Something I Made While Dealing With My Own Stuff And Hoping Drawing This Would Pick Me Up Somehow. Maybe

Something I made while dealing with my own stuff and hoping drawing this would pick me up somehow. Maybe it worked.

FT my cat. His name is Mischief

Self improvement for infps, eiis

“Your strength lies in a deep understanding of people's values and relationships. You are interested in the motives of actions, personal and soulful qualities of others, their relations, which you can spend a lot of time watching and analyzing. After prolonged study and observation, you come closer to defining a person's character: who she really is and not how she presents herself.

The ultimate goal of your words and actions is creation of a positive, harmonious atmosphere in which others can develop their talents. You are good at comforting and mediating. You prefer not to focus on the negative actions, faults, flaws and wrongdoings of others. Instead you try to make them think about the moral foundation of their actions, the moral values of their lives, and exert influence on their conscience.

The main problem that worries you is your lack of resoluteness and assertiveness, inability to make demands of others in direct and willful form. There is a measure of caution and timidity that is inherent to your approach to some extent. You are emotionally sensitive to others and don't want to seem obtrusive.

You are prudent, undemanding, modest and cooperative. When you have been challenged, you don't always respond right away but prefer to conceal your grievances. You can protect those who are close to you, but don't readily do engage in this. You think that your offender needs to realize her mistakes and repent. If she does not, you avoid having contact with her.

A recommendation for you: develop your ability to defend yourself, directly express your grievances, do not show mercy towards those who take advantage of you and did not repent, don't allow yourself to be used for anyone's personal gain. Learn to say "no". Empathize less with strangers and pay more attention to people who are close to you.

Another one of your problems: careful and overly meticulous analysis of any issue, topics, or task down to the last detail, which slows you down and decreases your effectiveness. You may get bogged down by minor details of life and of your work. Then you hardly find time for rest and recreational activities in the company of your friends, which can negatively affect your health. You thoroughly and deeply analyze everything about a topic or issue that concerns you. The results of such an analysis are not always satisfactory, due to which you can feel sad and demotivated. You feel depressed by anything that goes beyond the scope of harmonious personal values and good human relations.

Don't be misled by your pity, as to not later feel ashamed of your actions and words and reprimand yourself in retrospect. Remember that true justice does not allow for compromises with conscience.

Accelerate the pace of your productive activities, focus your attention such that it slips by minor details and stops only on the main parts and the essentials. Try to teach yourself speed reading - it will help you learn to see the overall picture of the phenomenon or event. When analyzing a subject or particular field, don't strive to disambiguate and clarify everything. Strive to see the general picture. Knowledge of general norms and rules will relieve you from unnecessary waste of nerves and efforts on aspects that are of little consequence or interest to anyone.”

“Aside from myself, there was no sign of me.” ― Nicole Krauss

1.Rumi | 2.Holly Warburton | 3.Maggie Stiefvater | 4.Fyodor Dostoyevsky | 5.Nickie Zimov | 6.Clarice Lispector | 7.Nigel Van Wieck | 8.Georgia O’Keeffe | 9.Andrew Wyeth | 10.Mary Oliver | 11.Ilenia Tesoro | 12.Sylvia Plath | 13.Walt Whitman | 14.Nickie Zimov | 15.Jean-Paul Sartre | 16.Lydia Roberts | 17.Natalie Wee | 18.Lew Thomas | 19.Albert Camus

Self harm doesn’t always happen when a blade touches skin.

It’s skipping meals because you don’t feel like you deserve to eat today. It’s having sex because you want to be used or abused or defiled. It’s drinking recklessly because you might have the ‘courage’ do something stupid. It’s smoking - not because you need the nicotine - because you know it’s bad for you. It’s banging your head against a wall when you’re angry. It’s crossing the road without looking because you lowkey hope a car might hit you. It’s thinking about all the ways you could break a bone and make it look like an accident. It’s not taking painkillers because you want to suffer. It’s taking painkillers in excess because you know it’s dangerous. It’s walking home the more dangerous way because you’re kind of half hoping you’ll get attacked or raped or stabbed. It’s going for long walks at night and getting chilled to the bone and hoping that you get lost so that you can’t find your way back. It’s seeking out triggering material. It’s all the stupid little ways you punish yourself for existing.

