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I know you mean good but fat girls can also break easily. I also don’t mean to sound rude or offend you but it’s rare for fat girls to be 6 foot, I know you might be fat and 6 foot but it’s pretty rare. I think most people stick to petite girls in cod stories because it would be scary and horrifying if they gave reader their sweater and all the sudden reader fits or barely fits in it and it only works as a crop top on them. And please try to remember just because their fat doesn’t mean they aren’t clean fat girls bathe too and do their eyebrows too they aren’t slobs. Fat girls can break when they get laid and yes I believe they also will jiggle around in the process so please try to be mindful when bringing up cod guys with a fat girl

i’m extremely confused but this might just be me not having enough sleep, what are you questioning here? i try (i’m pretty sure i haven’t either) to not mention body types, sizes, descriptions etc, i want everyone to feel like they can read a fanfic i have written because they can imagine themselves as the person, i know in one i said simon could practically engulf the reader but that is because i see simon as this big military man who’s built like a brick wall so that just how i tackle it in writing, as a person who has always struggled with my weight it’s nice to be able to read about a love interest who (not matter your size) can pick you up or put you on his lap, i don’t like writing for body types because it can discourage others and make them feel as if they aren’t good enough or have something wrong with their body when infact i think all body types and sizes are beautiful and think that no matter your size you should feel included in a fanfiction because as it says in the name, it’s fiction, something where you can imagine yourself in that position, if someone struggles to do so i understand that it wouldn’t feel good to be excluded especially when i have been victim to writing that is catered towards a specific body or feature, now if someone wanted a plus sized reader fanfic i would be more than happy to write that, my requests are open as stated and i would do everything to make sure it is up to their standards and their body description if i am given one.

I am also confused at your point of saying ‘just because they’re fat doesn’t mean they aren’t clean’ ???? this is extremely baffling and you mentioned eyebrows, once again ??? i’m seriously hoping this was meant for another post because you may not want to offend but what you have written to me i find extremely disrespectful and rude, just because you say don’t mean to offend/no offence doesn’t mean anything you don’t have the right to talk to people who go out of their way to write fanfiction for people to read when they’re bored, lonely, seeking comfort (as i have myself many times) i have a full time job that i don’t get home form till 10pm (hence the lack posts) you do not get to slander people who don’t have to write fanfiction but choose to in order to make others happy. My last point to add on is that you said ‘yes I believe they will jiggle around in the process’ this is going to sound rude but whatever, are you even a plus size person yourself? as you sound unsure as to what happens when someone is plus size and has sex? i think it’s extremely rude that you think you can make those kind of comments and come on my page and try to tell me what my body is and what i can and cannot write about.

IF YOU FEEL MY WORK IS NOT FOR YOU EITHER POLITELY PRIVATELY MESSAGE ME AND TELL ME SO I CAN EITHER FIX IT TO BE MORE INCLUSIVE OR CAN WRITE YOU YOUR OWN COMPLETELY NEW FIC!!! OTHERWISE GET OF MY PAGE AND DO NOT INTERACT WITH ME OR MY WORK!!! I DO NOT NEED TO PUT UP WITH HATE AND NEGATIVITY WHEN ALL IM TRYING TO DO IS BE CREATIVE AND MAKE PEOPLE HAPPY!!!!

Why is it that negativity gets more attention than positivity?

Whenever someone says that they like something, most people just talk about it for a couple minutes (if that), brush it off, and move on to the next topic. But whenever someone says something wrong, everyone in the conversation has to tell that person that they're wrong, over and over again. I don't get it... heck, I'm kind of doing that right now, even! Shouldn't attention be directly proportional to positivity, not inversely? It just doesn't make sense to me. Then again, people would rather watch drama than peaceful times...

Perhaps it has something to do with the fact that it's not "normal." Even though people do stuff wrong all the time, the expectation is that they will not, so it seems absurd when they don't, and it attracts attention. For some reason. I still don't get it.

To every gamer who has ever sent death threats, SWATted innocent people, DDOS'd companies they dislike, or hacked anyone's accounts to ruin their reputation--

To every Christian who has asserted that all non-Christians are evil, or gone to extremes to get their point across--

To every white person who has harmed another because of their color, or has encouraged supremacy to harmful levels--

To every male who has abused, raped, or maliciously attacked another human being--

To every extremist under every label in every group--

I AM SICK AND TIRED OF YOUR ATTEMPTS TO TARNISH THE NAMES OF INNOCENT PEOPLE.

