to supress and hide from the world.

So when the Sun and Lilith are in opposition, it's very similar to when Adam and Eve ate the forbidden fruit in the garden of Eden and got kicked out from it because of the serpent; it's all about doing what's best for yourself vs the temptations of desire. There's a constant tug of war between your goals for success in life and the outward persona you project onto the world, and your temptation to fall back on old habits and indulge yourself.

Your goals for success or anything might be very different from what you actually desire subconsciously. Leaving you feeling unsatisfied even when you reach certain ones. You don't WANT to indulge in your more raw and unsavoury desires, in fear of it controlling your life, but sometimes temptation is too high and you just can't help it.

Like Neptune, Sun/Lilith ( also Moon/Lilith ) aspects can indicate addiction or unbreakable habits. Except, you will likely do anything in your power to stop it, so it doesn't ruin your life.

With this placement, you will likely do everything in your power to suppress the traits you have of your Sun sign's sister sign ( aka your Lilith sign, if your lilith is in a different sign, still keep in mind the sign opposite from the Sun )

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thank you so much to the people that alerted me on this issue.

Random question. Which persona charts (or any other Astro placements) highlights a persons strengths, weaknesses, personal development, and path to self improvement?? Thank you

Placements That Show Your Strengths and Your Weaknesses

Now I wanna start this off with these are my personal observations and what I think makes sense. So some things may not apply to everyone, and always keep in mind you may have aspects to certain planets and other contributing factors to negate some of the stuff I list!

Placements That Can Show Your Strengths

Your Sun sign shows your traits that shine when you are doing your best, the traits of your sun sign will show how you are in a leader/power position. And what traits you may have or will need to display to be a leader and have people follow in your footsteps.

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Your Mars Sign and the house it's in will show you the reason for your goals (Sun sign), what you channel your energy into, and how you'll project it onto the world. The house your Mars is in will be the 'Why?' for your life choices, and the sign in your Mars will be the 'How?'

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Planets aspecting Chiron will give you the powers to and show you how you cope with your deepest internal wounds. For example, if you have Venus/Chiron aspects, then you might be the kind of person to enjoy the finer things in life and getting other people to enjoy it too. You probably love spending money on luxury items ( When either it's your or someone elses money ), food, and with/on people close to you, because it makes you feel good about yourself and others when you do it, probably feels like putting on an emotionally healing bandaid on a deep psychic wound when you do this.

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Your Jupiter sign will show you how you gain wealth and luck. Your Jupiter sign will be HOW you need to do things in life to succeed. Things you need to abide by to have luck by your side. Which Jupiter sign's agenda you need to flavor your agenda with to have their power by your side.

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The Sign of your chart ruler's planet. ( Example is if you're Rising is in Taurus and if your venus is in Aquarius ). Like Jupiter, abiding by your ruling planet's sign should bring you much luck and success in your life in whatever you do. With the example above, the way you should go about life if you had that placement is to connect with your community, cherish society's achievements and push to revolutionize your generation, break social norms so the outcasted and shunned feel like they have a community they can feel apart of, ect. But also using Venusian traits to achieve this too, like charming, showing people that everyone is similar, showing what the finer things in life could be if everyone worked together, ect.

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Your Venus Persona Chart can show you how you'll appeal to others, and what you can do to boost this appeal. What assets you can use to further yourself in life. Venus rules relationships, money and indulgence, so take a look at this PC to get more insight about this.

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Your Chiron Sign and House it's in will show how you'll be able to heal others, while this astroid is mainly known for your deepest uncurable wound, it can also show how you heal this same wound in others.

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Your 2nd house sign can show what you are persistent and consistent about. What values you will stick to and live by, what motivates you in life. What are your reasons for wanting money. What are the little and simple things that keep you motived.

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Your 5th house sign can show why you may have these values, what are your hobbies and entertainment that you strive to experience and how it keeps you motivated. What your natural talents are and how you can use them in life. This house represents what you like and what your a natural in.

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Placements That Can Show Your Weaknesses

Your Moon Sign is your emotional needs and what makes you emotionally satisfied, the Moon is everything emotions. However, this can also show how people can manipulate you, and what they might threaten you with to hurt you emotionally. And any emotional baggage and/or attacks will feel amplified if the Moon is in debilitation or fall ( Capricorn or Scorpio ), or if the moon is aspecting Saturn or/and Neptune. Also while your Sun sign are what traits you display at your best, you may display the negative traits of your Moon sign at your worst.

