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According To The Various Tag And Reblog Responses On The Post, Incredibly. It Is Like Asking Them To
According to the various tag and reblog responses on the post, incredibly. It is like asking them to push the stone up the mountain.
at the end of the day, when you are in a server you follow its rules, if it doesn't allow drama, find somewhere that does
This logic means people actually have to think for themselves and let go of their entitlement and I can safely say for a select group of people that is simply not going to happen.
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at the end of the day, when you are in a server you follow its rules, if it doesn't allow drama, find somewhere that does
This logic means people actually have to think for themselves and let go of their entitlement and I can safely say for a select group of people that is simply not going to happen.
Youre so cool and smart and cool and smart, did I mention cool?? And smart???❤️❤️❤️❤️ I rlly rlly like ur blog, ur words are intellectual and comforting to me and I hope you have a great day. Thank you for being here.

People are not obligated to be your dumping ground for your anger, sadness and trauma.

Actually after making this post I'm begging people to learn critical thinking skills and media literacy. In what world do you see me say "actually not every space is obligated to provide a sounding board for you to be negative" and conclude that what I'm actually saying is racists and bigots should be allowed to run rampantly without consequence?
People like you are why other people get activism and compassion burnout.
I am actually begging some people to just let some spaces exist untouched by real-world issues and horrors.
Like I've lost count of the amount of times peaceful game or fandom servers have been ruined by people stampeding in with political rants, bitching about world issues, demanding internal activism, demanding vent channels so they can whine about their shitty parents, ect.
Like. Respectfully. Not every single space has to be inclusive of and welcoming of outside topics. The real world sucks. We don't needed to be reminded of that absolutely everywhere.
I moderate a fan server for a gaming YouTuber, and my god the responses you're getting about how not all spaces need a vent channel sound so familiar... our server has a vent channel, but we still have banned topics, and had to put what we informally call the "This Is A Fucking Wendy's Rule" (remember this is a discord server for a youtuber) in our community guidelines. And people complain that we're silencing them or sticking our heads in the sand because we don't allow conversations about politics or wars unless you're venting about being directly affected. Do you not have any better places to talk about this stuff than a youtuber's fan discord???
Some of the stories I'm seeing in the reblogs and the tags are wild. And not just the ones that are agreeable.
(Genuinely, the way some people are losing their fucking minds because I said they aren't entitled to bring their misery into every single space they occupy. They're all reaching so bad for exemptions or justifications and if I roll my eyes any harder they're gonna disconnect.)