STOLITZ ANTIS TRY TO NOT POST ON THE MAIN TAGS CHALLENGE

STOLITZ ANTIS TRY TO NOT POST ON THE MAIN TAGS CHALLENGE

This is the episode description:

The writers are aware of Stolas faults and they will probably address it. Stolas dialogue just shows that his development isn’t complete yet.

But since this episode and likely the next one are focused on Blitzø’s internal problem (cause let’s be real, even if Stolas was the perfect partner Blizø would still sabotage their relationship) his self awareness problem won’t be solved until later on.

Plus it makes sense that Blitzø’s behavior is the first one to be addressed. Stolas is mostly willing to listen, but not if he is being screamed at. When Blitzø learns how to treat others he will be able to communicate better with Stolas and explain how he unintentionally looked down on him.

Stolas wants to learn and do better. He has done a lot of self reflection but it’s not enough for him to figure out all problems.

He needs a separate episode for him to figure out the micro aggressions, but that won’t happen until the end of the season or season 3. It might take even more time because racism/classism takes time to unlearn.

What’s important right now is that the writers are aware of the problem.

Don't get me wrong, I love Stolas. He's had amazing character development, I was glad to see him happy and thriving with the new guy in Apology tour and all that.

BUT

WHEN HAS HE EVER?

WHEN HAS HE FUCKING EVER?

Look Blitzø has fucked up and I don't think anyone's denying that. BUT SO HAS STOLAS. And I find it hypocritical to dismiss parts of his character just because they were at the start of the show.

Stolas DID look down on Blitzø. Maybe unintentionally yes, but he still did so and the fact that so many people insist that he did not PISS ME OFF.

Last year one of these guys was bothering my friend, who is black, queer and has ADHD. I swear to god we spent the entire year asking for our coordinator to do something about it and all we got were excuses.

She would say is that he is autistic, lonely and needs friends to guide him. I was there with my undiagnosed autistic ass wanting to punch her.

My friend had evidence of the guy being racist and homophobic towards him, plus at least 10 girls had witnessed him being creepy towards them.

Yet my friend only managed to get a good response after talking to one of the few black coordinators. The guy didn’t even get that much of a punishment, they only moved him to another classroom.

Like I dont get how white autistic people get so many passes to be racist jackasses because ~*they just dont understand*~ and we have to hold their hands through understanding why saying slurs or dressing up as a nazi (ive seen this one first hand) is wrong but the minute a brown autistic person says "hey dont be racist" were accused of being ableist and get met with harassment like where is the patience for brown people on the spectrum answer quickly 🎤⏰

Sorry, I had to.

I discovered a strategy to when annoying people ask if you have a crush on your friend.

Say that their breath stinks.

I said this once because I have a friend whose breath actually does stink and people immediately shut up every time I do that. For some reason they are more understanding towards not wanting to date for something like that than for just having a platonic relationship.

No, but what if the crystal is like a smartphone that can’t detect your touch with gloves?