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Your Venus sign can show what/how you may fall victim to indulging in too much and forfeiting many important responsibilities. And the house your Venus is in can show where it's worst at. For example, Venus in Gemini may have problems with never finishing what they start and are too quick to jump to the next thing, and may spend too much time socializing, and not getting what they need to do done. And Venus in the 6th house could mean the area of their life most affected my all of this is at work and daily routines. Your Venus can also show what you do when your procrastinating.

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Your Saturn Sign can show road blocks you will frequently encounter during your life until you learn to discipline yourself in that area of life and over come it's challenges. For example, a Saturn in Scorpio will have to learn to see the signs, listen to their gut feeling, and trust very few people. Or they'll constantly be hit with blows in life they didn't see coming and aren't prepared for, and will likely be betrayed more than once.

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The sign and house your Neptune is in will show what you are delusional about and what you might over idealize. Neptune is a generational planet, so the sign it's in is more for our generation as a whole and the house it's in is more related to us as a person.

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Your Mars sign in the Moon PC, in addition to your Moon sign, can show what you get emotional and defensive over with very little push. Your Moon PC Mars can show what you need to be emotionally satisfied. But when these needs aren't met, just like your Moon sign, it can show what you're like when you're emotionally unhappy.

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Your Mercury and Mars combination in the Mercury PC can show how you lash out at others verbally when angry. And what you might say to hurt others in the heat of the moment.

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The house opposite from the one your Jupiter is in can show an area of life you feel unlucky and have to work harder for success in. Not saying it's gonna be complete hardship, but you may feel like you have to go the extra mile in that house to make ends meet. This will ring especially true if you have planets in opposition with your Jupiter.

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Your 12th house sign can show things you feel like you lack, and subconsciously wish you had more of, even if you already have things and traits related to this house, it can still feel like it isn't enough and it can make you envious of things related to your 12th house sign.

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Your 8th house sign can show how people overstep your boundaries, where your most vulnerable at, and how people take avdantage of that. Things that you can't help but people may shun or belittle you for, so you keep it private and close to your heart.

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What do you guys think of this? I know there can be other Strength and Weakness placements but I wanted to list some of the general ones I've seen. What other indicators do you think there are of these? Do any of these placements resonate with you? Let me know in the comments.

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Astrology Observations and Theories : Honorary Exalted Signs

Exalt in Astrology is when a planet is at it's best in a sign that it doesn't rule. For Example, the Moon is exalted in Taurus because, outside of Cancer ( The Moon rules Cancer ), Taurus is the biggest home body in the Zodiac. They are all about comfortability and being stable, which the Moon likes and is all about.

So almost all the planets' are exalted in a sign, except Uranus, Neptune and Pluto ( Mercury is up for debate ). Here are the planets that have an exalt sign.

The Sun is exalted in Aries

The Moon is exalted in Taurus

Mercury is exalted in Virgo (Idk why and idk if it is, cuz they rule it already)

Venus is exalted in Pisces

Mars is exalted in Capricorn

Jupiter is exalted in Cancer

Saturn is exalted in Libra

These are all the planets with exalts that everyone knows. But I feel like all the planets can be exalted and do very well in other signs too. which I'm going to give a sign for each planet then a reason for why I think it does so well in that planet.

The Sun Co Exalted in Taurus

While Taurus can be all about luxury and being secure, have you ever really met an insecure Taurus before? Lol. The Sun has to do with ego, the self, and our goals. All of which I feel Sun in Taurus people will almoat always have. Usually it's 'my way or the highway' with these people, but to a less agressive and in-your-face degree than their exalt Martian counterpart, Aries. And more of in a charming, Venusian way. They KNOW their worth and aren't willing to stoop to anything less. But they can be unmovable in opinion and belief sometimes, and but are still willing to hear you out SOMETIMES. Prone to indulging themselves a lot.

Moon Co Exalted in Aries

The Moon is our emotions, how we feel, what we're comfortable with, and our inner needs. Here, Aries isn't trying to hide or supress their emotions. They're usually very open about how they feel. How they say they feel is likely how they feel, no hidden meanings. I feel like people don't give this placement enough credit. Aries here won't focus as much of their energy on others needs and emotions to the point it exhausts them, however they can still relate to you. With them being so honest and open, if they've ever felt what you're feeling about something, they will validate your feeling and emotions by explaining a similar thing they experienced. They can be blunt with others, but more importantly, with themselves. They won't sugercoat anything if there's an issue they have and will probably try to solve it.

