Sometimes I Doubt That Im Aroace But Then It Gets Very Obvious. Like Rn When My Allo Boyfriend Is Like

sometimes i doubt that im aroace but then it gets very obvious. like rn when my allo boyfriend is like "ourghhhh i miss u" and i say "i miss you too" but i dont mean it in the same way he does. he loves me romantically, he can see people as cute and he gets romantically and sexually attracted to people. i dont. if i think someone is cute it's like aweeee that's adorable. like a puppy or a kitten. i don't get butterflies in my stomach and i don't get weak in the knees for somebody. i never will. and when i say "i miss u too" to my boyfriend i mean it the way i would mean it about any of my friends. i mean "I want to hang out with you and i think that it would be cool if i lay across your lap while we do our own things." i kiss my boyfriend, but i would also kiss any of my friends. and yeah that's not just me being aroace it's also me being autistic. tbh i dont know if i actually AM polyamorous, but. I feel the same way about all of my friends. I like my boyfriend the same amount i like queerplatonic partner the same amount i like my best friend the same amount i like my parents the same amount i like my brother. HOWEVER. it is NOT the same way. EACH PERSON IS DIFFERENT. this is important to acknowledge. you can be aromantic and polyamorous and it's really important to recognize that things like autism and adhd can affect how you view different kinds of love and relationships. sometimes i feel romance repulsed and sometimes i really crave a romantic relationship. sometimes i want to kiss everyone and sometimes i cant stand the thought of anything on my lips. sometimes im sex repulsed and other times im indifferent. everyone feels things differently and things shift and change and THAT IS OKAY.

Every day my relationship with the word “love” and what it means gets more complex and more impossible to explain to the rest of you people

Like yeah dude im in love with someone. Not like that though. Not like the other way either. You wouldn’t understand

An aro meme for myself

This has to be the single most aromantic thing I’ve googled in my life

Be officially ended things.

It went as well as expected ig

Definitely broke their heart though

Just found out my qpp has been waiting to see if I’d eventually develop feelings for them.

Our entire qpr. They’ve been holding out on a chance that I’d change.

It’s not on them at all. I just feel like a cunt that lead them on now fuckkkkk

I don’t know what to do

Just found out my qpp has been waiting to see if I’d eventually develop feelings for them.

Our entire qpr. They’ve been holding out on a chance that I’d change.

It’s not on them at all. I just feel like a cunt that lead them on now fuckkkkk

I don’t know what to do