Every time you selfish idiots commit these acts of malevolent terrorism, I get associated too, and so do all males, gamers, Christians, or whatever else you call yourself. In fact I'm so tired of this that I'm sick of having these labels, simply because they have such a stigma attached to them. All thanks to you. Perhaps no one is perfect, but you've taken it well beyond the line of simply being a misstep.

I hear of your exploits in the news every single day. I know I'm not alone; thousands of people hear about this stuff and feel the same way I do now. Congratulations, you got your attention - your 15 seconds of fame - and now you've ruined life for the rest of us.

Oh that's right, you don't care, do you? Not as long as you get your little laugh in and feel all self-righteous about everything, like you won something. I hope you get what you deserve, because your tirade has hurt far more people than you realize. Even after you have been called out and served justice, the rumors will spread, and the associations will linger, simply because you only thought of yourself.

I'm tired of labels and stigmas and biases and drama. Simply call me a counterexample.

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I brought back a lot of Colorado Smoky Quartz from my latest trip. Snag one if they call to you! What do you use Smoky Quartz for? Any magical uses?

I feel like there is a time for positivity and negativity. Too much of either in the wrong times can be detrimental. Personally, I need a bit of time after tragedy before positivity is thrown at me otherwise it will piss me off. I know they're just being nice, but please, let me grieve.

Would anyone care what I post? What I wish to say? I'm too afraid to spark outrage into an already tainted beyond saving website with people constantly bitchin about what's right

I need attention, but I hate how asking for help means your an attention whore this days

I think this is a good time to remind ourselves that twitter cancellation threads over past events are a form of performative activism. Roasting someone who has since changed’s feet over the fire will not help the issues in our society today, and you are not a bad person for supporting them today. 

This is how you teach people that they are irredeemable. 

On regards of what’s happening to me on twitter.

Also this person has opened a blog her on tumblr as well so I thought sharing this here was only fair.

Btw I’m fine, luckily I have people’s support and I’m able to take this whole situation lightly, but I still wanted to once and for all address the issue of my contents.

Have a wonderful day💗⚡️

Haters: Killua can’t be gay! He is a kid, you gross!!

Me:

You know what is sad? That even if we had this beautiful scene between Killua, Nanika and Alluka...

...even if Alluka and Killua treats Nanika as her own person and it's so obvious that Nanika isn't just "a weapon without feelings"...even if the message was so f*cking obvious...there are people that keep treating Nanika as "Alluka's asspull / Alluka’s nen ability”. 

You aren’t alone

To all those people out there, working on the field, doing something good for others during these COVID 19 times, Thank you. I salute you with all my respect.

To all those people who are affected by this harsh situation whether directly or indirectly, those who are suffering from the negativity, just remember that you are not alone in this. We will always be there for you.

The world is ready to help, don’t feel alone, we are all in this together.

Lots of love,

Vero

// i'm gonna kill god to get this header to the right size i swear to CHRIST

“Paralysis”

Acrylic on canvas

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On Babbushka

There is a group of well-known writers in the fandom who have been discouraged and put down by one of their own, Zannah - @babbushka​. It happens behind the scenes in DMs. It happens in posts and tags.

In DMs, she has started conversations with seemingly innocent questions. When she doesn’t receive the response she was aiming for, she diverts the conversation to criticizing and humiliating the person. She has attacked writers for tagging—or not tagging—a post in a way she deems appropriate. She has gotten into arguments over how characters were portrayed and then tried to claim victimization when the other person wouldn’t knuckle under.

She will appeal to her following to attack any fan or creator who has an opinion that differs from her own. She will encourage friends to send rude anons. Those same friends will also DM the target with rude remarks.

Several creators have stopped writing altogether because of their interactions with her.

We are tired of being discouraged. We are tired of being talked down to. We are tired of being bullied. Enough is enough. Under the cut we share our stories, let the chips fall where they may. It’s up to you, the reader, to decide whether to support her.

We can only warn up-and-coming writers, artists, fans, and supporters of her behavior.

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I have been saying I'm going to kill myself and making jokes out and how would I do so of it more often tbh even though I actually do want to kill myself....

fun fact: 90% of internet discourse could be solved if we stopped generalizing when making statements

Ah, but what if YOU are a negative person?...

if there’s one thing I've learned it’s that “justice” has had so many definitions over the years with people more powerful than us having an effortless time bending that arc

in the end, just try not to be on the breaking end okay

I’m uneasy with the quote/idea “The long arc of the universe bends towards Justice.”

I don’t think it’s historically true, and I feel like it absolves us from our own responsibilities in the universe.

I’ve recently landed on:

“We must bend the long arc of the universe towards Justice.”