Mercury Co Exalted in Libra

Mercury is all about communication, the mindset we have, and what are reoccuring topics when conversing with you. Libra is a peoples' person kind of sign. Libra Mercury natives love to share and hear peoples stories and they love to share other peoples stories too. The words just flow from them naturally, silky smooth like honey. They can be very charming with their words and they always think before they speak because they know how words can affect people. Libra, the sign of partner ships, negotiation and sharing does very well in the planet of communication, thinking, and how we express ourselves.

Venus Co Exalted in Leo

Venus is a planet all about relationships, luxury, how we indulge, and how we spend our money. Like Taurus, Leos like to indulge; in themselves and in others. Leo's passion, creativity and pride seeps out and into others, making them a joy to be around. Like a typical Venusian, they can be generous and vain at the same time. There's never a dull moment with people like these and by the end the day they know how to settle down and chill too. Leos are lions, and like lions, they have their pride of people they always hang out with. Which coincides with Venus's relationship nature. Plus, Venus Leo natives are the ones to go big or go home, they like indulge on luxurious things too like a Venusian would.

Mars Co Exalted in Gemini

Mars is a planet energy, action and passion, so for some it may come as a suprise that Gemini actually does very well in this planet but it makes sense because Gemini, while not as fiery as an Aries or Leo, is still a highly energetic ans bubbly sign. Gemini can jump from topic to topic, person to person and interest to interest at a very fast rate because of their constant need for stimuli. And here, Mars is supplying energy to a sign that uses a lot of energy, so it's a symbiotic relationship between planet and sign. This is a placement that is tireless and always on the move, just how Mars likes it.

Jupiter Co Exalted in Aquarius

Jupiter is the planet of travel, philosophy, and beliefs. Which is why I think it does well in Aquarius, because this sign is well known for it's humanitarian views and constantly pushing to revolutionize society. Like Sagittarius ( and by extension Jupiter ), Aquarius are more susceptible to being open minded. They're always trying to understand the world, and most importantly, the people around them. They can do this by travel and connecting with people. Which will satiate the questions they have about people, cultures, and life in general. They attract luck by connecting communities and trying to see both sides of the same coin in anything, much like a typical Jupitarian.

Saturn Co Exalted in Virgo

The main themes for Saturn are Discipline, Life Lessons, and Reputation. And Virgo, Like Capricorn (Domicile) and Libra (Exalt), this placement will always try to be nothing short of perfect. This placement cares a lot about how they present themselves to others, and more importantly, themselves. Virgo is a sign notorious for being judgemental and perfection, but how they judge others is 10 times worse when judging themselves. This is a very disciplined placement. This placement indicates being VERY self aware of your flaws and problems, and having the power to develop into a better version of over time if you're always honest with yourself, about yourself.

Possible Planetary Exalts

I'm not sure why Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto don't have an official exalt. But I'm here to do them justice. These aren't the official ones, but my own speculation and theories 💕

Uranus Exalted in Scorpio

Uranus represents how our generation rebels against previous traditions and societal expectations, what boundaries of the previous generations we push. Which is why Scorpio, the sign literally known for the taboo and being misunderstood would work so well in this planet. During times with this placement, Society may go through many huge changes in the political and social world. A point in time where we break many societal stereotypes, barriers and push to make the taboo the status quo. A highly transformative period, will likely be filled with many controversies and issues, but in the end, will help better our society. After all, theres no rainbow without rain.

Neptune Exalted in Sagittarius

Known as the planet of dreams, hopes, the unconscious, how our generation thinks, and how we're delusional, Neptune surprisingly does very well in Sagittarius. This placement is about a generation that makes their dreams come true. These are people with vivid and abstract thoughts, and know how to put them into action. A placement that isn't afraid of trial and error until they achieve their dreams, and can also indicate being a trendsetter. Because of Sagittarius' constant exploration and truth seeking nature, it can kind of negate Neptune's delusional, cloudy nature, making this a generation that is very self aware and good at disecting others and themselves.

Pluto Exalted in Pisces

Pluto represents a generation's power, how we transform society in our era, what legacy we leave behind as a generation. And Pluto in Pisces represents a generation that pours it's power into making our society into a more empathetic and connected place. Here in this placement, Pisces' many hopes and dreams give Pluto an outlet to pour their power into. Marking an era where many people pursue their visions for the world, become more accepting of others and put their creativity to use.

