⛤𝓽𝓱𝓮𝔂/𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓶⛤ 🏳️🌈 𝓷𝓫, 𝓹𝓪𝓷 & 𝓹𝓸𝓵𝔂𝓪𝓶 🏳️⚧️ "𝔂𝓸𝓾'𝓵𝓵 𝓱𝓪𝓿𝓮 𝓽𝓸 𝓮𝓪𝓽 𝓶𝓮 𝓪𝓼 𝓲 𝓪𝓶" 🤟💅💋 ✩₊˚.⋆☾⋆⁺₊✧
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lesbians who say "fuck terfs <3" and then immediately say "trans mascs, men and trans women who are also men can't be butches/lesbians/dykes" and "i'm a lesbian, men dni" and also viciously try to remove trans women who are also men, transmascs & men from lesbian, sapphic and dyke spaces...
hey guess what: you're terfs. try again.
why do i always find tons of polyam people online but none irl? do y'all also struggle with this? 😭😭😭
I need sex ed that is specific and detailed for various kinds of intersex variations aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
can we stop stealing ‘coercively assigned [sex] at birth’ from intersex people
we already have afab and amab. let intersex people have some fucking terminology for the horrific ways that society enforces strict gender norms upon them. let intersex people have terminology for forced surgeries and hormone therapy and all the other things society forces upon them
stop stealing intersex terminology. just because we are trans doesn’t mean we can steal the words that intersex people are using for their unique and specific experiences
Also the whole "polyamorous people are FORCING their sick lifestyle down my THROAT by literally just existing and asking to not be treated like garbage and gain some legal protections" thing is a) not true and b) genuinely just "legalizing gay marriage is forcing Me, A Heterosexual, to get gay married"-style homophobia repackaged for a group it's acceptable to punch down at on here. You all make me sick
Why are you tagging aspec tags on posts where you talk about your attractions..
hey! how you doing? the post i made wasn't even about an attraction i was feeling, it was just my curiosity. however i tagged it with aspec tags cause typically most of allos feel tertiary attraction but don't care about it cause they're too focused on romantic and sexual attraction. i'm an allo myself but i treat every attraction and relationship the same. so as i had that doubt and google didn't gimme any answers, i decided to ask it here and i tagged aspec folks cause y'all typically pay attention to tertiary attraction. i'm sorry if it made some people uncomfortable, it wasn't my purpose. have a great day!
i love xenogenders because they reveal how arbitrary gender symbolism already is.
we can say ‘my gender is space, cool rocks, and curiosity.’ 👽
is that any more strange than saying, ‘femininity is empathy, flowers, and the color pink’? 🌸
gender is what we make of it, whether practical, picturesque, poetry or prose <3 💖
it's so awkward when my mono friends ask me what to do when they're crushing on 2 people and my polyam ass is like: date both? 👁👄👁
am i the only one that never gets what people mean by non-men? like do you mean any gender beside binary men? or are partially men people(like demiboys, paraboys, boyfluxs) also included in "non-men"? like i genuinely have a hard time understanding what people mean by non-men and non-women 😭😭😭
men and non-men as just another attempt to create a binary
this is exorsexism.
hey my dear humans! if you're dysphoric because people keep misgendering you, i have a tip for you!
if you have a notebook with you, write sentences in which you're using your pronouns. if you don't have a notebook with you, just think about sentences in which you're using your pronouns.
this can be really helpful and this helps me a lot when i'm dysphoric about getting misgendered.
have a great day!
for people who don't understand why someone would identify as a bi lesbian here is a list of why they'd do it:
• individuals who use the sam(split attraction model), for example, someone who is a biromantic lesbian or someone who is a lesbiromantic bisexual or even someone who is an aro bi lesbian(they don't feel romantic attraction but feel sexual attraction towards women and feel tertiary attraction towards more than one gender for example).
• individuals who are both bi and lesbian due to being abro or a system.
• people who prioritize their attraction to women.
• questioning between both or being in the gray area between both.
• being duosexual or otherwise amplusic.
• being mspec but not being attracted to men so you still use the "non-men attracted to non-men" definition.
• attraction to multigender people causing one to consider their attraction to both lesbian and mspec.
• lesbians who are attracted to nonbinary people who aren't comfortable being included in lesbian attraction so they fall in the bi part instead.
• being lesbiflexible.
however the reason behind why someone uses a certain label is none of your business and it doesn't harm you cause how tf does someone's happiness harm you?
So what makes a bi-lesbian? Why not just be bi?
what makes a bi lesbian is being both bi and lesbian. the reason not to "just be bi" is that we're also lesbian.
Cishet aspecs are queer.
Cishet aromantics are queer. Cishet asexuals are queer. Cishet aplatonics are queer. Cishet afamilials are queer. Cishet anattractionals are queer.
Aspecs are queer as hell and excluding them only isolates queer people from their community.
this is your daily reminder that aspec people who are also cishet are queer because they're aspec. like do y'all have a brain?
saw that one “are cishet aro men queer” poll that’s going around and like. I’m not gonna reblog it bc the results are frankly disappointing and the discourse going on in the tags is really dumb but, unfriendly reminder, if you’re aro/acephobic you’re a loser lmao…. bye. anyway hi aro men you are very valid and I think you’re super awesome and cool ‼️
this is your daily reminder that if you're in a relationship with someone and you're both polyam and both of you wanna add people to the relationship, then it is a polyam relationship even though for society you are in a monogamous relationship.
like no matter how monogamous the relationship may seem to society, if you're both polyam then your relationship is polyam too!
fuck amatonormativity and fuck mononormativity!