Sometimes self harm happens when you put effort into depriving yourself of things you like or need, and sometimes it happens when you don’t put any effort into doing the things you like or need.

It’s a pattern of self-destructive behaviour, and it doesn’t only happen in one way.

This sort of behavior is classified as “para-suicidal” It’s putting yourself in a situation of danger or destruction with the intention of risking your safety rather than a direct attempt on your life. Kind of, leaving it all to chance? Also doing things to harm yourself or your self worth because you feel you deserve to feel the outcome of those actions.

Vanny: My demons are chasing me and they're doing the naruto run

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Bonnie: I told Freddy that his ears turn red when he lies and now I can directly tell when he's lying

Chica: How so?

Bonnie: I'll demonstrate

Bonnie: Freddy, are you helping Gregory sneak around?

Freddy, covering his ears with his hands: No

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Monty: You look good today Freddy, pro homo

Roxy: do you mean 'no homo'?

Monty: it's a new era, we support the gays

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Vanessa: I wish you could block people in real life

Freddy: Restraining order

Gregory: Murder

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Freddy: That's ridiculous, Monty doesn't have a crush on me

Chica: Yes he does

Roxy: Yes he does

Monty: Yes I do

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Gregory: tripped and fell in my heelies, jesus take the wheelies

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Chica: Having something or someone to care for can improve one's mental health!

Freddy: Like a kid?

Chica: well, yeah, but I was thinking more along the lines of a plant--

Bonnie: We already have Gregory and I don't see how it's improving my mental health in any way

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Chica: Not all dogs are "good boys"

Foxy and Roxy:

Chica: because some are "good girls"!

Foxy and Roxy: hehe aw

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Freddy: I accidentally went to bed with my paint on. Sometimes I think I'm stupid

Roxy: don't worry I do that all the time

Freddy: go to bed with your paint?

Roxy: Think you're stupid

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Gregory: Centaurs have six limbs, ergo they're insects. Discuss

Freddy: I-

Vanessa, throwing her hat on the ground: WE ARE NOT GETTING INTO THIS DISCUSSION AGAIN

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Chica: Okay so you're driving and Monty and Gregory walk onto the track. Quick, what do you hit?

Roxy: Definitely Monty

Chica: The brakes, you hit the brakes

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-in response to children fighting in the back seat-

Chica: -ignores them, humming to jazzercise tapes-

Monty: Thank god I have joint custody, I'm already tired of y'all

Freddy: Kids, stop arguing or I'll turn this car around!

Roxy: STOP TALKING OR I'LL CRASH THIS VEHICLE INTO A FUCKING WALL

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Bonnie: God give me patience

Foxy: I think you mean "give me strength"

Bonnie: If God gave me strength you'd all be dead

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Sun: Gregory, the exercise was to bring in something important to you

Gregory: yeah, and I did

Sun: I meant an object, not Freddy

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Chica: Do you have a bag I can borrow?

Bonnie: the only bags I have are the ones under my eyes, and they're specifically designed to carry my burdens

Chica: Literally all you had to do was say no

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Sun: Octopi have the ability to blend in with anything! When they do this, it's called. . ?

Gregory: Octo-lie

Moon: Wrong, its metachrosis.

Vanessa: Mocktopus

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Monty: I could kill you if I wanted

Bonnie: Yeah? So could Gregory

Bonnie: So could a dog

Bonnie: So could the weight of my existence

Bonnie: you're not special.

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Chica: Hey guys Gregory is in the pool and I don't think he's water proof

Bonnie: I think she's trying to say that Gregory is drowning

Freddy: Oh okay

Freddy:

Freddy: WHAT

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