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Astro Observations part 3? Or is there anything else yall want me to post abt?💕

hayy guys! I'm gonna be posting astro observations part 3 soon and after, what would you like to see next?

Astrology Observations 3

The power pisces placements hold is actually insane, like everyone talks about how intuitive Scorpios are, but have you seen what a Pisces can do when they set their minds to something? Especially a Sun / Mercury Combination in this sign. Like these people can not only predict many things and easily read foretold messages, getting insight on something before it happens, but they also have heavy manifesting powers when they have a lot of faith in something that they think will happen. It's like they speak it into existence. These people have a sixth sense I swear.

Like everything people think Scorpios are Pisces IS.

Having a Libra or Gemini Moon in your Solar return chart could indicate you being put in a situation where you appear fake and/or two faced. ( NOT Natal chart, Solar Return Chart ) I remember during 2020 I had this, and I used to always wanna keep the peace and harmony in my friend group, but when certain people left that I didn't like, I used to talk SO MUCH SHIT. It's a thing of not being liked by certain people or not liking certain people and them making you irritated and angry, but not wanting to cause more problems that would make the situation worse. So you just leave it be but as soon as you get the chance to vent about it, it's like a flood gate opening.

Moon in 11th house people CANNOT live without their group. I know someone with this placement and he always has a group to tag along with and he has so many connections to people. He's the poster child of social butterfly.

Being around someone with a Debilitated or Fall Moon ( Capricorn and Scorpio ) when they're irritated or angry is so draining. Like they WILL suck the energy out of the room when they're mad. Like you're walking on eggshells with what you say to them. However usually when the native realizes that it's affecting everyone they will leave the scene until they cool down, or try to sit down and talk about their feelings. This is because they don't want to stew in their own anger because it's draining to them too, so most would rather solve the issue than keep being angry.

Pisces Mars is another powerful placement to have for intuition and being able to dissect people's mind, intentions and feelings. Mars is the energy we put out into the world, but Pisces Mars uses their energy to absorb other peoples' energies to get the feel about somebody. This can also indicate someone who is very sleepy all the time, espeically around emotionally and spiritually draining people because they have to use more energy on these people.

In synastry, we all know to check Venus, Mars, Moon, ect. HOWEVER! I feel like another huge determining factor in synastry is ruler planet chemistry. For example. If person A has Gemini Rising, and person B has Capricorn Rising, You would check how person A's Mercury aspects person B's Saturn. If A's Mercury trines B's Saturn then they could have a relationship based off similar experiences and having similar ways of thinking, despite their Rising signs being in quincunx. Also take into account where the chart ruler falls in each others charts. Another example is if Person A's Mercury could be in B's 6th house, making their relationship more work related and, and they sharing everyday little details to eachother.

Having a lot of strong and prominent aspects to one planet can make it a key focal point in your life, even if it's not the chart ruler, dominant planet, ect. This also means that planet has a more far reaching and influential power over the many planets it's aspecting. Think of dividing and conquering in a sense. And the planets being aspected by this one planet can even take on the qualities of the planets sign(s).

For example, someone can have many planets in fire or air, initially giving them those fire/air qualities. However, if their Saturn aspects alot of their planets (especially personal planets), then they may take on a more serious and calculated demeanor. Similar to that or a Capricorn or Aquarius.

What is it with fixed Mars signs and BEING SO FUCKING STUBBORN!? Especially Scorpio or Taurus Martians. I mean I know I can be stubborn sometimes but this is insane. In some instances, they KNOW they're in the wrong but will still defend their side of the argument until they day they DIE!! Obviously this is not everyone with this placement, at all times, but I've seen a couple people with this placement do this in when debating or arguing and it's like talking to a brick wall.

Having a lot of planets in the 10th house, or having personal planets in the 10th house in many of your Persona charts can indicate being very conscious of what you say to people, or to the public as to not have anything you say ruin your reputation. Any vile or ill feelings you have towards people are said in private to people you trust. These people are VERY conscious of their social and digital footprint.

Sagittarius Risings can have be very clever and calculating with their addictions. They're excellent at saving up money and rolling on a tight budget, thanks to their 2nd house being in Capricorn, however, with the full intentions of blowing all that money on something most people would find reckless or not essential. For example, saving up a months worth of rent to blow it all at the mall on anything they find and like when they get there. Calculating enough to know how much money they'll likely need for their adventure, but vague enough not to know exactly what they'll buy when they actually get there.

