This Is Your Daily Reminder That If You're In A Relationship With Someone And You're Both Polyam And

this is your daily reminder that if you're in a relationship with someone and you're both polyam and both of you wanna add people to the relationship, then it is a polyam relationship even though for society you are in a monogamous relationship.

like no matter how monogamous the relationship may seem to society, if you're both polyam then your relationship is polyam too!

fuck amatonormativity and fuck mononormativity!

can we stop stealing ‘coercively assigned [sex] at birth’ from intersex people

we already have afab and amab. let intersex people have some fucking terminology for the horrific ways that society enforces strict gender norms upon them. let intersex people have terminology for forced surgeries and hormone therapy and all the other things society forces upon them

stop stealing intersex terminology. just because we are trans doesn’t mean we can steal the words that intersex people are using for their unique and specific experiences

why do i always find tons of polyam people online but none irl? do y'all also struggle with this? 😭😭😭

just to make things clear: kissing, hugging, holding hands, and way more stuff are only romantic if they are romantic for you. no space for discussion here, that's it

I need sex ed that is specific and detailed for various kinds of intersex variations aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

it's so awkward when my mono friends ask me what to do when they're crushing on 2 people and my polyam ass is like: date both? 👁👄👁