I think this kinda goes without saying but also look at the house your planets are in along with the sign! For example, Someone with Libra Mars may seem really chill and compromising but if they have it in the 1st house they can be way more agressive and bold than a normal Libra Mars, and take on many traits of an Aries Mars.

On the same note, look at which specific house the planets are in, I feel like planets can be effected by the whatever house they are exalt, domicile, detriment, or fall in. For example, Venus could be in it's home sign, Taurus, however if Venus is in the 6th house it would still be in a somewhat fall because Virgo rules the 6th house and is in fall in Venus.

ALONG THE SAME NOTE, I don't see people talk about this enough but signs in domicile can be just as malefic as signs in detriment!! While a Capricorn Moon can have trouble showing their emotions and opening up to people, a Cancer Moon could be too emotional and always make the topic about how they feel and their emotions. Or while a Pisces Mercury could be avoidant and emotionally persuasive with their words, a Virgo Mercury could be overly analytical and constantly nitpick.

If you don't relate to a house placement, check your chart in whole houses.

With most of us alive today having Neptune sextile Pluto, this means we tend give a LOT of power to people we heavily idolize or are obsessed with greatly, for good or for worse.

I feel like the people who get stereotyped the most and/or have a warped stereotype applied to them that isn't consistant with the signs original stereotype usually have Pluto, Neptune or sometimes Uranus in their first house because those planets stay in a sign for years and can affect that generation of people. For example, Sagittarius Risings are stereotypically optimistic, easy going, adventureous and free spirited. However with most of Gen Z having Pluto in Sagittarius, this gives our generation of Sagittarius Ascendant natives a more serious, intense and secretive qualities.

A conjunction between two planets that are in different signs can weaken the conjunction. This is because while the planets energies are still combining, the planets have different ways of outputting that energy, which can sometimes disrupt the synchronization of the two planets.

This goes for opposition too, and I think it makes it worse because usually when two planets are in opposition, they are in sister signs, which gives them similar qualities and a basic understanding for each others energies. However if two planets in opposition aren't in sister signs, then this can make the placement feel more like a Square/Quincunx combination because there won't be that initial understanding or similar qualities, And the signs won't share the same modality or element.

I feel like Lilith aspecting the Moon can be more detrimental and powerful than the Moon being in Scorpio or Capricorn. This is because Lilith in astrology, like the moon is related to feminine energy (After all it's black MOON Lilith). But because of this very powerful and similar influence to the Moon, this can warp the effects and qualities the Moon has on the native, and the line where Lilith and the Moon's influence seperate can blur for the native. Personally me, I think this placement is the most powerful Lilith placement/aspect to have, even more powerful than aspects to the Ascendant or Sun, and is what typically makes someone a Lilith dominant.

Placements that indicate having strong manifestation powers -

Jupiter or Venus in the 12th house.

Neptune in the 1st, 3rd or 8th

Having Pisces in a fire house (1st, 5th, 9th)

Sagittarius in Neptune and/or 12th house

Having planetary conjunctions where the planets in conjunction are in Pisces/Aries (One planet is pisces and the other is Aries)

Saturn in the water houses

Stelliums that include saturn or Neptune

Stelliums in the 8th house

Ruler of the 12th house in the fire houses (Co rulers count too)

having many planets in the 10th or 11th house (because they are Saturn ruled houses and manifestation here is a result of good karma and time).

On that note, not every planet in the 12th house is good for manifestation. Brash and scattered planets like Mars, Mercury, Moon, ect can be too chaotic and scattered for accurate and great manifesting.

While Venus Persona Chart can show what kind of lover you are, Juno persona chart can show what your lover's chart may look like.

Look at where the Ascendant of the Ascendant Persona Chart Ruler is in your natal chart for more insight about your identity and what your core themes are. For example if your Acsendant PC Rising is in Aquarius, check where Uranus and Saturn lies in your natal chart.

Personally, I think Venus should be exalted in Cancer and Jupiter should be exalted Pisces, they need to swap because it would make so many things line up with the placements exalts and domiciles for Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Mercury, ect. For a more in depth analysis check out my post here

Solar Return Chart observations it is!! Of course this isn't to say I'm not gonna make a persona chart observations, I'm just gonna make that one after the solar return one, stay tuned for part 4 💕💖

hayy guys! I'm gonna be posting astro observations part 3 soon and after, what would you like to see next?

Hi! I read your Astrology Observation #3.

Could you please elaborate more on Lilith aspecting the Moon?

I have Lilith Pisces opposite Moon Leo.

So I was wondering how that might affect my chart. I hope my question made sense.

Thank You for your help, and have a great day.

Lilith - Moon Aspects and their Significance

Hii!! Elaborating off my one observation, I feel like people highly underestimate Moon/Lilith aspects. After all, Black Moon Lilith is the point along the Moon's orbit when it is furthest from the Earth, so you can't even have Black Moon Lilith without the Moon, which is why this placement / aspect is such a powerful one.

With this aspect, it's combining different but very similar feminine energy together into something that not only comes full circle, but is essentially a more powerful version of the two placements alone. Think of when hot and cold wind come together to make a tornado. And all I can say on a generalization of all aspects for this placement is it can be VERY intense, good or bad, even the more minor aspects like trine or sextile.

As for the natives who have this placement, I can definitely say this is probably a more difficult aspect to have in one's chart, and like I said, even for the more easy going aspects. The root of these issues may have a lot to do with emotions and difficultys drawing the line between certain intense ones. Natives may feel heavily ashamed for expressing some, if not most emotions that display weakness or vulnerability, this can be emotions like grief, anger, sadness, jealousy, ect. Natives may scared of people using their strong emotions to control them and make them submit, which may in turn, lead to them expressing these feelings involuntarily as a defense mechanism and ultimately fail at what they try to prevent.

If I'm being honest, All Moon - Lilith aspect issues can manifest in different ways for everyone, but they almost all have a core theme of being related to emotions, control over them, fear of their own emotions and/or being shunned for them. Some natives may feel like they're in a never ending loop of emotional transformation. Fear and control are big themes here with these natives.

Pisces vs Cancer : Who should Venus really be exalted in?

Okay, as we all know, the signs domicile in Venus are detriment in Mars. Venus rules over Taurus and Libra, but those signs are in detriment in Mars. It's vise versa with Aries and Scorpio for Venus. It's a full circle relationship between Venus and Mars, but is it really?

Why is Venus exalted in Pisces? Wouldn't that make it fall in Mars because it's exalted in Venus? If Capricorn is exalted in Mars, wouldn't that make it in fall in Venus, and Venus exalted in Cancer?

I think it makes sense that Mars is exalted in hard working, determined Capricorn; And I think it would make sense for Venus to be exalted in Cancer.

Firstly, because Venus is all about relationships, and what people don't usually tell you is it means ALL relationships, NOT just spouse/partner relations. It can be spouse, friends, family, ANYONE, relationships of any kind. Our Venus sign is all about how we interact with others and what we look for when we interact with others.

Secondly, Cancer is known for being very home and family oriented, they nurture and pamper others they love. This usually extends to anyone close to them and many people in their lives. Cancer is a sign ruled by the Moon. Venus and the Moon are both heavily related to themes of feminity, just in different ways. The Moon is the feminity in one's inner self and emotions, while Venus relates to feminity on an outer level and how we project it outward to others.

While some say Neptune is a higher octave of Venus, Neptune has more to do with our generations dreams, idealism and idolism, our delusions and things kept secret from us by our sub conscience.

Plus, Pisces isn't a sign known for being relationship/people oriented. When you think of Cancer, typically, you think of how they care and nurture others. For Pisces, you usually think about how spiritual they are and thier connection to the 6th sense. They also rules the 12th house, the house of dreams, the unconcious, things hidden from us by ourselves, karma, but most importantly for this case, The 12th house rules over isolation. Which is the farthest thing away from what Venus is about, because like I said, Venus is about how we interact with others and our relationships with others. So why would a sign that's notorious for being a bit detached and prefers their own company, be exalted in Venus?

Thirdly, If we look at Mercury, it is ruled by Virgo and Gemini. However, most people also say Mercury is exalted in Virgo, the sign it also rules. So why isn't Jupiter ruled and exalted in Pisces like it's sister sign is to Mercury? Wouldn't it make sense to have the Virgo and Pisces both be exalted in the planets they also rule over if one does this??

Basically having Venus exalted in Cancer and Jupiter exalted in Pisces would be more reasonable and make more sense in the grand scheme of things. However these are just my opinions and thoughts on this. Who do you think Venus should be exalted in?